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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been dropping hints to my wife for a while about her seeing other men. It wasnt a no, but it definitely wasn't a yes haha

We were away recently. I left her outside a shop with the dog while i went in. When i came back out she was blushing, said someone had asked her to the pub for a drink.

I told her next time she is offered to say yes, i will pick her up after. She just thinks I'm joking.

Think she needs more convincing.

Also, first time - sorry if this is the wrong forum

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By *ungdave1Man
over a year ago

middlewich

Sounds good, is she a horny lady?

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By *incsfun42Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Sounds and a big plus not a definite no, maybe wary because not sure how serious you are

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By *he chef 45Man
over a year ago

Banbridge

Take her to the pub and have pre arranged for a guy from fab to join you and take it from there

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry


"I have been dropping hints to my wife for a while about her seeing other men. It wasnt a no, but it definitely wasn't a yes haha

We were away recently. I left her outside a shop with the dog while i went in. When i came back out she was blushing, said someone had asked her to the pub for a drink. I know this feeling I’ve wanted this for so long with my wife, but sadly, I feel like I’m banging my head against the wall. It’s a shame, as I only want her pleasured.

I told her next time she is offered to say yes, i will pick her up after. She just thinks I'm joking.

Think she needs more convincing.

Also, first time - sorry if this is the wrong forum"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take her to the pub and have pre arranged for a guy from fab to join you and take it from there "

That would be very interesting

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By *ig daddy 1969Man
over a year ago

manchester

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've tried to reply to everyone sorry, I didn't expect to be that popular lmao

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By *ig daddy 1969Man
over a year ago

manchester

More

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Take her to the pub and have pre arranged for a guy from fab to join you and take it from there

That would be very interesting "

Don't do that. Don't set your wife up with a stranger when she knows nothing about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More"

More?

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Tell me more

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By *att3427Man
over a year ago

D2

Totally agree with Nicecouple561, not a situation to put anyone in. If she doesn't like the idea of meeting through here then work with the fun when out. That attention when flirting can be great and can lead to wonderful things if you are both in the right space.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Take her to the pub and have pre arranged for a guy from fab to join you and take it from there

That would be very interesting

Don't do that. Don't set your wife up with a stranger when she knows nothing about it.

"

Consent is sexy!

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Take her to the pub and have pre arranged for a guy from fab to join you and take it from there

That would be very interesting

Don't do that. Don't set your wife up with a stranger when she knows nothing about it.

"

Agree with this. Don’t do that. Just have an open and honest conversation with her. She may think you are joking and the only way to know to know is to speak to her but this would be awful.

Mrs

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

How luckis she...getting an offer before she'd even consider doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been dropping hints to my wife for a while about her seeing other men. It wasnt a no, but it definitely wasn't a yes haha

We were away recently. I left her outside a shop with the dog while i went in. When i came back out she was blushing, said someone had asked her to the pub for a drink.

I told her next time she is offered to say yes, i will pick her up after. She just thinks I'm joking.

Think she needs more convincing.

Also, first time - sorry if this is the wrong forum"

Convincing about what? Why not discuss it honestly and openly.

If she says no, accept and respect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take her to the pub and have pre arranged for a guy from fab to join you and take it from there "

This is absolutely disgusting! Have you got no idea about consent??

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I have been dropping hints to my wife for a while about her seeing other men. It wasnt a no, but it definitely wasn't a yes haha

We were away recently. I left her outside a shop with the dog while i went in. When i came back out she was blushing, said someone had asked her to the pub for a drink.

I told her next time she is offered to say yes, i will pick her up after. She just thinks I'm joking.

Think she needs more convincing.

Also, first time - sorry if this is the wrong forum

Convincing about what? Why not discuss it honestly and openly.

If she says no, accept and respect that. "

This 100%

If she doesn't want to ,you shouldn't try and convince her op.

I despair at the amount of these sorts of threads that regularly get posted .

Miss

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"I have been dropping hints to my wife for a while about her seeing other men. It wasnt a no, but it definitely wasn't a yes haha

We were away recently. I left her outside a shop with the dog while i went in. When i came back out she was blushing, said someone had asked her to the pub for a drink.

I told her next time she is offered to say yes, i will pick her up after. She just thinks I'm joking.

Think she needs more convincing.

Also, first time - sorry if this is the wrong forum"

There's no good answer to this post.

Best bet is show her this post and your profile.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"I have been dropping hints to my wife for a while about her seeing other men. It wasnt a no, but it definitely wasn't a yes haha

We were away recently. I left her outside a shop with the dog while i went in. When i came back out she was blushing, said someone had asked her to the pub for a drink.

I told her next time she is offered to say yes, i will pick her up after. She just thinks I'm joking.

Think she needs more convincing.

Also, first time - sorry if this is the wrong forum

There's no good answer to this post.

Best bet is show her this post and your profile."

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Take her to the pub and have pre arranged for a guy from fab to join you and take it from there "

Really? Typical man comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how its mostly men who are commenting about how great it would be, poor woman has no idea her other half is on a swingers site pimping her out

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I have been dropping hints to my wife for a while about her seeing other men. It wasnt a no, but it definitely wasn't a yes haha

We were away recently. I left her outside a shop with the dog while i went in. When i came back out she was blushing, said someone had asked her to the pub for a drink.

I told her next time she is offered to say yes, i will pick her up after. She just thinks I'm joking.

Think she needs more convincing.

Also, first time - sorry if this is the wrong forum"

If she needs convincing then she certainly isn't ready for swinging and you shouldn't try to convince her. Swinging is something you both have to enter into willingly.

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