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"Heya! Lets just say you send a wink and get a wink back… How do you then open your message? “Thank you for your wink” ? Yep that's all you need to do to open the message up. Then type away.. ![]() If you can message them lol | |||
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"Heya! Lets just say you send a wink and get a wink back… How do you then open your message? “Thank you for your wink” ? Yep that's all you need to do to open the message up. Then type away.. ![]() Oops yep, some of us have filters on which means that you cannot message. ![]() | |||
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"Heya! Lets just say you send a wink and get a wink back… How do you then open your message? “Thank you for your wink” ? Yep that's all you need to do to open the message up. Then type away.. ![]() ![]() Yeah insanity! In my experience only 1 in 3 accounts would reply to thanks for the wink messages ![]() | |||
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"Heya! Lets just say you send a wink and get a wink back… How do you then open your message? “Thank you for your wink” ? Yep that's all you need to do to open the message up. Then type away.. ![]() ![]() I thought a wink overrode the persons filters? If they wink you, you can message. | |||
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" I thought a wink overrode the persons filters? If they wink you, you can message. " This is the way.... or it used to be ![]() | |||
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"Heya! Lets just say you send a wink and get a wink back… How do you then open your message? “Thank you for your wink” ? " Yes, but add more context to your mesaage and Introduce yourself! Xx | |||
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"Heya! Lets just say you send a wink and get a wink back… How do you then open your message? “Thank you for your wink” ? " I reply to most of my winks with mostly that message! | |||
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"If a couple winks to us and we like them, we wink back, but usually we won't message them. We wait for them to send the first message. If we wink and they wink back, then we are the ones that start with the first message. If we receive a wink but their profile is not compatible, we do not wink back, just a message saying thanks for the wink and thanks but no thanks (saying we do not feel it profiles are a match)." Can I ask, why would you actually message a couple you're not interested in (as a response to their wink) but only wink back&wait for the couple you're actually potentially interested in? | |||
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"If a couple winks to us and we like them, we wink back, but usually we won't message them. We wait for them to send the first message. If we wink and they wink back, then we are the ones that start with the first message. If we receive a wink but their profile is not compatible, we do not wink back, just a message saying thanks for the wink and thanks but no thanks (saying we do not feel it profiles are a match). Can I ask, why would you actually message a couple you're not interested in (as a response to their wink) but only wink back&wait for the couple you're actually potentially interested in?" I think because some people here are weird… I had the same message as well haha | |||
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"Did just that recently and got the reply below, it went on in same vein for a while with them accusing me of not reading their profile etc (I had) eventually had to block them. Me: Thanks for the wink love the pics, Mrs is very sexy what are you looking for? Them: Not you, we only returned your own wink to be polite, sorry. Guess you did not read our profile " Was no need for them to reply like that. | |||
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"Did just that recently and got the reply below, it went on in same vein for a while with them accusing me of not reading their profile etc (I had) eventually had to block them. Me: Thanks for the wink love the pics, Mrs is very sexy what are you looking for? Them: Not you, we only returned your own wink to be polite, sorry. Guess you did not read our profile Was no need for them to reply like that." That’s what I thought, rudeness doesn’t usually bother me I know people get a lot of crap messages but why return a wink if not interested?? | |||
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"If a couple winks to us and we like them, we wink back, but usually we won't message them. We wait for them to send the first message. If we wink and they wink back, then we are the ones that start with the first message. If we receive a wink but their profile is not compatible, we do not wink back, just a message saying thanks for the wink and thanks but no thanks (saying we do not feel it profiles are a match). Can I ask, why would you actually message a couple you're not interested in (as a response to their wink) but only wink back&wait for the couple you're actually potentially interested in?" Being polite with people nice enough to look at our profile and reach out. To the ones that wink and we like, we wink back and wait for a message. If they don't, they were not interested enough, so no point in wasting time reaching out to them. We have enough meets, so we prefer to spend our time with those genuinely interested, see what they are about. | |||
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"If a couple winks to us and we like them, we wink back, but usually we won't message them. We wait for them to send the first message. If we wink and they wink back, then we are the ones that start with the first message. If we receive a wink but their profile is not compatible, we do not wink back, just a message saying thanks for the wink and thanks but no thanks (saying we do not feel it profiles are a match). Can I ask, why would you actually message a couple you're not interested in (as a response to their wink) but only wink back&wait for the couple you're actually potentially interested in? I think because some people here are weird… I had the same message as well haha" You are calling us weird for being polite with people? | |||
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"If a couple winks to us and we like them, we wink back, but usually we won't message them. We wait for them to send the first message. If we wink and they wink back, then we are the ones that start with the first message. If we receive a wink but their profile is not compatible, we do not wink back, just a message saying thanks for the wink and thanks but no thanks (saying we do not feel it profiles are a match). Can I ask, why would you actually message a couple you're not interested in (as a response to their wink) but only wink back&wait for the couple you're actually potentially interested in? I think because some people here are weird… I had the same message as well haha You are calling us weird for being polite with people? " No no no! I was answering your question were you asked why would you wink and message someone you are not interested to haha | |||
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"If a couple winks to us and we like them, we wink back, but usually we won't message them. We wait for them to send the first message. If we wink and they wink back, then we are the ones that start with the first message. If we receive a wink but their profile is not compatible, we do not wink back, just a message saying thanks for the wink and thanks but no thanks (saying we do not feel it profiles are a match). Can I ask, why would you actually message a couple you're not interested in (as a response to their wink) but only wink back&wait for the couple you're actually potentially interested in? I think because some people here are weird… I had the same message as well haha You are calling us weird for being polite with people? No no no! I was answering your question were you asked why would you wink and message someone you are not interested to haha" Ha ha ha, ok sorry, I got you wrong. Lol | |||
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"If a couple winks to us and we like them, we wink back, but usually we won't message them. We wait for them to send the first message. If we wink and they wink back, then we are the ones that start with the first message. If we receive a wink but their profile is not compatible, we do not wink back, just a message saying thanks for the wink and thanks but no thanks (saying we do not feel it profiles are a match). Can I ask, why would you actually message a couple you're not interested in (as a response to their wink) but only wink back&wait for the couple you're actually potentially interested in? I think because some people here are weird… I had the same message as well haha You are calling us weird for being polite with people? No no no! I was answering your question were you asked why would you wink and message someone you are not interested to haha Ha ha ha, ok sorry, I got you wrong. Lol" its obviously a very happy thread here, no negativities ![]() | |||
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"If we wink and get a wink back, i start our message with a Thanks for the return wink...... If we get winked I usually reply with a message because I think it is so lazy to reply to a wink with a wink. " I believe thats should be the wink etiquette | |||
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