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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all, I'm looking for getting some advice. I don't really get messages and I didn't able to arrange meeting before except attending a social. What am I doing wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you meet you based on your profile and pictures?

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Would you meet you based on your profile and pictures?"

I think he might

OP you probably need to think a little bit about your target audience and what they might like to see and read.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Try some self help browse the site see what others are doing for ideas only. Should help you on your path

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you meet you based on your profile and pictures?"

I was trying to introduce myself when I message someone. What kind of pictures are seems better on my profile

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Would you meet you based on your profile and pictures?

I was trying to introduce myself when I message someone. What kind of pictures are seems better on my profile "

Many people will look at a profile before reading a message, and if the profile doesn't interest them, they're not interested in reading the message at all.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Hi OP, your profile won’t appeal to everyone and it’s ok, and also your age may be the factor too, but not necessarily.

I’d try to direct my searches to people who are looking for similar things as you do and within preferred age range too, otherwise attending socials might be the way to go as you have already an experience with that.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 of your 6 pics are of peen in some way, you could swap that round and make 5 of your 6 pics of you. Your only face pic is also heavily filtered which makes it difficult to know what you actually look like.

Think of varied and classy pics... clear face pics if you're comfortable sharing, suits are always a winner, something sexy but not overly revealing like a partial bare chest. 1 or 2 penis shots are OK but you need plenty of others, you could just leave the dick pics on and put them to friends only.

Other than that, your profile is alright. You've got a reasonable target market for the ages you've picked. Your bio is alright, you could probably drop the last 2 paragraphs and instead include something more about you, your interests etc so people can see if you sound like the type of person they could get on with.

It's also a shame you've not displayed your veris, I personally like to read them but I'm not sure whether that's just because I'm nosey

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Nobody really needs that many angles of a dong imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all, I'm looking for getting some advice. I don't really get messages and I didn't able to arrange meeting before except attending a social. What am I doing wrong?"

Your first picture put us off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in the boat as you OP, Icve not had a meet since I've joined so you're not the only one but all I can say is just keep doing you and hopefully you will meet someone eventually good luck

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I’d agree with the other comments about photos.

Personally, things that put me off are other people in photos (even an unidentifiable bit of them!) and, related, potential bareback.

I always check profiles before reading a message.

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By *likeitlikethat2019Woman
over a year ago

Medway

Feer free, let go, put yourself out there. I love seeing confident men on the app

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

The thing is some guys get meets on here with only the penis on display. So what works for one person might not work for another.

Get yourself out there. Parties, clubs and socials.

Getting meets just by messaging on fabs is very difficult.

I get more rejections than meets just using fabs alone.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley


"Hello all, I'm looking for getting some advice. I don't really get messages and I didn't able to arrange meeting before except attending a social. What am I doing wrong?"

Not using the search button!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you so much for all those comments, I'm really appreciated. I've changed my photos and my bio little bit. Feel free to check it again and make a comment about my new profile. Again thank you so much for everybody

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anymore advice will be appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you like safe sex but one of your photos appears to be bareback

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By *ifestyle1Man
over a year ago

me171

No friendship in this world

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You say you like safe sex but one of your photos appears to be bareback "

She was my ex, I prefer safe sex with strangers

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