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"Who pays for the hotel. My past experience was 50/50 but one woman I was talking to told me she has loads of offers and never pays for the hotel. Is that normal? Thanks " No best to go 50/50 and put all names on booking | |||
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"If its someone your not too familiar with then surely it should all be discussed before the meet to avoid any confusion and embarrassment. " This. If you can’t talk about paying for the hotel, how you going to talk about sex? | |||
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"Who pays for the hotel. My past experience was 50/50 but one woman I was talking to told me she has loads of offers and never pays for the hotel. Is that normal? Thanks " If they’re insisting on a hotel and she was happy with accom or club then I’d expect the guy to pay for it. | |||
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"I would always expect to go 5050" I would be the same, but probably make sure its agreed prior to meet | |||
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"Who pays for the hotel. My past experience was 50/50 but one woman I was talking to told me she has loads of offers and never pays for the hotel. Is that normal? Thanks " She sounds hilarious! Um, no. | |||
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"Who pays for the hotel. My past experience was 50/50 but one woman I was talking to told me she has loads of offers and never pays for the hotel. Is that normal? Thanks " I’d leave her with all of the amazing offers! 50/50 all the way, unless the guy offers to pay once a hotel meet is discussed. Personally, I’d always book the hotel, place both names on the booking, it’s then drama free and not even a discussion point; but that’s me! I’m not meeting anybody who’s debating the financial specifics before we’ve even met! | |||
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"Who pays for the hotel. My past experience was 50/50 but one woman I was talking to told me she has loads of offers and never pays for the hotel. Is that normal? Thanks " its usual for the man to pay | |||
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"As a gentleman I’ve always accepted it has a social norm that I pay for the hotel. My friend with benefits always says let me pay but I let her take me for dinner and lunches instead. We’ve stayed all over the UK and if there is a mutual Understanding, it’s a great deal of fun. You can make as much mess as you want and order snacks at 3am…..perfect!" You want another fwb?? Asking for a friend lol | |||
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"As a gentleman I’ve always accepted it has a social norm that I pay for the hotel. My friend with benefits always says let me pay but I let her take me for dinner and lunches instead. We’ve stayed all over the UK and if there is a mutual Understanding, it’s a great deal of fun. You can make as much mess as you want and order snacks at 3am…..perfect! You want another fwb?? Asking for a friend lol " My my, tell me about this friend of yours, You can whisper it to me if your shy | |||
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"She's imaginary, but I'm happy to take her place " Stepping in for her are you, such a selfless soul, only a true friend would do such a thing Tell me about these benefits haha x | |||
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"She's imaginary, but I'm happy to take her place Stepping in for her are you, such a selfless soul, only a true friend would do such a thing Tell me about these benefits haha x" You get to pay for the hotel, and help me make a mess in it | |||
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"Guy usually pays for 1:1 meets. I don’t really recall ever paying for a hotel for a 1:1 meet. Offered but never been taken up on it. " This! | |||
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"She's imaginary, but I'm happy to take her place Stepping in for her are you, such a selfless soul, only a true friend would do such a thing Tell me about these benefits haha x You get to pay for the hotel, and help me make a mess in it " Talk about an offer you can’t refuse! | |||
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" Tell me about these benefits haha x You get to pay for the hotel, and help me make a mess in it Talk about an offer you can’t refuse! " | |||
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"We’ve been invited to a hotel and the guy was paying, and we have invited a guy to a hotel and we paid. Seems easier this way, as you then get to decide if you are with a cheapskate and just drive by, or you choose a place you want to stay in without making someone else pay for you." This is a common theme, I just find it you really want to spend time and chill with someone and have that connection then you do what you need to do, plus it’s just good manners | |||
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