FabSwingers.com forum: Is my profile ok or have i missed something

By *uasar911 OP Man
over a year ago

Bury St Edmunds

Hello All

I have been on here quite a few months now, and yet to meet a nice lady

Is there something i am doing or saying wrong ?

I do not send dick pics

I do not chat crude, always nice opening lines and intelligent chat.

I have probably had nice chats with a couple of females, all nice,

A couple of females said yes lets meet, but nothing ever happens or they just fall off the site,

Criticism and ideas please,

Kind Regards

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

"Hello All

I have been on here quite a few months now, and yet to meet a nice lady

Is there something i am doing or saying wrong ?

I do not send dick pics

I do not chat crude, always nice opening lines and intelligent chat.

I have probably had nice chats with a couple of females, all nice,

A couple of females said yes lets meet, but nothing ever happens or they just fall off the site,

Criticism and ideas please,

Kind Regards"

You’re experiencing what a lot of people do round here

Just crack on and you’ll get a meet one day

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's fine. You have nice pictures snd a brief description. All I'd say is just put a bit in about what anyone could expect if they met you.

One thing that puts me off a little is being referred to as 'female' but I'm not your target and some women are ok with it

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You're doing well to chat with me people. But most people are not mutually compatible with most other people, so good starts will generally fizzle out, without a meet.

Always ask yourself whether your profile could generically fit most men. The closer it gets to that, the easier it will be for someone to appear like the crowd. And there's a huuuge crowd of men here.

Does it sell you? Will readers know what you bring to the scene?

I was left feeling that you weren't really sold very well. Great that you're not doing the dick pics though

Good luck!

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By *uasar911 OP Man
over a year ago

Bury St Edmunds

Thank you for your advice.

One reply said maybe not put "female" what should i put, or just completely leave out women/female/ladies etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello All

I have been on here quite a few months now, and yet to meet a nice lady

Is there something i am doing or saying wrong ?

I do not send dick pics

I do not chat crude, always nice opening lines and intelligent chat.

I have probably had nice chats with a couple of females, all nice,

A couple of females said yes lets meet, but nothing ever happens or they just fall off the site,

Criticism and ideas please,

Kind Regards"

You haven't met anyone on Fab?

No idea why they didn't want to meet. Perhaps their husband found their profile or it was a builder called Dave having a wank.

Don't take it personally. Maybe try social events. See the Meets forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your photos it makes a nice change from seeing dick pictures. Maybe just a little more info about you would be good but if you lived closer by to me I for one would have definitely met you

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think your pics are great. If I'm being picky 18-99 is a huge age range you are willing to meet.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"One reply said maybe not put "female" what should i put, or just completely leave out women/female/ladies etc"

Some women prefer "women" to "females" as the latter is a biological term that could refer to any number of animals. "Woman" refers to the person as a whole.

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

It's inoffensive, that's probably about as much as I could say

. Try inject a little personality. What specifically are you looking for and what can you offer?

Get out there and do some networking. Social events are great for making initial contact with people

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

Pictures ok bio could be a bit longer.

It's not easy for anyone we go to clubs and Social & any events so we can meet up face to face.

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Your profile reads more like a dating/friendship advertisement to me.

You say no one has met up with you, yet you have a meet verification

slightly sus…

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP.. the bit about not biting is a bit cringeworthy, and the rest is inoffensive, if a little dull.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

You say you've not met but you have a meet verification from a female.

I offered to meet you ages ago but you couldn't

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

Problem is,your a man. Your in with a heck of a lot of other guys. You could wait for years without a meet and probably during that time there will be umpteen women who say they are on for meeting,but nothing will come of it. They quit the site, ignore you after a while,never get back to you,block you mid conversation,etc. All stuff that's happened to me recently,and constantly since my last meet 8 years ago. You just have to keep on going and remember it might all be for nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's fine. You have nice pictures snd a brief description. All I'd say is just put a bit in about what anyone could expect if they met you.

One thing that puts me off a little is being referred to as 'female' but I'm not your target and some women are ok with it"

I also find it a little strange when men use the word females, especially when women is less letters

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