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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I am diabetic and in recent times I'm finding it difficult to get hard, and keep it. My wife is very understanding but I fear she thinks I have one off her.

We have met a handfull of guys over the 6 years in the lifestyle all MMF. I love filming the fun and with the aid of viagra join in. I get a massive headache from taking it but the pleasure is worth it!

It seems I have a future and voyeur and camera man. Anyone else in the position? Any advise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear you’re struggling OP!

I don’t want to assume or generalise but I’d say at least part of the issue is that you’re thinking about the issue. I know that’s not what you want to hear but often the mind is one of the biggest problems. I got headaches from Viagra when we’ve tried it, try using the alternative and see if that works without headaches

Outside of that, as long as you’re happy playing cameraman and occasional participant, keep on fabbing

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I am diabetic and in recent times I'm finding it difficult to get hard, and keep it. My wife is very understanding but I fear she thinks I have one off her.

We have met a handfull of guys over the 6 years in the lifestyle all MMF. I love filming the fun and with the aid of viagra join in. I get a massive headache from taking it but the pleasure is worth it!

It seems I have a future and voyeur and camera man. Anyone else in the position? Any advise? "

Are you a type 2 or type 1.

How are your levels doing have they been stable lately or have you been struggling with keeping control.

Mu sister is a type 1 and has a lot of other problems because of the diabetes, to help her she has changed her diet a lot and its had an amazing improvement on her overall, her levels are fantastic and she is feeling super amazing. Her libido has also come back.

Have you spoken to your gp? Maybe their are other alternatives that you could look into other than the viagra. Good luck and I hope it gets better. I agree with the over thinking about it, it can really do a number and make you anxious without realising it.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Have you tried Cialis / Tadalafil. It's a different medication in the same group of medications (referred to as PDE5 inhibitors) and is less likely to give headaches and flushing (redness). It also works for longer (generally 24 hours but can be up to 36 hours). Speak to your GP as you should be able to get them on prescription and find out what works best for you.

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I am a recently diagnosed type 2 diabetic I find the pills prescribed by doc a bit strong so cut in half still works but less headache

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By *ippa 63TV/TS
over a year ago

St Helens

I recently found out that i was type 2. I had lost my mojo and found it hard to get hard.

I haven't been on a diet but limited my carbs to 130 grams a day.

Together with more exercise walking and golf i have lost one and half stone.

Gurl wise i am down to size 14 and man wise down to 32 waist. Something that i was in my teens.

I do feel a lot healthier and have not taken any medication.

My libido has come back but not as much when i was younger. Never taken viagrra or any other tablets.

Hope this helps.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough


"I recently found out that i was type 2. I had lost my mojo and found it hard to get hard.

I haven't been on a diet but limited my carbs to 130 grams a day.

Together with more exercise walking and golf i have lost one and half stone.

Gurl wise i am down to size 14 and man wise down to 32 waist. Something that i was in my teens.

I do feel a lot healthier and have not taken any medication.

My libido has come back but not as much when i was younger. Never taken viagrra or any other tablets.

Hope this helps. "

Well done Pippa a fantastic effort… many (not all!) diagnosed T2s take the pills and continue with the lifestyle that put them there in the first place. It just shows with a better diet, and exercise, you can help beat off the complications that could await you down the line - awesome result lady x

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By *escreetladforfun7Man
over a year ago

anywere

Cialais also known as the yellow weekender,you dont get the headaches and they work for upto 36 hours

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

Hi, type 1 for 30 years here (as you can tell from the kit on my tummy).

Yes, diabetes destroys tiny blood vessels so I’m afraid erectile dysfunction is a common complication.

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By *appytaffWoman
over a year ago

blackwood

Op - erectile dysfunction is common with diabetes.

There have been some great suggestions here. Have you considered eroxon gel ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently found out that i was type 2. I had lost my mojo and found it hard to get hard.

I haven't been on a diet but limited my carbs to 130 grams a day.

Together with more exercise walking and golf i have lost one and half stone.

Gurl wise i am down to size 14 and man wise down to 32 waist. Something that i was in my teens.

I do feel a lot healthier and have not taken any medication.

My libido has come back but not as much when i was younger. Never taken viagrra or any other tablets. Hi I'm type2 are you getting harder hard on now?

Hope this helps. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently found out that i was type 2. I had lost my mojo and found it hard to get hard.

I haven't been on a diet but limited my carbs to 130 grams a day.

Together with more exercise walking and golf i have lost one and half stone.

Gurl wise i am down to size 14 and man wise down to 32 waist. Something that i was in my teens.

I do feel a lot healthier and have not taken any medication.

My libido has come back but not as much when i was younger. Never taken viagrra or any other tablets.

Hope this helps. Hi I'm type2 too are you getting harder hard on on now, ? "

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Just make sure she wants to continue meeting others with you as camara man, it may be some of her pleasure was about you joining in. Good communication will help you both as a couples. X

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By *yTreacleMan
over a year ago

Winchester

Has anyone tried Eroxon?

How did you find it?

I had prostate cancer years ago and have never had any benefit from either Viagra or Cialis although, as previously mentioned I got less headaches with Cialis

The jab work intermittently but now I have to rely on my pump for any firmness.

It’s a good job I always loved giving oral and was very patient

As an aside, Gents if you’re 50 or over get your prostate checked regularly. I went from being a heavy cummer and able to repeat to 7 hours of surgery within 8 weeks. No symptoms. Just a brilliant GP who questioned a jokey answer to one of his general queries and immediately checked me out.

Ladies get your men to the doc if they haven’t been checked.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

Boots apparently...

If you're getting headaches i'd go see the doc as well

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

As a diabetic myself I have the opposite I can get hard but it takes a long time for me to orgasm sometimes not reaching it.

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