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By * and G 2022 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Anyone with a couple profile ever felt they shouldn't be on fab as no one wants to play with you as a couple and they just ike the women but not the bloke?

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

Yep. And I (Mr) am punching above my weight too. The look of disappointment when people meet us....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is the opposite for us ! I’m frequently told I’m punching and girls want to meet him alone

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By *ustforshow25Couple
over a year ago

Leatherhead

No, I mean we get those types of people, but it doesn't mean we shouldn't be here, it just means they aren't a good match for us.

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By * and G 2022 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Y do they get disappointed when they mmet u both? Apart from when they say your punching?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're looking for a couple for the Mrs, with the first meet (and play) whilst Mr is there, either only with Mrs A, or not at all.

Once she's comfortable, she'll meet alone.

Still no interest.

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border


"Y do they get disappointed when they mmet u both? Apart from when they say your punching? "

It was more of a tongue in cheek comment. In most couples, the female is the selling point. We're no different.

Attend organised socials, you'll soon find others want to get to know both of you.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Anyone with a couple profile ever felt they shouldn't be on fab as no one wants to play with you as a couple and they just ike the women but not the bloke? "

I've never felt I shouldn't be on fab, but we get that all the time. Fortunately, I get off on people lusting over her!

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By *ecretSilverlinkMan
over a year ago

Manchester

The right one will come. They aren’t respecting your profile etc if they just want your partner x

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By *ecretSilverlinkMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yep. And I (Mr) am punching above my weight too. The look of disappointment when people meet us.... "

No you’re not punching at all. You’re both beautiful and unique. Never change x

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Yep. And I (Mr) am punching above my weight too. The look of disappointment when people meet us....

No you’re not punching at all. You’re both beautiful and unique. Never change x "

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Yep. And I (Mr) am punching above my weight too. The look of disappointment when people meet us.... "

Silly comment as you are together i think.... Swinging ain't dating fella x

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Anyone with a couple profile ever felt they shouldn't be on fab as no one wants to play with you as a couple and they just ike the women but not the bloke? "

You have 35 pictures on your profile and 30 of them are of the woman…if you’re so bothered about finding someone who is interested in the man and woman equally why don’t you have an equal number of pictures of each of you?

Kind of feels like you’re concentrating on the woman to attract people and then complaining that the people you attract are concentrating on the woman…

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Anyone with a couple profile ever felt they shouldn't be on fab as no one wants to play with you as a couple and they just ike the women but not the bloke? "

Perhaps you are just chatting to the wrong couples? However, as said above your profile does focus on female half. Perhaps bit more about you?

I'm active here as a couple and meets lots of other couples and for us both halves of a couple are important. However, we notice as couples get into late 40's, 50's, 60's often the ladies are still attractive and making an effort but the men let themselves go a bit and don't give a toss. Beer belly, not much effort on grooming, not much effort taking attractive pics, meeting in person and no effort to dress up and look sexy and attractive, crap at flirting etc. This is of course not all but we've noticed the pattern. Not saying this is you but we do notice when the male half is making an effort too and are much more interested - online and in person if we meet somewhere.

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Anyone with a couple profile ever felt they shouldn't be on fab as no one wants to play with you as a couple and they just ike the women but not the bloke?

Perhaps you are just chatting to the wrong couples? However, as said above your profile does focus on female half. Perhaps bit more about you?

I'm active here as a couple and meets lots of other couples and for us both halves of a couple are important. However, we notice as couples get into late 40's, 50's, 60's often the ladies are still attractive and making an effort but the men let themselves go a bit and don't give a toss. Beer belly, not much effort on grooming, not much effort taking attractive pics, meeting in person and no effort to dress up and look sexy and attractive, crap at flirting etc. This is of course not all but we've noticed the pattern. Not saying this is you but we do notice when the male half is making an effort too and are much more interested - online and in person if we meet somewhere. "

By beer belly, do you mean cuddly and chubby?

We can't all boast the much sought after "perfect" physique. Comes across as you looking down on us who are overweight.

I have wobbly bits, a belly and man boobs. So sorry if I don't fit in. I havnt let myself go, it's just the way my body is, and no one should be shamed for carrying sone extra timber.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"Anyone with a couple profile ever felt they shouldn't be on fab as no one wants to play with you as a couple and they just ike the women but not the bloke? "

Just gotta find your tribe op, if that’s not the way you play. Walk away.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Anyone with a couple profile ever felt they shouldn't be on fab as no one wants to play with you as a couple and they just ike the women but not the bloke?

Perhaps you are just chatting to the wrong couples? However, as said above your profile does focus on female half. Perhaps bit more about you?

I'm active here as a couple and meets lots of other couples and for us both halves of a couple are important. However, we notice as couples get into late 40's, 50's, 60's often the ladies are still attractive and making an effort but the men let themselves go a bit and don't give a toss. Beer belly, not much effort on grooming, not much effort taking attractive pics, meeting in person and no effort to dress up and look sexy and attractive, crap at flirting etc. This is of course not all but we've noticed the pattern. Not saying this is you but we do notice when the male half is making an effort too and are much more interested - online and in person if we meet somewhere.

By beer belly, do you mean cuddly and chubby?

We can't all boast the much sought after "perfect" physique. Comes across as you looking down on us who are overweight.

I have wobbly bits, a belly and man boobs. So sorry if I don't fit in. I havnt let myself go, it's just the way my body is, and no one should be shamed for carrying sone extra timber. "

It's not a case of fitting in or looking down on people. It's just reality that that lots of couples out there where the man broadly speaking makes a lot less effort than the lady and the older the couple the worse it gets.. Personally my partner is has wobbly cuddly bits too and doesn't mind on men either as long as the whole package is attractive - grooming, nice pics if looking online, decent haircut/shave, decent clothes, fun personality, bit of flirting etc. So many people complain but make little effort. Not targeting this at you but just our general observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because that’s exactly how we like it

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By * and G 2022 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"No because that’s exactly how we like it "

What do you mean by 'no, because that's how we like it?'

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We've had both sides of this where someone is more interested in my (Mrs) and others more interested in the Mr, both equally frustrating but 3/4 way attraction is difficult especially online, we obviously just avoid those profiles that are only interested in one party it's either all or nothing.

I find it much easier in socials to find people than I do online.

Mrs

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We struggle to find couples who aren't just looking for fem/fem play ,as I miss, am straight.

It's hard to find a man In a couple I fancy ,as so many couples only show pics or the woman and one of his cock.

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By *ackonceagain1777Couple
over a year ago

West Mids

We get what you are saying, clubs are good, pretty easy to gauge the interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because that’s exactly how we like it

What do you mean by 'no, because that's how we like it?' "

What we mean is we both like that I (Mrs) gets the attention. My husband only like to play with me so it suits us perfectly that I’m the one that gets attention. How that clarified it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because that’s exactly how we like it

What do you mean by 'no, because that's how we like it?'

What we mean is we both like that I (Mrs) gets the attention. My husband only like to play with me so it suits us perfectly that I’m the one that gets attention. How that clarified it "

*hope

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By * and G 2022 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"We get what you are saying, clubs are good, pretty easy to gauge the interest "

We've been to clubs but it's like they jus stick to their own groups and tend to not speak

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Oh love it when you can engage with both partners. Don’t like it when someone left and I respect and consider what others like or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing as we’re here to meet guys what you suggest is not a problem in the least although I’m fitter than the majority of guys that message us.

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I'm the one who mostly plays as hubby much prefers watching

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Anyone with a couple profile ever felt they shouldn't be on fab as no one wants to play with you as a couple and they just ike the women but not the bloke? "

Yeah, but we(other profile) also were only looking for a third. So, eh, yeah.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

female third*

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"We get what you are saying, clubs are good, pretty easy to gauge the interest

We've been to clubs but it's like they jus stick to their own groups and tend to not speak "

You might want to try a different club. It took us time to find our feet at clubs, now we always have a good night. The Ladies always get more attention which is just human nature, that's something to get used too.

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