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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anybody tell me what needs adding and what need changing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some public pics of what u look like cos ur profile pic is small???

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

maybe a body pic and expand your profile to sell yourself more, what makes you different from hundreds and hundreds of other guys...

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welcome and have fun on the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks i have added my profile picture to public but will add more

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

You are 21, are you sure you want to play with a 99yr old woman???

Be realistic lol.

Good luck and stay safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

really not looking comfy with ur profile pic...smile,pose whatever...but change it

and take a good few...decide whats best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok this is not a gripe as such,,,, but including lines instructing readers to remember what’s important in life can come over a bit eeeeek…. ……

But good luck to you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha i could do with smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok this is not a gripe as such,,,, but including lines instructing readers to remember what’s important in life can come over a bit eeeeek…. ……

But good luck to you... "

I think that comes across fine unless he's just saying it to make women think he's a softy lol

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

Firstly - welcome to the asylum!

A couple more pics wouldn't go amiss...

And a bit more about your likes and about what you can offer may help.

Have a look at a few other male profiles - you'll soon see who is getting the meets and who isn't. Take some pointers from those that do... Just don't copy and paste their profiles! Lol!

Good luck and have fun, and be patient - if you get it right, it'll happen. You only get out what you put in. No effort = no meets usually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anybody tell me what needs adding and what need changing. "
What needs adding? A lot more about YOU. What needs changing? If you're genuinely single, why can't you accommodate.???? Hmmmmm...????

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"Can anybody tell me what needs adding and what need changing. What needs adding? A lot more about YOU. What needs changing? If you're genuinely single, why can't you accommodate.???? Hmmmmm...????"

This too!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Hello Shawn....

1. Smile photo is good

2. A variety of public pics torso ones and undone jeans

3. Explain why you can't accommodate otherwise people might think you are sneaking about behind someones back

4. Put what you're into

5. Put a bit about yourself

6. What can you offer to make you stand out? Age, enthusiasm? Stamina?

7. Make a subtle reference to StarWars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anybody tell me what needs adding and what need changing. What needs adding? A lot more about YOU. What needs changing? If you're genuinely single, why can't you accommodate.???? Hmmmmm...????"

He's 21 maybe he lives with his parents still or in the forces???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello Shawn....

1. Smile photo is good

2. A variety of public pics torso ones and undone jeans

3. Explain why you can't accommodate otherwise people might think you are sneaking about behind someones back

4. Put what you're into

5. Put a bit about yourself

6. What can you offer to make you stand out? Age, enthusiasm? Stamina?

7. Make a subtle reference to StarWars. "

Or an even more subtle one to Red Dwarf, Big Bang Theory or The Prisoner...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

He is not a number! He is a free man! And hopefully not a nerd nor a smeghead lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anybody tell me what needs adding and what need changing. What needs adding? A lot more about YOU. What needs changing? If you're genuinely single, why can't you accommodate.???? Hmmmmm...????

He's 21 maybe he lives with his parents still or in the forces???"

Then.... say so, or the conclusion most women will jump to is..... he's married/in a relationship...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anybody tell me what needs adding and what need changing. What needs adding? A lot more about YOU. What needs changing? If you're genuinely single, why can't you accommodate.???? Hmmmmm...????

He's 21 maybe he lives with his parents still or in the forces???

Then.... say so, or the conclusion most women will jump to is..... he's married/in a relationship..."

Tbh I don't even think about why they can't accommodate but maybe that's cos I wouldn't want to go to them I'd rather have them come to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for your advice anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well everything u say puts me off

I'm here for nsa fun and u make it sound too attached for me.. What's inside is important if I wanted a bf.. Bleh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well everything u say puts me off

I'm here for nsa fun and u make it sound too attached for me.. What's inside is important if I wanted a bf.. Bleh!"

Yes, what she said. All very nicey nicey, I like what's inside and all that. It may suit some and yes, personality is important but your on a sex site looking to get laid are you not or are you seriously just wanting nice conversation?

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Maybe he is here for a little more than just wanting to meet anyone to get 'laid'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wondered when fab swinging site changed to a Sex site!!!

We thought it was a swinging site for likeminded swinging people, not just for people looking for a quick shag, we look for more than just the sex!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually like the profile, nothing boasty nothing alpha-maleish.

though I'd definitely change the 'no matter what u look like etc' bit..as it appears a little desperate...and leads u into 'i cant knock that back' zone...even if u really really dont want them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always wondered when fab swinging site changed to a Sex site!!!

We thought it was a swinging site for likeminded swinging people, not just for people looking for a quick shag, we look for more than just the sex!!!"

Yes there's the social side some people also enjoy but in my _iew anyone who says fab isn't a sex site is sadly deluded.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

What exactly is a 'sex site'? .... a site where people meet for sex i guess.

Fab is that yes, but that is only the basis of it, there is so much more here for those who want to look and explore. The site is for whatever you want it to be for. I dont hunt down sex, its not why im here, but there are some who do. Thats why its important to get your profile right ( and that takes time), ensure that you appeal to the type of people you are looking for .

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always wondered when fab swinging site changed to a Sex site!!!

We thought it was a swinging site for likeminded swinging people, not just for people looking for a quick shag, we look for more than just the sex!!!

Yes there's the social side some people also enjoy but in my _iew anyone who says fab isn't a sex site is sadly deluded."

You can't have sex on here it is a site for making sexual buddies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What exactly is a 'sex site'? .... a site where people meet for sex i guess.

Fab is that yes, but that is only the basis of it, there is so much more here for those who want to look and explore. The site is for whatever you want it to be for. I dont hunt down sex, its not why im here, but there are some who do. Thats why its important to get your profile right ( and that takes time), ensure that you appeal to the type of people you are looking for .

xx"

I do agree there is a lot more to the site than sex for many people but at the end of the day why do join a swingers site rather than some social type of club.... Because at the end of the day you hope you will meet someone you like , get on with... And maybe have sex with them. When I say you, I don't specifically mean you, just generally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What exactly is a 'sex site'? .... a site where people meet for sex i guess.

Fab is that yes, but that is only the basis of it, there is so much more here for those who want to look and explore. The site is for whatever you want it to be for. I dont hunt down sex, its not why im here, but there are some who do. Thats why its important to get your profile right ( and that takes time), ensure that you appeal to the type of people you are looking for .

xx

I do agree there is a lot more to the site than sex for many people but at the end of the day why do join a swingers site rather than some social type of club.... Because at the end of the day you hope you will meet someone you like , get on with... And maybe have sex with them. When I say you, I don't specifically mean you, just generally."

This is where we have a different out look, sex sites are just that in our minds people looking for sex,

We how ever like to meet likeminded swingers, who would like to share there experiences and time with us and if that leads to sex then great,

we also go to clubs but many times we dont play, we use the facilites to play alone away from the bedroom at home, where else can we get a sex swing bondage beds pools jacuzzi etc etc, the sex is a added bonus, so to us its totally two different things being a swinger and hunting for sex.

buts thats not to say our way is right or the best its to say, thats what works for us and is our mind set and the mind set of people we,d like to meet, as for the sex we get plenty at home so isnt at the forefront.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes for different folks... That's what makes the world go round. think we've hijacked the poor lads thread... Oops, back to you Shawn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So lots of advice from many people but nothing much has changed in the last couple of days. Did you ask with no intent on taking advice or do you not think the advice given is right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes the advice was good and yes i am going to change some stuff just been to busy chatting.

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