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By *ovelybum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

We have been chatting recently with a very sexy couple in their very early twenties, where both of them just scream SEX.Altough we try to keep our meets in and around our own age due to a not very good expiriences with much younger people,have decided to go for it

And the question is:Do you always listen to your brain or leave the instincts take the lead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible at such decisions, I find it quite hard to tell my brain and instincts apart. I'm usually one to act now and regret later.

I guess one of the important things is, how do you feel about just taking the risk and things not going the way you'd like? It comes down to resilience, maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, a bit of both!

I do think that instinct is a good rule of thumb. I always listen to my gut response, but, that doesn't mean it's always right! Applying your brain too is a necessity, imho. It's good to examine emotions and feelings with a bit of logic and reason.

If you're both comfortable and so are the other couple then that's brilliant! New experiences and exploration are what we're all here for after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and good luck! xx

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

bradford

Instinct is good, if it feels right it probably is, if it feels wrong it will definatly be wrong.

But the brain has to be involved at some point. Normally to confirm the instinct is right

The most telling commment for me is 'they scream sex'.

Go for it !

ps looking at your profile they (whoever they are) are not the only ones screaming SEX.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have to use both, if the desire to meet them is so great that you want to step outside yer comfort zone then go for it... You can't PLAN every fun moment...the best ones are unexpected!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both, but I have always been a 'gut-feeling' kind of person in all things and, with the exception of my ex!!, I have usually been right. If something doesn't 'feel' right, it usually isn't....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really go for younger guys but rules are ment to be broken for the right person, they would have to really stand out, and i dont mean just looks, before id meet them tho if they was under 25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut feel is nearly always right.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"We have been chatting recently with a very sexy couple in their very early twenties, where both of them just scream SEX.Altough we try to keep our meets in and around our own age due to a not very good expiriences with much younger people,have decided to go for it

And the question is:Do you always listen to your brain or leave the instincts take the lead?"

Do it - instinct is a great tool and sometimes your just gotta overrule your head. I had a similar situation with a 21 year old lad and in the end went for it despite my head not completely agreeing with it and ended up with a year of sensational sex

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