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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone, have a quick question here. When you look at who's looked at your profile and you notice people have looked several times or even just looked, do you just assume if they liked what they saw they'd say hello or do you message or wink them?

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By *obbieCMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Personally I send them a wink and if I don't get a message then I assume they aren't interested. I'd never peater them.....R xxx

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By *obbieCMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Pester.....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hello everyone, have a quick question here. When you look at who's looked at your profile and you notice people have looked several times or even just looked, do you just assume if they liked what they saw they'd say hello or do you message or wink them? "

I message them and say thank you for looking and that I hope they liked what they saw and to feel free to contact me, then don't contact them again if they ignore that.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Sometimes I message constant lookers

The last one I said Boo! to was user no longer on site within hrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone, have a quick question here. When you look at who's looked at your profile and you notice people have looked several times or even just looked, do you just assume if they liked what they saw they'd say hello or do you message or wink them? "

I'll message and say hello if I'm interested in them yes - its possible the reason they didn't message first was because they weren't interested, but then some just need a little encouragement to get chatting.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nope, I just think they've looked at me, and think no further of it, I never pay attention if they have winked or no, the only thing that gets my attention is an actual message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they wanted to message me then they would. If they just looked and nothing else then I'd think they weren't interested.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Sometimes I message constant lookers

The last one I said Boo! to was user no longer on site within hrs "

You scared him off!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone, have a quick question here. When you look at who's looked at your profile and you notice people have looked several times or even just looked, do you just assume if they liked what they saw they'd say hello or do you message or wink them?

I message them and say thank you for looking and that I hope they liked what they saw and to feel free to contact me, then don't contact them again if they ignore that. "

I message and say hope the pictures turn you on.

When I get no response I know it's because they are after pics nothing else so I hit block.

If genuinely interested they would message or wink

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Sometimes I message constant lookers

The last one I said Boo! to was user no longer on site within hrs

You scared him off!!! Lol "

Yeah lightweight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a couple of "stalkers" lol. Look several times a week, never a message, wink or anything lol. We just let them get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will either wink or send a message if we like the look of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks everyone. I will just carry on not doing anything about it and assume if they wanted to message, they would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i luk at lots of profiles but usually im just being nosey!but if i really liked a profile id send a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a number of people who look at us most days but never message. No idea why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the look of them I will send a wink, if I get no response then it's onwards and upwards.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

There are a few who keep looking at mine, dunno why, if they are interested they will message, if not they wont so I wont contact them.

There are two profiles I look at a lot, they are sexy people and post lots of pics so I like to see what new ones thay have posted.

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