FabSwingers.com forum: Women playing away

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Married men get a bad press on here for going behind their partners back, but do we think many women are on Ab Fab playing away?

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I don’t judge anyone…

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I reckon so, they just keep it under the radar so are unlikely to out themselves

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business "

I agree. It's just that sometimes they make it other people's business by publicising it and asking for opinions.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i dont judge others ... they make their choices so they are responsible for themselves

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business

I agree. It's just that sometimes they make it other people's business by publicising it and asking for opinions. "

Very true ,Of course women do it also but You never see a woman making a woe is me post or talking shit about their husband .They tend to just go about their business quietly..

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

"Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business

I agree. It's just that sometimes they make it other people's business by publicising it and asking for opinions.

Very true ,Of course women do it also but You never see a woman making a woe is me post or talking shit about their husband .They tend to just go about their business quietly.."

Agree and whilst it is a generalisation I think the women tend to be more upfront about it.

Some people are ok with seeing married/attached some aren't. Just be open about your situation.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

I wouldn’t want to meet anyone that’s playing away, regardless of gender.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business

I agree. It's just that sometimes they make it other people's business by publicising it and asking for opinions.

Very true ,Of course women do it also but You never see a woman making a woe is me post or talking shit about their husband .They tend to just go about their business quietly.."

If women do publicise it they're judged far less harshly than the men. Men and women try to understand why they're doing it, attribute blame to circumstances or their partner, if they say their marriage is sexless they'll get men saying they can't understand why because she's so beautiful etc. Men tend to be told to masturbate and do more washing up. The eternal double standard

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Given men vastly outnumber women on site then accurately judging the proportion of those engaged in illicit meets by gender is going to be quite difficult.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Given men vastly outnumber women on site then accurately judging the proportion of those engaged in illicit meets by gender is going to be quite difficult.

That's very true.

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

"Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business

I agree. It's just that sometimes they make it other people's business by publicising it and asking for opinions.

Very true ,Of course women do it also but You never see a woman making a woe is me post or talking shit about their husband .They tend to just go about their business quietly..

Most of the time if a woman posts a woe is me post them it's followed up with "poor you" or "he's mad" or "leave the loser". A guy posts the same and it's followed up with "think about her needs" or "she probably shagging someone else". Sometimes the double standards on fab are crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just me but the only girls I seem to get any kind of rapport with are married themselves, we're both here for the sane reasons it turns out lol

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Given men vastly outnumber women on site then accurately judging the proportion of those engaged in illicit meets by gender is going to be quite difficult.

Based on real life experience over the years clear that lot of ladies are married - some say upfront but would say most don't and it becomes clear later. You are right that who knows on proportion men vs ladies but it is certainly a significant proportion of the ladies. And as commented above I do think they are judged less harshly on Forum although Forum is tiny bit of Fab so guess it doesn't matter really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you will get women doing the same but they don’t advertise as much like men do or not what we have seen anyway.

It’s up to them what they do on here but personally we would avoid anyone doing this.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I had a girlfriend using fab to cheat on me that's actually how I found out about fab we broke up and after a few weeks drowning myself in pity I joined the site and have been on and off since always came back though fab draws you in lol

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

There's loads ,some on the forums.

Difference is they don't start threads about it or draw attention to it I think.

Miss

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business "

I agree as long as they're upfront with the people they're meeting

Miss

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By *andydan69Man
over a year ago

south west nr you mmm

Women are better at it

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

Meeting married women seems so much more exciting knowing there husband is not performing very well and the women are more discreet about it.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We've encountered a fair few women on the scene playing away. Whoever you are it's not our job to police your morality. It's not exactly an endearing feature but we take people as we find them.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Of course there are. There are liars and cheats across all genders.

I'd prefer not to be involved, honesty is important to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeting married women seems so much more exciting knowing there husband is not performing very well and the women are more discreet about it."

100% agree.

They also have a tendency to let their hair down even more.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Meeting married women seems so much more exciting knowing there husband is not performing very well and the women are more discreet about it.

100% agree.

They also have a tendency to let their hair down even more."

How do you know they're letting their hair down more and their husbands aren't performing very well?

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

West London

Probably quite a lot of women are. But hey, this isn't really the place to judge. We're not bothered if people are, it's their business.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

There's quite a few we've turned down several.

Cheating isn't hot regardless of gender.

Mrs

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

From my bio

‘Married but it’s complicated. Very,very complicated. If my status & the complications that come with me bother you then please pass me by.’

I’m honest in saying I’m married & also it’s not for everyone. If people want to know my situation I will tell them. I’m not hiding the fact I’m married.

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

West London

"From my bio

‘Married but it’s complicated. Very,very complicated. If my status & the complications that come with me bother you then please pass me by.’

I’m honest in saying I’m married & also it’s not for everyone. If people want to know my situation I will tell them. I’m not hiding the fact I’m married."
fair play for being so honest.

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By *mDeethatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

"From my bio

‘Married but it’s complicated. Very,very complicated. If my status & the complications that come with me bother you then please pass me by.’

I’m honest in saying I’m married & also it’s not for everyone. If people want to know my situation I will tell them. I’m not hiding the fact I’m married.fair play for being so honest. "

I won’t hide the fact that I’m married. I leave it up the individual if they choose to meet me after the fact. There’s no sob story either in my situation & whilst I don’t broadcast it I will divulge if asked.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We have and will continue to meet married people, we do prefer that they are upfront about it

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business

I agree. It's just that sometimes they make it other people's business by publicising it and asking for opinions. "

People should be more focused on whatever they intend on doing and not what others are because it doesn't effect them... People who do this have far too much time on their hands

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I equally judge any sex cheating if that’s helps

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The difference is women tend to do it discretly while some men like to scream it from the roof tops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes you will get women doing the same but they don’t advertise as much like men do or not what we have seen anyway.

It’s up to them what they do on here but personally we would avoid anyone doing this. "

There are shedloads of videos online with women talking about their body count, cheating on their men etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always liked the idea as long as I'm told about it, very naughty

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business "

agreed

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By *addynorthantsCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Plenty of women have the opportunity to do so, more than most men so yes. Plenty do.

Personally I'd say it's a bad look no matter who it is, especially those who have gotten married to not be honest about what they wanted from life before getting into that position.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Meeting married women seems so much more exciting knowing there husband is not performing very well and the women are more discreet about it.

100% agree.

They also have a tendency to let their hair down even more."

And this is why married women are more accepted than married men!

Guys are more likely to go for it due to lack of choice (judging by the hundreds of we don't get any messages posts) women are inundated with offers so don't need to choose the married guys. Plenty of truly single guys to choose from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No interest in carrying on this conversation in my dms x

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Both do it, it's their choice and no body else's business

agreed"

Agree too

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I don't know how many are OP but I know my life has been enhanced by the interaction with the ones I have met.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

It’s a real tough one to be honest because the judgement people make on other people without knowing their circumstances can be quite harsh.

As a cuckold couple we found our level and honesty with each other quite early on in our marriage, perhaps if we hadn’t we wouldn’t be together now !

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