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By *unch43 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m pretty brew to this whole scene have been browsing the site for a while finally became a gold member.

Just wanted to ask if there is any advice I should take in especially when trying to go to clubs, would be much appreciated!

Happy fabbing.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I’m pretty brew to this whole scene have been browsing the site for a while finally became a gold member.

Just wanted to ask if there is any advice I should take in especially when trying to go to clubs, would be much appreciated!

Happy fabbing. "

Did you pay to be a gold member just so that you could start this thread? Because you don’t need to pay for an upgrade to be able to start a thread, non paying members can start them.

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By *unch43 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I know but I have the time to finally get into the scene properly and thought it would’ve been better to start than to support the site lol

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I know but I have the time to finally get into the scene properly and thought it would’ve been better to start than to support the site lol"

Why did you feel the need to mention in your OP that you’ve become a gold member? I thought you said it to explain why you’ve just started your first thread so that’s why I asked the question….I’m struggling to see what becoming a gold member has to do with asking for advice about joining the scene?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I chose to become a silver member as I don't upload enough pics to need gold.

What made you choose gold over silver ?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Good to see you supporting the site OP as it helps to keep it running. In answer to your question, going to organised socials and clubs will get you meeting and interacting with swingers and you'll learn more about the swinging world that way than on the Internet. You'll find club reviews and organised socials on here so you can decide which ones sound right for you. Enjoy the journey.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The advice for single men in clubs is generally dress smartly, don't assume you will play, chat in the bar, don't be pushy, don't touch without being asked. I hope you have a good time.

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By *unch43 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I chose to become a silver member as I don't upload enough pics to need gold.

What made you choose gold over silver ?"

Gold is better than silver no lol honestly idk I just picked gold

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By *unch43 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"The advice for single men in clubs is generally dress smartly, don't assume you will play, chat in the bar, don't be pushy, don't touch without being asked. I hope you have a good time."

Thank you honestly I just want to meet like minded people hopeful to build friendships at least

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By *unch43 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Good to see you supporting the site OP as it helps to keep it running. In answer to your question, going to organised socials and clubs will get you meeting and interacting with swingers and you'll learn more about the swinging world that way than on the Internet. You'll find club reviews and organised socials on here so you can decide which ones sound right for you. Enjoy the journey. "

Thanks a lot for that makes me feel a bit easier finally attending one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me membership is more about being able to see who has viewed me, assuming they’re not in stealth mode, whether silver or gold it helps run the site. Some use it. Some don’t.

Welcome to the world of swinging. As previously put try and get yourself to clubs and socials

If you use Fab correctly or have the right understanding of how it works for you then brilliant. People do meet off here, regardless of posts saying they don’t.

Come with zero expectations. Interact in forums, if that’s your thing, read posts (both positive and negative), you’ll slowly find your feet

If you’re relying on here purely for meets, like I say they so happen, but you may be waiting.

I always say, speak to others and interact with them the way you want to be spoken to and interacted with.

Good luck

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By *unch43 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"For me membership is more about being able to see who has viewed me, assuming they’re not in stealth mode, whether silver or gold it helps run the site. Some use it. Some don’t.

Welcome to the world of swinging. As previously put try and get yourself to clubs and socials

If you use Fab correctly or have the right understanding of how it works for you then brilliant. People do meet off here, regardless of posts saying they don’t.

Come with zero expectations. Interact in forums, if that’s your thing, read posts (both positive and negative), you’ll slowly find your feet

If you’re relying on here purely for meets, like I say they so happen, but you may be waiting.

I always say, speak to others and interact with them the way you want to be spoken to and interacted with.

Good luck "

Thanks for the advice here!

And yh honestly not into just letting everyone rather build some relationships and get a better understanding first

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands


"The advice for single men in clubs is generally dress smartly, don't assume you will play, chat in the bar, don't be pushy, don't touch without being asked. I hope you have a good time."

Was going to suggest these as well as don't follow women/couples around to the point where it becomes creepy and unwanted. Also don't get d*unk!

Enjoy the journey OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to Fab, OP.

Club advice similar to other comments. Be respectful. Chat to people. Don't be pushy. Don't touch unless invited/you are given permission. Relax. Don't expect anything to happen. Check the dress code of the club you plan to attend.

Good luck and enjoy!

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By *unch43 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Thanks everyone for the advice! I will keep it all on board glad to see so many welcoming people happy fabbing everyone

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