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Fancy dress??? or plain STUPID???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its Ranis work colleagues 30th birthday party in March. Its been decided that the theme shall be fancy dress. I have also been invited as i have worked with them over xmas.

Whilst discussing the venue with Rani, myself and the Birthday girl via Whatsapp i stupidly asked what i could dress as (Raja) to which Rani promptly responded to and suggested i dress as moulin rouge (dunno what that is) but apparently it involves me wearing stockings and heels.

Rani and the birthday were cracking up at this point. Rani pushed the boat out further and suggested that i'll be waxed and my toes shall be painted too for the evening. Now, as much as this all sounds like fun, is this really practical??? bearing in mind there will be alot of rani work colleagues there and people i know too??

This whole proposal has been put forward to me as a challenge and i NEVER back down from a challenge. However i've never done something like this before and therefore worried/concerned/scared??? of peoples reaction.

Any advice will be appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a grand idea, I love dressing up, so much fun and if you look an idiot, just laugh with them and have fun!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hmmmm i guess ur right. but rani wanted to wax me, head to toe, and i just don't think I'll last in high heels all night. She's using the opportunity to see me as a slut lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hmmmm i guess ur right. but rani wanted to wax me, head to toe, and i just don't think I'll last in high heels all night. She's using the opportunity to see me as a slut lol "

Personally, I reckon if you're the only guy going in drag it's gonna be a bit weird

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that's exactly my fear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that's exactly my fear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's exactly my fear"

If it was a load of your mates then fair enough but if it's mainly people you don't know, well like I said it will look weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it, it will be fun. Just have a laugh, and everyone else will laugh with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

they are all people i've worked with over a period of 3 months. No doubt it'll be fun but as i've never dressed up in public, im rather nervous

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester

turn it into charity fundraisder somehow !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Why not dress up in a basque and girly stuff but go as the guy from the rocky horror show?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not dress up in a basque and girly stuff but go as the guy from the rocky horror show? "

how??? i like the sound of that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a very good idea. I see this as an oppertunity for Raja to be my slut in public. Boost his confidence in a fun way. If he's that nervous then I guess we could tone it down a little and ease him in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a very good idea. I see this as an oppertunity for Raja to be my slut in public. Boost his confidence in a fun way. If he's that nervous then I guess we could tone it down a little and ease him in"

I like the fund raising idea too that someone said up above

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cant turn someone's 30th into a fund raising event lol but it is a good idea thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant turn someone's 30th into a fund raising event lol but it is a good idea thou "

But do they have something they are interested in or a particular charity that they support?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not sure but i can easily find out i guess. The idea could work actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love fancy dress - such fun!!

Going to the Rocky horror show sometime soon and I would'nt be bothered about dressing up as Frank-n-Furter but I just don't have the svelt figure for it so Eddie it will be

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Go for it, its not like people wont know your in fancy dress.......or will they lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thats the worry lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thats the worry lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made Matt shave his beard and grow his hair enough to be slicked back so I could hire a tail coat tux, leather mask to dress him like Phantom of the Opera for a fancy dress he looked fantastic. We're going to another soon trying to descide what I can dress him up as, I was thinking of going as a busty serving wench.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love dressing up to it`s a good laugh especially if people laugh even at me at least it can make a persons day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Raja does too....think he's a little scared as its his 1st time dressing up in public. But what better way to get into it...at a fancy dress party. Evry1 at work is really excited to see him and there is a prize for the best dressed. I will make sure he wins!!!!lol

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