FabSwingers.com forum: Sending dms to women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I’m starting to get used to approaching women, it’s a bit daunting to make the first move.

Specially as I don’t have any verifications, I could get some as I know a fair few people on the scene but I’d rather just start up fresh and go from there as I was part of a popular couple on the club scene and now we are not together I wanted to leave that in the past.

Perhaps I should just go to the women’s only events or bi nights. I would prefer a 1:1 in private rather than a club night, perhaps I should just go to the clubs and from there anyone I meet if they want to meet privately I could ask.

I’m just thinking outloud here

Any other women who are just interested women think this way ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

I don't really have any advice OP but I wanted to send a message of empathy in that it does sound difficult.

I'm sure once you're back in the swing of things it will work out.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

It is difficult. If I'm sent a message unless it is obvious not from female. I read the profile and see if there is any alignment there, then maybe respond.

If I send message I will give little information about myself and why I messaged/replied - usually if there is some alignment between us.

Chat (chatroom) is a good way to get a conversation going, cam. just try to ignore all the twats and just focus on the person you are interested in.

In the end its what works for you. Hope this helps

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is difficult. If I'm sent a message unless it is obvious not from female. I read the profile and see if there is any alignment there, then maybe respond.

If I send message I will give little information about myself and why I messaged/replied - usually if there is some alignment between us.

Chat (chatroom) is a good way to get a conversation going, cam. just try to ignore all the twats and just focus on the person you are interested in.

In the end its what works for you. Hope this helps"

Thank you, I am getting used to approaching women, I never really needed too before, they have always approached me. Even outside of the scene I could have several lined up if I wanted and I say this without trying to give myself a big head, it’s just how it is due to my dashing personality

I am thinking going to events will be the easiest way for me as I was part of the club scene all through the last decade and never had any problems finding playmates there.

As for dms… i will keep looking for a curvy goddess who won’t by shy in meeting a cheeky lesbian

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Why bother with here if you can get women elsewhere?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think clubs are a great way to meet people, then take it from there if you want to move onto a private meet.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

"Why bother with here if you can get women elsewhere?"

Agree most of my encounters have been outside of here, my pastimes, pubs, festivals. Maybe its a air I put out or just fine tuned to their thought and mine.

Nice ladies here and maybe but I suspect most encounters will be outside of FAB.

I wish you every success in finding what you are looking for

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why bother with here if you can get women elsewhere?"

Because the women I can get elsewhere want relationships and catch feelings and I don’t want that.

I was part of the scene all through the last decade so this is my safe space to enjoy sex without worrying.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why bother with here if you can get women elsewhere?

Agree most of my encounters have been outside of here, my pastimes, pubs, festivals. Maybe its a air I put out or just fine tuned to their thought and mine.

Nice ladies here and maybe but I suspect most encounters will be outside of FAB.

I wish you every success in finding what you are looking for

Thank you my lovely

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread