FabSwingers.com forum: How to get some interest

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi. I am a genuine guy here who is discreet and have tried to be very open about my own issue. So that i can be seen as being trustworthy. But, is there something not right with my profile. I try to be really nice and pleasant. But i get nowhere. Is it just a waiting game, keep perservering, or is my profile not right, my pics not great? etc.

Please be nice i am down at the moment with a broken leg and feeling a bit depressed as i am a distance walker and am stuck at home when normally i am very active and fit.

Is it worth trying to get a better face pic?

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By *ueerKinkyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge (She/They And They/Them)

Hiya

I think it comes across well. It would be nice to know some things about you (interests, hobbies) before you give the medical info. Maybe insert a paragraph or two at the beginning.

The thing about your cock would be absolutely fine from my point of view, for what it’s worth.

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you i will definitely do that!! That's really kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put pics up doing your hobbies... Guitar, walking, camping, skateboarding, reading your fave book ... whatever, because people can relate to that and it's a talking point and shared interest.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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Welcome to the forum!

. As you're not at your best, I recommend that you monitor any effect of Fab on your well-being and to take a break, if warranted.

Fab is really tough for all single men, so having realistic expectations is vital. It's certainly very competitive, due to the choices that others have and it doesn't mean there's anything not so good, when things get slow here.

I recommend that it's good to regularly change your pics, as it adds variety and some may appeal more than others. Likewise, adjusting your written text. Think of it like running an experiment

Men need to sell themselves well, without running a sales pitch. Honesty is certainly the right approach

. Potentially, highlight the great and keep practical aspects as more like add-ons, as important as they may be. Again, experiment.

View a few other men's profiles and see what themes work better than others.

Your profile isn't bad, it's pretty good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Put pics up doing your hobbies... Guitar, walking, camping, skateboarding, reading your fave book ... whatever, because people can relate to that and it's a talking point and shared interest. "

Thank you so much. I have done that. Walking is definitely in there, and i play the violin too, so good ones to add, thank you so much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Welcome to the forum!

. As you're not at your best, I recommend that you monitor any effect of Fab on your well-being and to take a break, if warranted.

I recommend that it's good to regularly change your pics, as it adds variety and some may appeal more than others. Likewise, adjusting your written text. Think of it like running an experiment

Men need to sell themselves well, without running a sales pitch. Honesty is certainly the right approach

. Potentially, highlight the great and keep practical aspects as more like add-ons, as important as they may be. Again, experiment.

View a few other men's profiles and see what themes work better than others.

Your profile isn't bad, it's pretty good "

Thank you so much. That is a really kind response. I have added on hobbies which include distance walking, and during covid i picked up the violin too, so all these are added in, as well as fundraising i do through walking.

Thank you for the advice, and thank you particularly for the specific advice about not expecting too much and taking a break when needed!! Very, very much appreciated x

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By *ewcouple42Couple
over a year ago

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We are the same really not much intrested in our profile xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are the same really not much intrested in our profile xx"

I hope you don't mind, i had a look at your profile. I personally can't see what's wrong with it, the pictures are particularly hot and you both come across as very pleasant x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hiya

I think it comes across well. It would be nice to know some things about you (interests, hobbies) before you give the medical info. Maybe insert a paragraph or two at the beginning.

The thing about your cock would be absolutely fine from my point of view, for what it’s worth.

Best of luck "

Just in case you didn't see the reply, still working out how to use the forum. But i wanted to make sure you got my thanks for your kind words. I have updated my profile with the suggestions. I appreciate you taking your time, and thank you for the reassurance about my own issue too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put pics up doing your hobbies... Guitar, walking, camping, skateboarding, reading your fave book ... whatever, because people can relate to that and it's a talking point and shared interest.

Thank you so much. I have done that. Walking is definitely in there, and i play the violin too, so good ones to add, thank you so much. "

Oooo violinist that's really cool x

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