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Should I reveal my face on Fab publicly

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By *ornyHumpyMan95 OP   Man
over a year ago

Prestatyn

As the topic says, should I remove the black bar and just reveal my face in public on Fab?

I never have my face on Public setting incase I have someone who recognises me on here locally and could ruin myself (as I want to be as professional in public as possible, even if it's sometimes not the case), but recently I've become more relaxed and feel maybe time to reveal my face in public on fab

Mainly to improve my confidence here and make people who see my profile more comfortable about who they see

This a good idea or no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your choice but....IF I knew you in real life,(I dont) the black thing wouldnt stop me recognising you.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"It's your choice but....IF I knew you in real life,(I dont) the black thing wouldnt stop me recognising you."

Agree but think carefully if do. Some people disrespect and abuse on here. Why I have no pics

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By *uttercup and BeauCouple
over a year ago

kent


"It's your choice but....IF I knew you in real life,(I dont) the black thing wouldnt stop me recognising you.

Agree but think carefully if do. Some people disrespect and abuse on here. Why I have no pics"

Definitely agree with all points made by 2 previous posts.

You have to do what’s right for you OP.

We would never show our faces as we are extremely private people, you never know who might see you! Also have several children between us that are old enough to be on here or have friends that are.

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By *eau and ArrowCouple
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

Each to their own. Arrow has been on here for years and is happy to show her face (and if beau looked like her he would too)

But beau is happy share when chatting and confident he doesn’t know them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you could ruin yourself (as you put it) don't do it. You can send it privately to people if a meet is on the cards

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"As the topic says, should I remove the black bar and just reveal my face in public on Fab?

I never have my face on Public setting incase I have someone who recognises me on here locally and could ruin myself (as I want to be as professional in public as possible, even if it's sometimes not the case), but recently I've become more relaxed and feel maybe time to reveal my face in public on fab

Mainly to improve my confidence here and make people who see my profile more comfortable about who they see

This a good idea or no?"

You have a very distinctive beard and head (the part that’s visible) so anyone who knows you will definitely be able to recognise you from the picture with the black bar across it. I don’t think removing the black bar will make any difference in that regard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recommend not to had a friend put hers up on public by mistake ...had three messages from Facebook friends with 2 hours

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

We have our faces showing, if someone knew us and saw our profile then can they judge? No..not at all because obviously there here to, we are two grown adults who choose to do what we do and its nobody's buisness..if they don't like it then that's their problem..not ours! But as said above..its your choice and nobody can make that for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been made aware of chat groups on other apps where people regularly share pics from here so I would always say only post pics publicly that you’d be happy for everyone to see and for everyone you know to see.

I’m sure it’s not hard to recognise us if you know us due to my tattoos but we still don’t have face pics on public. We just don’t think it’s worth it when you can always send face pics privately and have them deleted from the message

Mr

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"As the topic says, should I remove the black bar and just reveal my face in public on Fab?

I never have my face on Public setting incase I have someone who recognises me on here locally and could ruin myself (as I want to be as professional in public as possible, even if it's sometimes not the case), but recently I've become more relaxed and feel maybe time to reveal my face in public on fab

Mainly to improve my confidence here and make people who see my profile more comfortable about who they see

This a good idea or no?"

If someone who knew you on here saw your face, they wouldn't say anything as it exposes themselves.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"As the topic says, should I remove the black bar and just reveal my face in public on Fab?

I never have my face on Public setting incase I have someone who recognises me on here locally and could ruin myself (as I want to be as professional in public as possible, even if it's sometimes not the case), but recently I've become more relaxed and feel maybe time to reveal my face in public on fab

Mainly to improve my confidence here and make people who see my profile more comfortable about who they see

This a good idea or no?

If someone who knew you on here saw your face, they wouldn't say anything as it exposes themselves. "

Unfortunately the thread by a woman who has been outed on social media by an ex disproves that

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

We have had lots of our pictures copied in he past and keep finding them on lots of different porn sites.

Even on pay per view sites and across social media platforms.

We used to show all pictures with our faces on full view to all but it has caused so much agro we now only make public pictures without faces showing.

If we connect with someone then we can send face pictures to them but don’t make the same mistakes as we have as it can come back and bite your ass.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I happily post my vag, my a-hole, tits, but NOT my face. I have a few in my friends folder, but I only have people that I have actually met on my friends list.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I used to only post with my face hidden, and I was outed anyway. Someone sent it to my boss at the time. I was mortified, however my boss was absolutely brilliant about it - made sure I knew it had happened, said what I do in my spare time is none of his business, and that when this conversation is finished, as far as he is concerned, it never happened. And so after that I thought "what's the worst that can happen?" - as for me, the worst had already happened, and it turned out fine...so now my profile is pretty much nothing but my face, and my real first name too. I don't post genital pics anyway, I'd be more bothered about those being public than my face!

Obviously if you have a job where you could lose it for having this profile then stay private.

And specifically to the OP - just like many have already said, your mouth shape/lower jaw is so easily recognisable already, if someone already knew you.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

What do you gain from posting your face to the whole of Fab ?

If you're drop dead gorgeous, then it may help.

However, the world and his dog being able to recognise you in passing...using the location data here...means there is far more chance of a negative outcome.

Send your face to someone who reciprocated interest and have a better piece of mind.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"As the topic says, should I remove the black bar and just reveal my face in public on Fab?

I never have my face on Public setting incase I have someone who recognises me on here locally and could ruin myself (as I want to be as professional in public as possible, even if it's sometimes not the case), but recently I've become more relaxed and feel maybe time to reveal my face in public on fab

Mainly to improve my confidence here and make people who see my profile more comfortable about who they see

This a good idea or no?

If someone who knew you on here saw your face, they wouldn't say anything as it exposes themselves.

Unfortunately the thread by a woman who has been outed on social media by an ex disproves that "

I guess that told me

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I wouldn't have a face pic in public ,I've seen too many threads where people think it's fair game to approach you in public if they see you.

I wouldn't fancy someone trying their luck when I'm out with a friend or at work etc.Its mainly women and couples that have posted this type of thing though.

It's totally your choice though op,if you wouldn't mind people knowing you're here ,then go for it.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends on your profession and your social media influence.

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

My lifestyle isn't exactly secret so I don't care. Also people can see faces before messaging

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"As the topic says, should I remove the black bar and just reveal my face in public on Fab?

I never have my face on Public setting incase I have someone who recognises me on here locally and could ruin myself (as I want to be as professional in public as possible, even if it's sometimes not the case), but recently I've become more relaxed and feel maybe time to reveal my face in public on fab

Mainly to improve my confidence here and make people who see my profile more comfortable about who they see

This a good idea or no?"

If you are Toby Young I’d say go UNLOS now

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By *JizzyRascal-Man
over a year ago

stevenston

I don't get the whole "what if someone recognises me???" Thing.

It's not a seal clubbing website, it's a sex site, and it's no different than having your face on Tinder or Facebook dating, my face is all over it and not one person has ever mentioned seeing my on here or any of the other sites I'm on, because the reality is that nobody actually cares. I've never had any of my rope photos or videos "copied" from anywhere or put on porn sites, and the videos would make someone a killing on OF or similar.

People need to stop thinking that being on here showing face is going to end their asda career when the reality of it is that they choose to have their cock, cunt, and breakfast on show instead of their face because they think its edgy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get the whole "what if someone recognises me???" Thing.

It's not a seal clubbing website, it's a sex site, and it's no different than having your face on Tinder or Facebook dating, my face is all over it and not one person has ever mentioned seeing my on here or any of the other sites I'm on, because the reality is that nobody actually cares. I've never had any of my rope photos or videos "copied" from anywhere or put on porn sites, and the videos would make someone a killing on OF or similar.

People need to stop thinking that being on here showing face is going to end their asda career when the reality of it is that they choose to have their cock, cunt, and breakfast on show instead of their face because they think its edgy. "

If you read back your own post, and think, you’ve already answered it. As you correctly identified, this is a sex site, which for many people could cause a problem in itself. The swinging lifestyle is not the conventional lifestyle and as such would be misunderstood by many, and condemned by more. Not bothered? Good lad, enjoy your fab experience.

Just remember, not everyone is like you and may have careers, business interests, social and family connections where being known to swing could have very real consequences.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't get the whole "what if someone recognises me???" Thing.

It's not a seal clubbing website, it's a sex site, and it's no different than having your face on Tinder or Facebook dating, my face is all over it and not one person has ever mentioned seeing my on here or any of the other sites I'm on, because the reality is that nobody actually cares. I've never had any of my rope photos or videos "copied" from anywhere or put on porn sites, and the videos would make someone a killing on OF or similar.

People need to stop thinking that being on here showing face is going to end their asda career when the reality of it is that they choose to have their cock, cunt, and breakfast on show instead of their face because they think its edgy. "

People have had their lives made very difficult from being outed as swingers. Because it wouldn't affect you doesn't mean it wouldn't affect other people

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