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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff

Been on here a while and never seem to find anyone interested, just wanna have fun with someone see how things go I’m open to new experiences and sick and tired of messaging people here and never getting a response

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Been on here a while and never seem to find anyone interested, just wanna have fun with someone see how things go I’m open to new experiences and sick and tired of messaging people here and never getting a response "

Hi op

What do you do before you write a message

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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff

I’ll usually fab some photos and wink their page

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I’ll usually fab some photos and wink their page "

Don't you read their bio as I'm sure they'll be reading yours so if they don't find anything interesting

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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff

Oh yeah 100% I make sure to read the profile

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Oh yeah 100% I make sure to read the profile "

Do you compare yours too theirs by any chance as might need a little more work done pal

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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff

Tbf I haven’t touched my profile since I made it so you might be right

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Genuine question: was your expectation in joining? And do you honestly feel your level of effort matches the results you felt entitled to?

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By *rJ88888 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Cardiff

Like I said in the last message, I haven’t really paid attention to the bio so I’m gonna work on that, any need for the block?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbf I haven’t touched my profile since I made it so you might be right "

Therein lies your answer!

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Like I said in the last message, I haven’t really paid attention to the bio so I’m gonna work on that, any need for the block?"

What block?

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

It's not rocket science

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Use the search button! The one no one uses

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

If you need a little bit of assistance op use the forum Search profile help advice theirs loads of useful information to help you

Good luck pal

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It's not rocket science "

What's not?

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Like I said in the last message, I haven’t really paid attention to the bio so I’m gonna work on that, any need for the block?

What block?"

I'm assuming he thinks your hidden profile means he's blocked!

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Like I said in the last message, I haven’t really paid attention to the bio so I’m gonna work on that, any need for the block?

What block?

I'm assuming he thinks your hidden profile means he's blocked!"

Would be useful if a page appeared when you try a look at a hidden profile and said something like ‘this member has hidden their profile’ to make it absolutely clear that the profile is hidden rather than blocked you to save any confusion like what happened with OP.

Can any mods reading this look into getting this done please?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Like I said in the last message, I haven’t really paid attention to the bio so I’m gonna work on that, any need for the block?

What block?

I'm assuming he thinks your hidden profile means he's blocked!

Would be useful if a page appeared when you try a look at a hidden profile and said something like ‘this member has hidden their profile’ to make it absolutely clear that the profile is hidden rather than blocked you to save any confusion like what happened with OP.

Can any mods reading this look into getting this done please? "

It already does when a profile is hidden says

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Like I said in the last message, I haven’t really paid attention to the bio so I’m gonna work on that, any need for the block?

What block?

I'm assuming he thinks your hidden profile means he's blocked!

Would be useful if a page appeared when you try a look at a hidden profile and said something like ‘this member has hidden their profile’ to make it absolutely clear that the profile is hidden rather than blocked you to save any confusion like what happened with OP.

Can any mods reading this look into getting this done please?

It already does when a profile is hidden says "

Really? Why did OP think that he’d been blocked then rather than it just being a hidden profile of it clearly states that it’s a hidden profile?

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Like I said in the last message, I haven’t really paid attention to the bio so I’m gonna work on that, any need for the block?

What block?

I'm assuming he thinks your hidden profile means he's blocked!

Would be useful if a page appeared when you try a look at a hidden profile and said something like ‘this member has hidden their profile’ to make it absolutely clear that the profile is hidden rather than blocked you to save any confusion like what happened with OP.

Can any mods reading this look into getting this done please? "

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

There is a good guide on the forum here

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/51490

The easiest way to meet people is always an organised social. So people

See who you are and not just text on a screen.

Good luck!

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I think you also need to understand that Fab is mainly frequented by men - by a significant margin. I know that ladies in here are literally swamped by contacts, emails etc … so what makes you think that fabbing a pic and winking is going to make you stand out from the likely hundreds of other winks and fans they get.

Good luck, and enjoy the wait!

R x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple answer = you aren't what they are looking for.

If you are then that isn't showing = couples and women get a lot of messages as stated above. Stand out

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

I fab a whole load of pics on here. They’re literally a dime a dozen due to sheer volume that are received. Reading bios before messaging and revamping your profile would be a good place to start.

Honestly… your best bet for success is to get away from your phone screen, get out to club nights/socials OP….

I see you’re from Cardiff so I know there’s a whole heap of organised socials that take place in and around your region

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

Best option is to try a club or two. Maybe get to know few folks that way.

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"It's not rocket science "

Both Rockets and Fab can end in a huge explosion.... sorry not sorry.

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By *riciaWoman
over a year ago

Blaydon


"It's not rocket science

Both Rockets and Fab can end in a huge explosion.... sorry not sorry. "

I think the technical term is now a rapid unplanned disassembly!

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Like I said in the last message, I haven’t really paid attention to the bio so I’m gonna work on that, any need for the block?

What block?

I'm assuming he thinks your hidden profile means he's blocked!

Would be useful if a page appeared when you try a look at a hidden profile and said something like ‘this member has hidden their profile’ to make it absolutely clear that the profile is hidden rather than blocked you to save any confusion like what happened with OP.

Can any mods reading this look into getting this done please?

It already does when a profile is hidden says

Really? Why did OP think that he’d been blocked then rather than it just being a hidden profile of it clearly states that it’s a hidden profile? "

He may not have come across a hidden profile before. Given the fact that everyone who is on here for a certain length of time is bound to come across at least one hidden profile (and possibly another banned/blocked) I can’t see admin amending this feature to prevent several minutes of confusion for the occasional soul

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

You will be surprised on how many people don't actually read profiles before sending messages, I've had loads that ask questions that you wikk find the answer in my profile

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