FabSwingers.com forum: Younger guy making my profile more appealing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys, hope you’re all doing well.

I’ve been on fab for a couple months now with little success. I know that there are an abundance of single guys on here and being on the younger side makes even getting a response to a message difficult.

Just wondering what tips you would advise for me to add or change on my profile. Harsh criticism is fine, the harsher the better haha.

I chose not to show my face publicly for discretion reasons but tend to send face pics on messages.

Any advice is much appreciated, thanks in advance.

Happy Fabbing xx

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

Take the warning off at the bottom of the profile- it’s useless and always makes me cringe whenever I see a profile with that on.

Sassy

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Profile picture is just awful and bareback video puts me straight off. I’m not going as anywhere further, no matter how good your profile text might be, I won’t read it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha okay will do. Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay, ideally for a profile picture what sort of image would you like to see.

Yeah the bareback video is understandable, does having any sex videos on a profile make it appealing, or should I just stick to just having videos of myself on my profile

Thanks x

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Saying you're a "heavy cummer" will put many off. If you really can accommodate, put in your bio what days/times you're available to accommodate. Add some clothed pics, smart/casual.

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Personally I don't like seeing sex videos on a guy's profile, no idea if the partner(s) have consented to being shown on this site.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Would you really meet people in their 90s ? Or are you too lazy to alter it to a more realistic age range ? It looks desperate or lazy to me.

You say if people like your profile, DONT send you a message...think that's a typo that needs correcting.

You have three public videos all concentrating on your cock. If you think that's what helps ladies decide whether or not to meet someone, you are unlikely to do well on here.

On the plus side, you have taken note of what others have suggested and acted on it. That's good to see.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh okay, I'll add some better pics now.

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah yes thanks for catching that typo. What sort of pics do you like seeing on a guys profile just casual pics or do you like seeing topless/ naked ones too x

thanks

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex

As a woman, I am completely nauseated by dick pics, once I know a man,that's a different story. I respond to clear tasteful body pics, a clear friendly bio, nothing sleazy , if you get to a meeting,that's where the naughtiness happens. Remember you're appealing to females! X

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Ah yes thanks for catching that typo. What sort of pics do you like seeing on a guys profile just casual pics or do you like seeing topless/ naked ones too x

thanks "

If you click on reply and quote it's easier to see who you are replying to.

It's good to see a variety of photos. Clothed pics maybe showing a hobby or something to help see your personality.

Smart outfit, suit or trousers and white shirt , maybe with hand starting to undo the zip, so it's suggesting something naughty, rather than hi, here's my dick

Have a look through public photos of other gents on the forum to get ideas.

Black n white can look really classy, good lighting, use your camera timer and just take a few and see what you like the look of.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

There are women who like dick pics but I think they are very much in the minority. Men are far prouder of their cocks than women are attracted to them.

There's no magic formula to meeting people on fab (other than be a woman with low standards) if there was everyone would be doing it. Use your profile to project your personality, don't pretend to be something you aren't just to get laid.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"There are women who like dick pics but I think they are very much in the minority. Men are far prouder of their cocks than women are attracted to them.

I carried out a survey on here a few years ago and it's about 50 50 ..for a single cock pick in addition to other tastefull sexy etc pics on the profile ...

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

"Ah yes thanks for catching that typo. What sort of pics do you like seeing on a guys profile just casual pics or do you like seeing topless/ naked ones too x

thanks "

You are still missing a couple of words in your last sentence....though I don't think that's what's causing your inbox to be empty.

And unless you really are dominant I'd ditch that bit too.

And unless your cock is the 8th wonder of the world I really wouldnt bother. For those ladies that it's important they will ask for a pic, for others its just a bit ick.

I dont like the close up obs and gynae pics some women post!

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

I can see you have already made some changes to reflect the comments already received. Your clothed pics seem fine although you might want to think about the backgrounds/locations. Bathroom pics, especially a public toilet, never really work well. Good luck

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

This could also be why you don't get any response

Well if you like what you’ve seen of my profile don’t drop me a message or a wink.

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

"I can see you have already made some changes to reflect the comments already received. Your clothed pics seem fine although you might want to think about the backgrounds/locations. Bathroom pics, especially a public toilet, never really work well. Good luck

Did you see a similar post asking for help and the guys profile pic was his cock dangling in a bathroom sink.....

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't have much feedback other than why the need for so much hair dye?

Mrs

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

"I don't have much feedback other than why the need for so much hair dye?

Mrs "

Haha!!! Great spot!

Also on closer inspection of one of your toilet pics, there is a guy in the background at a urinal, which, although I'm not your target audience, I cant possibly see how will get anyones juices flowing....

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Your age might be the main issue, you'll be too young for most.

I wouldn't want to look at multiple wanking videos.

And you can only meet week day, daytime? Not going to work for a lot of people!

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