FabSwingers.com forum: advice needed for a curious friend

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a friend who's heard about the fun I've had at LC in Sheffield and fancies trying it herself. She's only into girls, quite pretty, got fab boobs (the cow) but, and here's the tricky part, she's pre-op TS.

She's worried about the reaction she'd get as she doesn't want to be treated like a freak or even worse, a bloke

What are your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Forgot to say she lives and works full time as a woman without drawing adverse attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe better going to a TV/TS nite if confidence is her issue

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There might be a bit of a give away if she gets her kit off completely but if she was coy and pretended to be shy and fluttered her eyes at some guy, am sure he would indulge in some backdoor shenanigans. Then she could leap around and pull her knickers to one side with a dramatic flourish and shout "ha ha you're bi"!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That is part of the issue, she lives and sees herself as a woman rather than part of the TV/TS scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There might be a bit of a give away if she gets her kit off completely but if she was coy and pretended to be shy and fluttered her eyes at some guy, am sure he would indulge in some backdoor shenanigans. Then she could leap around and pull her knickers to one side with a dramatic flourish and shout "ha ha you're bi"! "

lol but she likes women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol, but she's really not into guys. Like your thinking though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is part of the issue, she lives and sees herself as a woman rather than part of the TV/TS scene"

respectfully I say her and would address as such...however she is not.. she can be physically after the operation of course..and Ive never asked any woman if they were a man previously...although..yup..I'd wanna know

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I adore to play with her. I have a thing for pre op's. That sounds really bad, I know. But it's the truth.

I always found LC a little 'narrow minded' for want of a better phrase. Fine with girl on girl, but the one time I saw 2 guys kissing in a public room, they were almost hounded out of the place. Maybe it was just a bad night, but I'd personally advise her against LC, unless they do TS/TV friendly nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I always found LC a little 'narrow minded' for want of a better phrase. Fine with girl on girl, but the one time I saw 2 guys kissing in a public room, they were almost hounded out of the place. "

I'm surprised you say that, since I've always found LC to be really open-minded.

And also, if she looks like a girl, and is only interested in girls, then the vast majority will assume she's a lesbian (unless she chooses to point out to the world that she has a penis!)

I think she should crack on and go for it. And if she should receive any narrow-minded comments, she should 'hold her head high'! It's no-one else's business!

I hope she has a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a friend who's heard about the fun I've had at LC in Sheffield and fancies trying it herself. She's only into girls, quite pretty, got fab boobs (the cow) but, and here's the tricky part, she's pre-op TS.

She's worried about the reaction she'd get as she doesn't want to be treated like a freak or even worse, a bloke

What are your thoughts? "

As long as she is honest with people and they are aware so able to make thier own decision as to weather they wish to play with her or not then its fine. There will be those who choose not to as we'll as those who choose to but that is the same for us all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies. She's decided I think to wait a year or so till she's got the right toys in the box, so to speak.

One thought I'd had was that she may have difficulty joining anyway as LC require I'd and all hers says female.

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

" I always found LC a little 'narrow minded' for want of a better phrase. Fine with girl on girl, but the one time I saw 2 guys kissing in a public room, they were almost hounded out of the place.

I'm surprised you say that, since I've always found LC to be really open-minded.

And also, if she looks like a girl, and is only interested in girls, then the vast majority will assume she's a lesbian (unless she chooses to point out to the world that she has a penis!)

I think she should crack on and go for it. And if she should receive any narrow-minded comments, she should 'hold her head high'! It's no-one else's business!

I hope she has a great time

sounds like a goodly plan from this end... go for it!

Good luck to 'em

Wolf

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