FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie advice

By *idan007 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

Wanting to get my partner into the swinging scene we’ve talked about it in foreplay and it has interested us both…any advice on how to actually bring it across that I want to be her cuck??

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Wanting to get my partner into the swinging scene we’ve talked about it in foreplay and it has interested us both…any advice on how to actually bring it across that I want to be her cuck??"

Hi op

If like you've mentioned that you've spoken with her about the swinging maybe just be upfront with her and see what she thinks about it

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Hmmm best to let her know you're looking for couples and women first...

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By *ftereightMan
over a year ago

SouthEast

Generally speaking having a solid relationship is the foundation that trust, honesty and communication are built on. Conversations like "what do you think of this or that" are good ways to gauge things and open dialogue. Start slow and if she does agree to explore the area of swinging set hard initial boundaries until you are both comfortable with things (many couples will start out soft play only, or purely own couple in front of other couples, it's just what each other are comfy with however, so for some they like to dive in the deep end). Another route could be to talk if a swinger club might be a fun experience. For us it started by going on cams on another site and eventually we decided to get a profile on here to have 'a look' around which furthered our interest to the point 6yrs later we have our own single profiles and lots of freedom.

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By *idan007 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

I have mate but that’s only when we are both turned on so lots is said and done but once it’s over I don’t seem 100% she wants that… always talk about sharing her just need to find the right person to sort this out!

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By *idan007 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

Yes I am going to try again… was wondering if there were any bulls on here that will give it a go and see if we can come into the scene like that….

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By *otshot14Woman
over a year ago

canterbury

Why not try taking her to a club first,so she can see what it's all about,and no pressure on her or u.

Think of it as just a nite out,then go from there.

Just keep talking about how it has made u both feel.

Just coz u say u both want to try it,doesnt always work out.

Find a club that hasnt got a theme nite on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely don't push her into something she isn't comfortable with.

It is horrible when a woman is doing something just to keep the partner happy

But if she is genuinely curious, like others have said, go together to a club.

There is no obligation.

You can just play with eachother or not even have to do that.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I have mate but that’s only when we are both turned on so lots is said and done but once it’s over I don’t seem 100% she wants that… always talk about sharing her just need to find the right person to sort this out! "

The right person is in front of you, (your wife) talk in-depth if she's not interested then it needs to be accepted. It's always about what both want

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

The right person is in front of you, (your wife) talk in-depth if she's not interested then it needs to be accepted. It's always about what both want

This so much.

Having fantasies in the heat of the moment doesn't mean she wants to actually act them out.

If you've asked her and she doesn't seem to want to take it further ,it's best left .

Definitely don't find someone on here and spring something on her op.

Miss

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By *idan007 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

I understand that but she still tells me to set a meeting up I just don’t know if she’s testing me or not lol she also doesn’t like to share

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I understand that but she still tells me to set a meeting up I just don’t know if she’s testing me or not lol she also doesn’t like to share

If she doesn't like to share, why the hell have you got a single male profile?

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By *idan007 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

Made this account before I met her… and to be honest it’s a lifestyle we have discussed and would like to pursue its just about who makes the first move

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