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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Hi all

Can you search meets by a user name. Just had a guy cancel our weekend meeting, looked at his profile and he has a meet up, can’t see when or what kind, just the calendar icon. Looks like he got a better offer, why not just say changed mind ?

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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If he has a meet up, you can look at the list of meets. Narrow it down by using the search criteria so you can choose day/area etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear you been let down

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Thanks, quite a lot to search through as area is Scotland

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

The calendar icon appears if you add yourself to 'meet today', I don't think he necessarily has a specific meet listed.

Anyway, it's his loss judging by your profile, pics and verifications.

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants


"Hi all

Can you search meets by a user name. Just had a guy cancel our weekend meeting, looked at his profile and he has a meet up, can’t see when or what kind, just the calendar icon. Looks like he got a better offer, why not just say changed mind ?"

I agree i would rather me told no thank you .Nothing worse then be looking forward to a meet and travelling a distance and they dont show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

Can you search meets by a user name. Just had a guy cancel our weekend meeting, looked at his profile and he has a meet up, can’t see when or what kind, just the calendar icon. Looks like he got a better offer, why not just say changed mind ?

I agree i would rather me told no thank you .Nothing worse then be looking forward to a meet and travelling a distance and they dont show."

But he did tell her well I'm guessing he did as she said he cancelled their meet.

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The calendar icon appears if you add yourself to 'meet today', I don't think he necessarily has a specific meet listed.

Anyway, it's his loss judging by your profile, pics and verifications."

I didn’t realise calendar icon was meet today ?

Thanks for the compliment

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Thanks all, yes he messaged this morning and cancelled our Sunday meet, so at least there’s that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all, yes he messaged this morning and cancelled our Sunday meet, so at least there’s that"

That's good, he gave you plenty of notice so no harm done, gives you time to rearrange

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Thanks all, yes he messaged this morning and cancelled our Sunday meet, so at least there’s that

That's good, he gave you plenty of notice so no harm done, gives you time to rearrange "

Ah who to see though, decisions decisions !

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By *hestermanMan
over a year ago

chester

Hi

Is there a Chester social group that meets regularly. Thanks andrew

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Hi

Is there a Chester social group that meets regularly. Thanks andrew"

It's better form to post separately, rather than hijack another thread. Plus you could get directed attention to your topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

Can you search meets by a user name. Just had a guy cancel our weekend meeting, looked at his profile and he has a meet up, can’t see when or what kind, just the calendar icon. Looks like he got a better offer, why not just say changed mind ?"

Be direct and ask him. Better yet move on. I don’t mean that to sound harsh but none of us are entitled to anyone else’s time or attention.

When things don’t work out it’s best to focus on yourself.

I’d be pretty alarmed if I found out someone I had rejected was now trying to find out details about my meets.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi all

Can you search meets by a user name. Just had a guy cancel our weekend meeting, looked at his profile and he has a meet up, can’t see when or what kind, just the calendar icon. Looks like he got a better offer, why not just say changed mind ?"

He cancelled your meet. Why try to find out what he's doing or who he's meeting? Or are you looking to search meets for yourself?

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere


"Hi all

Can you search meets by a user name. Just had a guy cancel our weekend meeting, looked at his profile and he has a meet up, can’t see when or what kind, just the calendar icon. Looks like he got a better offer, why not just say changed mind ?"

It comes across as a bit stalkers wanting to search meets by username.

It could be anything, such as a family emergency, hes twisted his ankle, or any one of numerous things that's caused him to cancel, and its not necessarily another meet, but at least he's had the decency to cancel.

Don't let it get to you.

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By *nobyMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Press the search button,magnifying glass ,and pick the by name option bottom right. At least in my app!

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