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Couples with profile for both, and also each other

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By *oubleswing2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Good afternoon,

I'd like to get some feedback on couples where the dynamic for them is to have a profile for them both, and 1 or more profiles for each member of the couple. For example, their dynamic might be as a poly or open-relationship.

Could anyone who engages in this offer any advice / warn on pitfalls / share experiences ? That would be much appreciated, thank you.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hi we have single profiles as well as this joint one.

For us it's due to how hard it is to get a four way attraction with other couples and because I miss am straight & most couples seem to want fem play.

We met here ,so just kept our single profiles and hid them for a while.

We both are happy for the other to meet alone as long as we tell the other in advance.

Is there anything specific you're looking to know ?

Miss

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No pitfalls so far ,as we always tell the other if we're speaking to someone and if we are going to meet.

Always set your boundaries and rules ,is if there are things you keep for yourself .

I happily confirm with any ladies or couples that I'm happy for jack to meet alone .

Keep talking and enjoy Yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We each have a single profile. It is a fantastic way of experiencing what some prospective playmates are actually like. People speak with Miss very differently on her single profile than how they do on this one.

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By *hilled sexy guyMan
over a year ago

dublin

We have singles and couples profiles. We feel exactly as the couple above. Hard to get four way attraction physically and also re sexual interests etc. So great to have solo profiles. Both straight. Works great.

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By *oubleswing2019 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Thank you JackDMissMorgan, a-tad-playful and Chilled sexy guy for sharing your experiences.

I guess the reason I asked was to discover how others each with their own account operate.

I absolutely agree, in an open-relationshop or one with poly elements at least, you need to be open, transparent and honest with everyone.

I just wondered, do you as partners, discuss the other partners prospective meets for example ? Double vet their choices ? Or leave them to it ?

Do you go with your partner on a prospective meet but sit nearby in case your partner needs assistance ?

Do you initially introduce yourself to the invitee as "her/his partner" and then allay any of their fears for example ? "No mate/lass, we're poly/open/whatever and it has my blessing. Just be nice to him/her and we'll all be good"

I think those are the questions forming in my mind.

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