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By *rmarcus007 OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

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just this minute!

carms

Hello all.

I've needed to do this for years.

Can anyone give me advise in my profile.

How does it come across.

I'm trying to meet ladies and couples.

Any advise

Many thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It comes across ok to me

I personally don't like being referred to as a 'female' but that's just me

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By *rmarcus007 OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

Is fem better. What word would you prefer ?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's very abrupt

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By *rmarcus007 OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

Thanks for the comment. I'll try and elaborate.

Can I ask what you look for in a profile. What charachteristics do you like to hear about?

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Tailoring your profile to suit people will only discount you from other people.

Make your profile your own. Make it a reflection of you.

This will attract those looking for the same and filter out those who don't.

You can't please everyone!

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By *edgirlWoman
over a year ago

Berkhamsted

I like to see more than a cock pic (without having to be 'friends') and more info generally. Expanding your profile text will show more of your personality and will be more likely to attract people.

Try looking at a few other profiles to get tips on what u can add x

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

Few things for us stand out:

1. Everyone here wants something different. Saying you know the ropes implies you think you know everything. The fact you're in this forum asking for help would suggest you don't know the ropes. It's an unnecessary cocky line.

2. Talking about pushing boundaries is usually something you'd do when you're in a comfortable and established arrangement with someone. It doesn't need to be mentioned in your profile unless it's a hard requirement for you, but then you need a very different profile overall.

3. The fact you can accommodate is great. Stating about your private house sounds cocky. If you mean you can usually accommodate because you live alone, say that.

4. You don't mention anything at all about what you like, other than #2 which is off putting for most.

5. Your dick pic is nice, but you need other pics too.

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By *rmarcus007 OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

Thank you

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Text is too basic and doesn't show your warmth and personality.

Pics are too fragmented - better to add some full body physique shots, to give a better feel for how you look.

Overall, men need to sell themselves here, especially what they are bringing to the deal.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"

By _rmarcus007 OP Find posts by _rmarcus007 Man

just this minute!

carms

Hello all.

I've needed to do this for years.

Can anyone give me advise in my profile.

How does it come across.

I'm trying to meet ladies and couples.

Any advise

Many thanks "

Hey. For what it's worth, the own house thing jumped out at me. Apart making you great husband material, obviously, I did wonder why you mentioned it? Good luck.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

More recent body pics would be good. Move the cock pics to private.

Elaborate on what you’re looking for and what you have to offer.

What would a first meet be for you? Describe what this would be.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It doesn't tell us much about you and what you offer op and what you're into.

Also maybe some more up to date pics ,as yours are over 4 years old.

Miss

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

22 hours and you have already taken some of the advice to heart, so you are already 1000% more receptive than the usual people.

Maybe a little more in the bio, something real about yourself and maybe a couple more pictures, preferably in focus, maybe a nice suit, maybe a bulge in tight underwear xxx

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By *rmarcus007 OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

Thank you everybody

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

only you know you...

advice will get you a boring profile like all those that have asked before you ... be bold be you..

these forums are a tiny tiny part of fab where alot dont even meet ...

your profile is your to do what you want with and gives a window for others to look in ..if you cant describe yourself and what your seeking then truthfully op you'll get no where .. sorry blunt talk but its the truth ..99% of fab is men that includes all the fake women and couples profiles in that small % thats left half of them dont meet at all or club only .... its a very tought scene for men ... hope you have thick skin as rejection will be the norm....

just remember no body knows it all and everybody is different ... consent is everything ....theres no golden rules apart from no is no at all times ...

however get it right you'll have a great time ...

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

You need to adjust your age range 18- 99.. seriously you'd meet up with a 99 yr old lol..

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By *rmarcus007 OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

Thank you

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Been reading this thread and like all the advise being given to this gentleman. I've recently been trying to freshen up my profile so without meaning to being y jumping on the band wagon, any advise on my profile is greatly appreciated.

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By *ojo2joWoman
over a year ago

Penclawdd


"Been reading this thread and like all the advise being given to this gentleman. I've recently been trying to freshen up my profile so without meaning to being y jumping on the band wagon, any advise on my profile is greatly appreciated. "

My advice would be to start your own thread of yours and OP will get confused.

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By *rmarcus007 OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

Go ahead mate. It's an open forum as far as I'm concerned

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Been reading this thread and like all the advise being given to this gentleman. I've recently been trying to freshen up my profile so without meaning to being y jumping on the band wagon, any advise on my profile is greatly appreciated. "

Forum etiquette, start your own thread

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

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