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Wanted to get in to swinging after a stroke

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By *aughtyangie OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

I had a stroke 16mnt ago I'm numb on my righthand side,have difficulty with words (but my mind works fine)

I have trouble very a full eirection

My wife is very understanding

We are looking at getting back in the Life any advice ?

(Not looking for a cuck situation)

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By *awty_TwoCouple
over a year ago

Near Maidstone


"I had a stroke 16mnt ago I'm numb on my righthand side,have difficulty with words (but my mind works fine)

I have trouble very a full eirection

My wife is very understanding

We are looking at getting back in the Life any advice ?

(Not looking for a cuck situation)"

So sad, really feel for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ar not good to hear hope u slowly get back to it

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By *odkajemWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I haven't got advice except to say just take it slowly and be gentle with yourself. Explain the situation, work out between you both what is and isn't OK and hopefully someone will come along that will tick your boxes and be cool with your situation.

I just couldn't read without saying anything but ultimately just wanted to send love and best wishes for your recovery journey

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By *aughtyangie OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brighton


"I haven't got advice except to say just take it slowly and be gentle with yourself. Explain the situation, work out between you both what is and isn't OK and hopefully someone will come along that will tick your boxes and be cool with your situation.

I just couldn't read without saying anything but ultimately just wanted to send love and best wishes for your recovery journey

"

Thank you x

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"I had a stroke 16mnt ago I'm numb on my righthand side,have difficulty with words (but my mind works fine)

I have trouble very a full eirection

My wife is very understanding

We are looking at getting back in the Life any advice ?

(Not looking for a cuck situation)"

Sorry to hear that.

I'm not in the greatest health myself but I've meet all kinds of differently-abled people in the clubs.

Not all of my playmates can have an instant super-hard erection for hours and hours. But I work around it and they give me pleasure in lots of different ways. Sex isn't only about penile penetration for me and there are lots of different ways ( and toys) to create intimacy and connection with a playmate.

Sometimes I go to clubs just to relax and watch others because I'm feeling too fatigued or green around the gills.

It's nice that I can just go and have a chat with regulars without feeling the pressure to always play. Some of us just have a hug as a way of expressing that human need for touch.

If you can try reaching out to your previous meets and previous clubs and if they are anyone/any place decent they will offer you patience and support.

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By *eird_With_a_BeardMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I had a stroke 16mnt ago I'm numb on my righthand side,have difficulty with words (but my mind works fine)

I have trouble very a full eirection

My wife is very understanding

We are looking at getting back in the Life any advice ?

(Not looking for a cuck situation)

Sorry to hear that.

I'm not in the greatest health myself but I've meet all kinds of differently-abled people in the clubs.

Not all of my playmates can have an instant super-hard erection for hours and hours. But I work around it and they give me pleasure in lots of different ways. Sex isn't only about penile penetration for me and there are lots of different ways ( and toys) to create intimacy and connection with a playmate.

Sometimes I go to clubs just to relax and watch others because I'm feeling too fatigued or green around the gills.

It's nice that I can just go and have a chat with regulars without feeling the pressure to always play. Some of us just have a hug as a way of expressing that human need for touch.

If you can try reaching out to your previous meets and previous clubs and if they are anyone/any place decent they will offer you patience and support."

Just wanted to say I really like your answer. Some really good advice.

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By *aughtyangie OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brighton


"I had a stroke 16mnt ago I'm numb on my righthand side,have difficulty with words (but my mind works fine)

I have trouble very a full eirection

My wife is very understanding

We are looking at getting back in the Life any advice ?

(Not looking for a cuck situation)

Sorry to hear that.

I'm not in the greatest health myself but I've meet all kinds of differently-abled people in the clubs.

Not all of my playmates can have an instant super-hard erection for hours and hours. But I work around it and they give me pleasure in lots of different ways. Sex isn't only about penile penetration for me and there are lots of different ways ( and toys) to create intimacy and connection with a playmate.

Sometimes I go to clubs just to relax and watch others because I'm feeling too fatigued or green around the gills.

It's nice that I can just go and have a chat with regulars without feeling the pressure to always play. Some of us just have a hug as a way of expressing that human need for touch.

If you can try reaching out to your previous meets and previous clubs and if they are anyone/any place decent they will offer you patience and support."

Thanks some real words

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By *namoratomanMan
over a year ago

Herefordshire

This is always a dilemma and there’s some good advice been given above. You would, in my opinion, need to be honest and up front with any potential partner.

Headway UK are a good source of information. Look at them on Headway.org.uk they have a comprehensive leaflet which you can download it’s entitled “Sex and sexuality after brain injury”

Hope this helps.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Maybe getting help with erections would be a start and help with confidence, so have a chat with your GP. Maybe consider Intracavanosal injections (Invicorp, Caverject, Viridal, etc), which are very effective. Good luck.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Just posting this means you are brave and genuine have you tried viagra to maintain an erection? Hope all goes well with everything

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By *aughtyangie OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brighton


"Just posting this means you are brave and genuine have you tried viagra to maintain an erection? Hope all goes well with everything "

They are all blood pressure control pills and my stroke was because of that so no good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe getting help with erections would be a start and help with confidence, so have a chat with your GP. Maybe consider Intracavanosal injections (Invicorp, Caverject, Viridal, etc), which are very effective. Good luck."

I wondered the same. I guess taking anything like viagra etc would have to be only via guidance of your GP, due to your health . Good luck op

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