FabSwingers.com forum: Gangbang in Ilford 30th Of August

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello all….I replied to a profile on here recently & this led to a conversation on WhatsApp & the younger lady on there seemed ok….I got a notification today of a party on the 30th….

They are asking for £20 up front when it is already £50 entry fee-I won’t name the woman but if it is first come first served WHY do they need a booking fee????

UNLESS I stand corrected I smell a SCAM.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You're probably right. Sounds like a £££££££ event. You should report the profile, this is supposed to be a swingers site.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

Well could be a complete scam and nothing will happen at all and they will vanish. Could be they genuinely want some money up front as a sign of commitment as so many say they will show and don't, especially if booking a hotel or Airbnb. Have they got veris from past meetings?

As to the rights and wrongs of charging £50 to attend a gang bang against site rules I think but not sure. Plenty arranging mixed non-gang bang private parties and asking for money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see a problem with asking for a little money, weather £50 is a little that is upto each and their own situation to decide, the money could be going towards hotel costs, drinks maybe food or condoms as quite a few guys never bring their own etc.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"Hello all….I replied to a profile on here recently & this led to a conversation on WhatsApp & the younger lady on there seemed ok….I got a notification today of a party on the 30th….

They are asking for £20 up front when it is already £50 entry fee-I won’t name the woman but if it is first come first served WHY do they need a booking fee????

UNLESS I stand corrected I smell a SCAM.

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. Does the young lady have verification on her profile , how long had she been on Fabs.I have heard that some organisers do ask for a deposit upfront in case of no show but from a personal perspective I would be reluctant to do this in case it is a scam. I use the word organisers because in the past I have attend a hotel party usually a Travelodge paid £40-£50 expecting there to be 4-6 guys however over say a 3 hour period you had maybe 15-20 guys attending.I am guessing to book a Travelodge room is £50 - £80 maybe another £30 for soft drinks & nibbles that’s £110.If guys were to attend paying £40 that’s £400.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Hello all….I replied to a profile on here recently & this led to a conversation on WhatsApp & the younger lady on there seemed ok….I got a notification today of a party on the 30th….

They are asking for £20 up front when it is already £50 entry fee-I won’t name the woman but if it is first come first served WHY do they need a booking fee????

UNLESS I stand corrected I smell a SCAM.

If it sounds like a scam, and feels like a scam, it probably is a scam. Move on to a profile which is verified as genuine, and doesn’t feel like a scam.

Never be shy about messaging guys who have left veris, this is all about networking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your instincts.

Like others say charging isn't unusual as people have venue fees etc sometimes however do your research and if it feels like a scam walk away.

Mrs

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By *ilthy couple 111Couple
over a year ago

boston

were haveing a group meet and are asking for £40 off each guy to cover the cost of the venue weve hired. dont see why we should pay were there and were bringing another couple for the guys to play with.

one guy said he wouldnt pay , as he can meet at his place for free every weekend, lol hes got 3 veris in 7 years, pmsl

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Follow your head not you cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Follow your head not you cock "

Very true!

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

There are a lot of dreamers and fantasists on here, sadly, all excited about the prospects of a meet or, like in this case, a gangbang. Then they have a wank (or two/hundred) about the idea and reality sets in. They conveniently "forget" they agreed to meet. Nowadays, organisers (clubs and private parties) do ask single men for a deposit to secure their place as they need to cover costs of venue etc, as well as ensure the good ratio. So yes, it's nothing unusual for men being asked to pay some deposit. It can, obviously, get abused as, unfortunately, some men would pay anything for the potential of getting their dick wet.

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