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To drink or not to drink ….

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

. out of interest are there any of you who take part in planned meets or socials without the consumption of alcohol ….

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Yes. Mrs doesnt drink at all and as I'm usually driving I don't usually drink either. The way the question was put kinda implies this would be out of the ordinary

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Mr doesn't drink all

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Neither of us drink alcohol while swinging.

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By *uriousBunnyWoman
over a year ago

Derby

I think I’d prefer to have full control of my faculties and therefore not drink.

The idea of one to calm the nerves appeals but one leads to two leads to a bottle. So I’d probably drive!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


". out of interest are there any of you who take part in planned meets or socials without the consumption of alcohol …. "

Of course

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Don't drink when attending socials or some parties as I drive.

But swingers holidays or weekend meets, we both drink but we are social drinkers so tend not to get pissed.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Hubby doesn't drink at all no matter what kind of event or meet we're attending and usually it has never been an issue with anyone else

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

I don't mix sex and alcohol. For me they just do not go together. I can't cum if I have even a couple of drinks. FUCK THAT

I get a real buzz out of sex, swinging and kink. I want to feel all of it.

I want to be fully in control of myself and my decisions. I definitely don't need alcohol to relax or loosen up

I won't play with others if they are drinking heavily. Just doesn't feel good to me and

Alcohol affects erections.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

No rarely drink when expecting to play. Maybe a small glass of something. Driving aside can affect the todger a touch as get older. See lots of men regretting drinking too much at events I would say most of the people I associate with, male and female, don't drink a lot on play nights. If want lots of booze can go down the pub

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

It is a shame there aren't more non-bar-based organised socials.

There is a Bowling social in South Wales which is a great idea.

I would love an afternoon tea type social :D

I never drink on a meet.

Always have my car and know I can leave and get home when I want to.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"It is a shame there aren't more non-bar-based organised socials.

There is a Bowling social in South Wales which is a great idea.

I would love an afternoon tea type social :D

I never drink on a meet.

Always have my car and know I can leave and get home when I want to."

Bowling is great shout and perfect for swingers - the old three fingers in holes shuffle

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By *imher8587Couple
over a year ago

Kingswinford

Wife doesn't drink, I like a couple to ease my nerves, but too many can hinder a meet. Nest plan I think is to brave it & go sober. That way you get to feel the excitement in full. Plenty of chat beforehand should ease nerves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not intended that way I promise … interested to know how many couples use alcohol for a sprinkling of Dutch courage … some of us struggle to be confident sometimes ..me (Lilly) being one of them

Im eager to learn to be more confident without the use of alcohol… my sex drive is vibrant … just sometimes I need to trust my feelings ect..

I may look confident doesn’t mean I am , I suppose we are all on this journey to improve and express ourselves… take care Lilly

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

I don't need to drink and do not ever drink and drive! However G&T makes me even more promiscuous

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By *untimeswithme69Man
over a year ago

London

Non alcoholic here. Always been fine without it

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By *urge72Man
over a year ago

oxfordshire & Hull

If it's a group meet - camping etc then I drink, but only socially; one or two max.

Any other type of meet I stay clear of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


". out of interest are there any of you who take part in planned meets or socials without the consumption of alcohol …. "

Mr never drinks on a meet, Hotwife doesn’t mind a couple of drinks, we do not do d*unk swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


". out of interest are there any of you who take part in planned meets or socials without the consumption of alcohol …. "

I rarely had alcohol when swinging. I liked to be fully aware of everything.

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By *onicZMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Only have one or two when at a club or social and that's only if I feel like it, so not all the time.

We have witnessed d*unk people in clubs and it is not a good look.

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

I don’t drink at clubs, partly because I’m driving and partly because I don’t want alcohol affecting my faculties or performance.

If it’s an arranged meet it will depend. I may have one socially but usually not as I’m often driving.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Dare I ask what’s a social!!

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By *nicorn_HuntersCSCouple
over a year ago

inverness

Socials - sober.

Meets - not alcohol. Other drugs are better.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Social and play dates, one of us likely to drink moderately (non driver)

Parties and clubs none of us will drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, I never drink on a social or meet.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Never ever drink alcohol when I'm out. It would be too easy to mistake a spiked drink for intoxication.

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By *kayeMan
over a year ago

Behind you

I only have a couple of drinks - no more than that

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

We rarely drink.... usually one is driving but even so it's just not a great mix. Also we kink..... so we definitely dont kink and drink

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset

We’re obviously bad people because we do like to have a drink when we play unless one of us is driving. We don’t get d*unk or cognitively impaired but we like to drink socially.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

i never mix alcohol with swinging and thats myself not drinking and i wont play with other who drink ..

sex is the only high i need and i want clear consent at all times ...

if you need dutch courage to swing / have sex then maybe you need to sit down and ask yourself why ..

as other have said ive seen how alcohol works in clubs and parties and its not good at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worse than pissed up screeching women in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i never mix alcohol with swinging and thats myself not drinking and i wont play with other who drink ..

sex is the only high i need and i want clear consent at all times ...

if you need dutch courage to swing / have sex then maybe you need to sit down and ask yourself why ..

as other have said ive seen how alcohol works in clubs and parties and its not good at all "

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset


"i never mix alcohol with swinging and thats myself not drinking and i wont play with other who drink ..

sex is the only high i need and i want clear consent at all times ...

if you need dutch courage to swing / have sex then maybe you need to sit down and ask yourself why ..

as other have said ive seen how alcohol works in clubs and parties and its not good at all "
We don’t need Dutch courage to swing, we have often done it without a drink passing our lips, but when we go out to socialise in a pub or club we have a drink, same in a swinging club. A couple of drinks does not rob either of us from the ability to consent.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Nothing worse than pissed up screeching women in clubs."

I agree. Those are also the ones who will touch you without consent.

I’ve seen it happen too many times I can’t count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We pretty much always drink if it's a weekend club event, if it's a midweek club night then neither of us drink anything other than water. We don't need alcohol to be horny or confident enough to approach others.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Socials - sober.

Meets - not alcohol. Other drugs are better."
What would they be then?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We don't need to drink to meet new people. We like a drink and thus it follows we often do share a drink with new people but it's not essential.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

I rarely drink alcohol at clubs, because something i was told resonated with me.

Being into sub/Dom sex, i was told by a Domme about how alcohol can dull the pain sensors & allow you to take more than you wanted.

Also, i once drank way too much in a club & 'came round' in someone's car.

Fortunately they were giving me a lift home, but it was a salutory lesson in moderation.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


". out of interest are there any of you who take part in planned meets or socials without the consumption of alcohol …. "

Pretty much every social meet I’ve done, was a coffee date, and I don’t drink alcohol in clubs, or play dates, as I drive home afterwards

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

I dont drink either.. horrible stuff...some clubs would be better if they controlled alcohol intake. nothing against people having a few but then you get the loud ones...

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

Usually, I am driving, so drink something non alcoholic.

I have left some socials once some people have had too much and start getting loud.

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

Clark doesn’t drink at any meets including clubs x I love a wine or two

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle


". out of interest are there any of you who take part in planned meets or socials without the consumption of alcohol …. "

Yes

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By *oxAndMoffatCouple
over a year ago

Bury

We don't drink for meets, if we go to a club the Mrs will have a couple to calm social anxiety but that's the only time. Tbf we're not big drinkers in any event, rare we will ever have a drink in general. However, we'd prefer to remember what went on

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By *ibi_curiousCouple
over a year ago

Shepperton

Both myself and Mary don't drink, so it's a cuppa for us if offered a drink

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

All the time, if I go to a club to play I go teetotal

(Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us drink, if someone feels like they need to drink to be comfortable we wish them well with someone else.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

You don't need alcohol to have a good time just a condom

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have, if it's kink based, I rarely drink because I have health & safety in mind.

Vanilla swing though, I do enjoy a drink, no more than one or two over an entire night but I've also regularly been entirely sober (heart condition so it depends how I feel)

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Great to see we aren’t the only ones who don’t need alcohol to have a good time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love your point of view , very sensible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally agree with you on that …

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s certainly doesn’t .. I agree .. always in moderation, it’s so easy to drink too much … even more when your with good company . …

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Only if a coffee was on the cards.

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