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By *nterprizeABC OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

If anyone wants to have a look at my profile and completely eviserate it then please go ahead.

Messaged someone, they messaged back, and then failed to read my next message and subsequently completely left the site. Had a tinder like for the first time in ages, and the message went unanswered. No message I write for Ok Cupid is ever good enough.

4 mins of sex in 4 years.

Sorry for the self-pitying rant. I just want this off my chest so I can get back up and try again.

...but feel free to eviserate the profile. It'll never be good enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't read your profile properly so won't comment but do your best to cut the negativity. Positivity and confidence is sexy. Negativity a turn off. Perhaps that comes across when you chat? Know it's tough but you've done the right thing getting out there to socials - more than most. Keep doing that, stay in touch with people and network, be positive, be friendly and sure things will happen. Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also was the 4 mins one lady once or 4 ladies one minute each? Just kidding. Wish you luck. Chin up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone wants to have a look at my profile and completely eviserate it then please go ahead.

Messaged someone, they messaged back, and then failed to read my next message and subsequently completely left the site. Had a tinder like for the first time in ages, and the message went unanswered. No message I write for Ok Cupid is ever good enough.

4 mins of sex in 4 years.

Sorry for the self-pitying rant. I just want this off my chest so I can get back up and try again.

...but feel free to eviserate the profile. It'll never be good enough. "

Aw damn, I was hoping you were up for a roast but it seems you want constructive feedback. I'll take a look!

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

You could definitely have some better photos, they're not very clear

The text on your profile reads ok to me

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By *uicy and GymCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Sounds more like u want a dating site not a swinging one

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By *antric_lover77Woman
over a year ago

south east

True... depends why you use fab. Plenty of women on here prefer fwb set up. Your profile seems fine to me. Are you chatting to women who want the same as you? Maybe it's your sexual personality doesn't show very well on your profile. Talk about your kinks and skills

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

belfast city centre


"Sounds more like u want a dating site not a swinging one "

So many men’s profiles on here read like this to me, I find it really odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d update you’re pics thet are not very alluring but the information on you’re profile is good description of what you want and have to offer. Good luck

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Agree with what other forumites have said op

Good text ,but maybe some better more varied pictures if you can.

Moss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds more like u want a dating site not a swinging one

So many men’s profiles on here read like this to me, I find it really odd. "

Yes agreed. I think a lot of men find it hard to sell themselves sexually without coming across as crude and are also worried about putting people off with any kinks or special interests (when actually makes them more likely to find somebody with a similar interest). Then again many of course just want sex and don't have anything special to say which makes it tough to stand out.

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By *nterprizeABC OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

I am grateful for the responses and will work on this.

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