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By *aughtyLittlePics OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belper

Stuck at work and the nerves are really getting to me.

Meanwhile other half well… it’s like just another ordinary day!

Wish I had the day off and could go for a walk

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By *uckchowmeinCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

You will be fine. Just relax. Ron and his team are brilliant.

Wish you a cracking night

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

It'll be fine. Once you've been you will wonder what you were nervous about. Just like any other club you've been to except some people are wearing less, talking about stuff you wouldn't hear normally, and occasionally having sex.

Have fun

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By *odkajemWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Assuming it's The Attic you're going to you'll have a great time as its very friendly but they are also one of the clubs who give you a tour round which is a great way to find your feet and have any questions answered to put your mind at rest

You may also get the tour with others which means you have instant people to chat to afterwards as well, easy to chat in the bar queue too. Just think of it as a bar with better people in it!

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By *aughtyLittlePics OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belper


"You will be fine. Just relax. Ron and his team are brilliant.

Wish you a cracking night "

thanks!

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By *annaCouple
over a year ago

Canterbury


"You will be fine. Just relax. Ron and his team are brilliant.

Wish you a cracking night "

Yep exactly a bar with less dickheads in

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By *aughtyLittlePics OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belper


"It'll be fine. Once you've been you will wonder what you were nervous about. Just like any other club you've been to except some people are wearing less, talking about stuff you wouldn't hear normally, and occasionally having sex.

Have fun "

Not been to a regular club since 2003… and that was in Prague the walls were moving… and I mean actually moving…

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By *aughtyLittlePics OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belper


"You will be fine. Just relax. Ron and his team are brilliant.

Wish you a cracking night

Yep exactly a bar with less dickheads in "

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By *aughtyLittlePics OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belper


"You will be fine. Just relax. Ron and his team are brilliant.

Wish you a cracking night

Yep exactly a bar with less dickheads in "

sounds perfect

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By *aughtyLittlePics OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belper


"Assuming it's The Attic you're going to you'll have a great time as its very friendly but they are also one of the clubs who give you a tour round which is a great way to find your feet and have any questions answered to put your mind at rest

You may also get the tour with others which means you have instant people to chat to afterwards as well, easy to chat in the bar queue too. Just think of it as a bar with better people in it! "

It is - that would be perfect

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

Hope you both have the best time.

First time we went to a club we sat in the car outside too nervous to go in for at least 10 minutes !!!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"It'll be fine. Once you've been you will wonder what you were nervous about. Just like any other club you've been to except some people are wearing less, talking about stuff you wouldn't hear normally, and occasionally having sex.

Have fun

Not been to a regular club since 2003… and that was in Prague the walls were moving… and I mean actually moving…"

Well hopefully it won't be the walls moving tonight

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By *uzanne and RickyCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

We’d like to but scared we bump onto someone we know. Due to jobs that wouldn’t be good.

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By *aughtyLittlePics OP   Couple
over a year ago

Belper


"We’d like to but scared we bump onto someone we know. Due to jobs that wouldn’t be good. "

We actually did bump into someone we knew...

Someone we've known for a long time (but not seen for 10 years) However they know all of our family and some of our friends. We also have sensitive jobs.

So what happened: Well they called out to us and came up to us and we had a hug. The reassured us on the night discretion is everything and throughout the night we said hello and had a few chats.

We also messaged afterwards.

Having been through that worry now we realise its really not an issue. Everyone we met whether they were interested in us or not was really friendly and were all there for the same thing because we all share common interests outlooks and goals

I think if you did meet someone you know it they would be be cool

Even if it's someone you don't get along with there is not much they can say... and you can simply deny it and avoid that particular club.

We had a great time. I hope you get to enjoy a club one day

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By *uzanne and RickyCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian


"We’d like to but scared we bump onto someone we know. Due to jobs that wouldn’t be good.

We actually did bump into someone we knew...

Someone we've known for a long time (but not seen for 10 years) However they know all of our family and some of our friends. We also have sensitive jobs.

So what happened: Well they called out to us and came up to us and we had a hug. The reassured us on the night discretion is everything and throughout the night we said hello and had a few chats.

We also messaged afterwards.

Having been through that worry now we realise its really not an issue. Everyone we met whether they were interested in us or not was really friendly and were all there for the same thing because we all share common interests outlooks and goals

I think if you did meet someone you know it they would be be cool

Even if it's someone you don't get along with there is not much they can say... and you can simply deny it and avoid that particular club.

We had a great time. I hope you get to enjoy a club one day "

Thanks for this.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"We’d like to but scared we bump onto someone we know. Due to jobs that wouldn’t be good.

We actually did bump into someone we knew...

Someone we've known for a long time (but not seen for 10 years) However they know all of our family and some of our friends. We also have sensitive jobs.

So what happened: Well they called out to us and came up to us and we had a hug. The reassured us on the night discretion is everything and throughout the night we said hello and had a few chats.

We also messaged afterwards.

Having been through that worry now we realise its really not an issue. Everyone we met whether they were interested in us or not was really friendly and were all there for the same thing because we all share common interests outlooks and goals

I think if you did meet someone you know it they would be be cool

Even if it's someone you don't get along with there is not much they can say... and you can simply deny it and avoid that particular club.

We had a great time. I hope you get to enjoy a club one day "

Everyone is there for the same reason and everyone should offer the same discretion

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