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being normal don't work ?

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By *ucker33 OP   Man
over a year ago

west midlands

Do you have to act like a twat on here to get replies from women ?

They all say we want a nice bloke but when ur nice they blank ya so wtf ?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I think you'll find the twats get ignored as well. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nice and I get some lol

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Move on, there are lots of lovely ladies looking for nice guys..... just turn the other cheek !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...i'm not sure posting this is going to assist your cause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there is a fine line between normal and dull. I find 'hi wanna chat' messages normal but also dull. I'm certainly not looking for any twats. Females do get quite a bit of choice with the number of men on the site, so sometimes you need to stand out from the crowd and be a bit different.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you just weren't their type, we are allowed to have preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I just be myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This nice and normal bloke gets replies and more. Stop complaining, the ladies find that less than normal and unattractive.

Don't be fooled into thinking just because you're nice means women will be queuing round the block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have to act like a twat on here to get replies from women ?

They all say we want a nice bloke but when ur nice they blank ya so wtf ? "

Don't change, to many ladies and gents are indecisive. Its classic them and not you.

A true gent always gets recognised sooner rather than later . Promise you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe ur just not getting the ppl that are wanting to meet as they dont/cant accom and u dont?

bike pics on the whole are very unappealing...like any vehicle pic I think... sure u can get to A to B in a hurry...fantastic..

theres other things u can do like attending clubs etc..as they are in ur interests

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By *ucker33 OP   Man
over a year ago

west midlands

I tend to offer more than hi let's chat lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to offer more than hi let's chat lmao "
Try not to be negative.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

The shouty warning might put them off as well

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By *ucker33 OP   Man
over a year ago

west midlands

I never am lifes to short for that I'm happy go lucky but lucky fucked off ha ha

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By *ucker33 OP   Man
over a year ago

west midlands

What Warning ?

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By *ucker33 OP   Man
over a year ago

west midlands

What Warning ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What Warning ? "

Think they meant the pointless Sydney uni one in capitals!!

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By *igerstyle2k2Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire


"Do you have to act like a twat on here to get replies from women ?

They all say we want a nice bloke but when ur nice they blank ya so wtf ?

Don't change, to many ladies and gents are indecisive. Its classic them and not you.

A true gent always gets recognised sooner rather than later . Promise you"

madame ki, lovely profile and pics!

I'd like to send you a message but I can't as I'm not a site supporter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have to act like a twat on here to get replies from women ?

They all say we want a nice bloke but when ur nice they blank ya so wtf ?

Don't change, to many ladies and gents are indecisive. Its classic them and not you.

A true gent always gets recognised sooner rather than later . Promise you"

The lady is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn how to write - woo with your words. Don't use text speak. Avoid 'hun' or 'bbz'. Spellcheck your message. Be grammatically correct. Sound intelligent (if you are). Why I would countenance spending time with people who can't be bothered to type two more letters to ensure that the word is correct (your rather than 'ur') is beyond me.

Ok so I'm a grammar/spelling pedant but a) people like what they like so being a twat or being a 'nice' guy will attract those that like that and b) as one million of these forum posts state, there are way more men than women.

Good luck......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have to change who you are to get laid you are doing it wrong...just being yourself and being confident in who you is more important than getting your end away

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