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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " Are you just sitting there waiting for attention? (especially regarding your meet today) Or are you proactively out looking for people that might possibly match? Short-term meet today's rarely work especially when you can't accommodate. If you are free today perhaps just have a search to see if an organised social nearby or perhaps go to a club. | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " Your profile summary could be longer xx | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " I would meet you if you travel to London or Watford Check out my verifications xx | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " Million dollar question lol if you find the answer you will be rich quick lol | |||
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" Effort in = rewards out" in a way this but it dont matter how much effort you put in if no one fancies you after all attraction of sorts in key | |||
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" Effort in = rewards out in a way this but it dont matter how much effort you put in if no one fancies you after all attraction of sorts in key" Absolutely spot on | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " Doesn't say anything interesting about you. Read other profiles like mine | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " You probably will now you've done one of the many "look at my profile" posts on here...and more than likely it'll be men that check you out.  | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " Ha ha ha. You may as well ask why you've not won the Lottery. You have a very vague profile with no real information about yourself and what YOU have to offer your potential partners. To paraphrase JFK....ask not what others can do for you but tell them what you can do for them. | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " because you have very little chance on here. | |||
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"It takes time but eventually once you do get a meet you should be fine" well,it took me 7 years to get a meet and that was 2015, there's been nothing since, so I'm certainly not fine | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " There is literally a few words on your profile, no way of feeling any kind of connection or shared interests. | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " Why should you be getting any attention? Plus, your profile is basically empty. | |||
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"Iam front northwest cumbria whitehaven.. not getting any attention any solution please" Start your own thread, instead of hijacking someone else's. | |||
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"Iam front northwest cumbria whitehaven.. not getting any attention any solution please Start your own thread, instead of hijacking someone else's." You tell ‘em..lol | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " Imagine fab is like being in a nightclub at 4am.... it's a sausage fest with about 3 girls left and 200 men who are all trying to get laid lol | |||
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"Probably because of your age but also it’s tough for single guys. There are so many more guys that women. " Well said ,may say fantastic pics .Wish you Merry Christmas and all the best new year xxxx | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works. "This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties"Actually it sums the entitled view of the women on the forums anyway  | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties
Actually it sums the entitled view of the women on the forums anyway "Yes, we are entitled to respect, to having ability to exercise our choice of play partners and to not be expected to open our legs for just any man on here. | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties
Actually it sums the entitled view of the women on the forums anyway
Yes, we are entitled to respect, to having ability to exercise our choice of play partners and to not be expected to open our legs for just any man on here. "Did anyway say just open your legs lol Love how dismiss OP as "any old man" | |||
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"Love how dismiss OP as "any old man" "As far as I'm concerned, anyone without what I consider relevant information available about them is just any old man. Apart from those with standout looks it's not normal to get attention just for existing in the general vicinity. It's about what people do and say  | |||
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"I think it’s the guys who are feeling ‘entitled’ with their ‘poor me’ posts. We’re here for our pleasure, not to service the guys on here. What makes guys think we’re going to fall at their feet and be grateful for any attention they give us? Women are quite capable of making their own decisions about who they meet and what they do with their bodies. We are not beholden to the men of Fab for anything. " Your resentment of the men of fab is clear for all to see | |||
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"I think it’s the guys who are feeling ‘entitled’ with their ‘poor me’ posts. We’re here for our pleasure, not to service the guys on here. What makes guys think we’re going to fall at their feet and be grateful for any attention they give us? Women are quite capable of making their own decisions about who they meet and what they do with their bodies. We are not beholden to the men of Fab for anything. " That's fine, but the tone of the origin post was very condescending. Oh there's 1000s of plebs like you...we get so many messages don't you know. What makes you think you're so special | |||
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"I think it’s the guys who are feeling ‘entitled’ with their ‘poor me’ posts. We’re here for our pleasure, not to service the guys on here. What makes guys think we’re going to fall at their feet and be grateful for any attention they give us? Women are quite capable of making their own decisions about who they meet and what they do with their bodies. We are not beholden to the men of Fab for anything. That's fine, but the tone of the origin post was very condescending. Oh there's 1000s of plebs like you...we get so many messages don't you know. What makes you think you're so special "Original * | |||
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"Op i dont get any on here either lol. " In fairness, flashing you're flacid penis doesn't deserve anything | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties"Talking down? Fairly solid and friendly advice I think. And why does the lady's age and body shape preclude her from giving advice? After all, the decent looking chap in his twenties has been asking the same question for almost 6 months without ever making a change to his profile... | |||
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"I think it’s the guys who are feeling ‘entitled’ with their ‘poor me’ posts. We’re here for our pleasure, not to service the guys on here. What makes guys think we’re going to fall at their feet and be grateful for any attention they give us? Women are quite capable of making their own decisions about who they meet and what they do with their bodies. We are not beholden to the men of Fab for anything. Your resentment of the men of fab is clear for all to see "Resentment of men. More like respect for ourselves towards entitled men who think the little women should put up and shut up. It's 2023 not 1950. | |||
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"The best way is clubs and socials "Not this old chestnut again .?????? | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " Because I'm the competition obviously  | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this Because I'm the competition obviously " | |||
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"I mean, in this thread you’ve had one bloke whinging about the suggestion he should go to a club, one bloke calling women entitled and one bloke trying to make someone else’s thread all about him. The reality is that most sane women are going to stop looking on here rather than keep any hope of finding a fuckable man. " I live in hope but then I don't relate to "most sane women" | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " Just look in any of the cam rooms at the ratio of M to F. There’s your answer. Fab is a sausage fest. | |||
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"After all, the decent looking chap in his twenties has been asking the same question for almost 6 months without ever making a change to his profile..." Be fair, it's only 3 months | |||
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"The best way is clubs and socials
Not this old chestnut again .??????"But it's true. | |||
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"The best way is clubs and socials
Not this old chestnut again .??????"It's the lowest bar to admission. Proving that you can go somewhere in public and behave yourself, and that you are vaguely who you say you are. It's not "you must be a club or organised social person", it's "it's much easier to get into this stuff and prove you're not a psychopath, which might make one on one meets easier in the future" | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties"Some men REALLY resent that fab switches the real world dynamics and gives women all the power. We can see how you really feel about the women of fab too matey. Not attractive! | |||
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"The best way is clubs and socials
Not this old chestnut again .??????"I thought you were abstaining from the negative posting? You might not like it but it is true. Men who go to socials will fair better every time. One of the reasons they fair better is most men won't go to socials. On fab you to compete with thousands and thousands of men on Imagine turning up to a social with 50 attendees and theres seven single men. That was my experience. It's not hard to do the math. | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties
Some men REALLY resent that fab switches the real world dynamics and gives women all the power. We can see how you really feel about the women of fab too matey. Not attractive! "Yes. It's refreshing, and honestly a bit of fun. Oh, does being on the bad side of a power dynamic suck? Huh. How about that. Who knew? | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties
Some men REALLY resent that fab switches the real world dynamics and gives women all the power. We can see how you really feel about the women of fab too matey. Not attractive! "Girl power | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties
Some men REALLY resent that fab switches the real world dynamics and gives women all the power. We can see how you really feel about the women of fab too matey. Not attractive! "So unattractive that all he’ll have is Palm and his 5 friends night after night. LOOOOL how did I miss that response?? Hahaha! It does sum this site up, yes. I snap my fingers- boom. Drowning in hot, gorgeous, young cock. Shame it doesn’t work the same for you my dear… | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties
Some men REALLY resent that fab switches the real world dynamics and gives women all the power. We can see how you really feel about the women of fab too matey. Not attractive!
Girl power "Totally!  | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties
Some men REALLY resent that fab switches the real world dynamics and gives women all the power. We can see how you really feel about the women of fab too matey. Not attractive! "If you think men have any power in the real world when it comes to mate selection then that's hilarious. Clearly this site simply echoes the real world. 85% of women competing for the top few % of the men and are perfectly hapoy to ignore the rest. | |||
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"Hang in there and be patient. It will come" Bad advice. For some it may never come. | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties
Some men REALLY resent that fab switches the real world dynamics and gives women all the power. We can see how you really feel about the women of fab too matey. Not attractive!
If you think men have any power in the real world when it comes to mate selection then that's hilarious. Clearly this site simply echoes the real world. 85% of women competing for the top few % of the men and are perfectly hapoy to ignore the rest."Magnified infact But well said | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties
Some men REALLY resent that fab switches the real world dynamics and gives women all the power. We can see how you really feel about the women of fab too matey. Not attractive!
If you think men have any power in the real world when it comes to mate selection then that's hilarious. Clearly this site simply echoes the real world. 85% of women competing for the top few % of the men and are perfectly hapoy to ignore the rest."So, 85% of women are ignoring 95|% of men? How come everyone I know is part of a couple with a woman bar those that are gay and male? | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties
Some men REALLY resent that fab switches the real world dynamics and gives women all the power. We can see how you really feel about the women of fab too matey. Not attractive!
If you think men have any power in the real world when it comes to mate selection then that's hilarious. Clearly this site simply echoes the real world. 85% of women competing for the top few % of the men and are perfectly hapoy to ignore the rest."I know that is not true, the real world is better much better for me anyway so much better ive hidden my profile and just use the forums to pass time when I am not busy. no need to pay the single guy fee, no need to go to socials as I just simply walked through my door and met people. my advise do not put your knobs in one fab basket, get out and live your life, or hang around here and compete with other guys, who have their mails ignored, blocked on a site you pay for and just ridiculed. Stop entitling others who wouldn't get a second look in real life, entitle yourself by having some worth to get worth you need to find worth in others and you will not get that here. | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties
Some men REALLY resent that fab switches the real world dynamics and gives women all the power. We can see how you really feel about the women of fab too matey. Not attractive!
If you think men have any power in the real world when it comes to mate selection then that's hilarious. Clearly this site simply echoes the real world. 85% of women competing for the top few % of the men and are perfectly hapoy to ignore the rest."When I refer to power dynamics IRL I'm not only talking about choice of sexual partners! Also you're sounding kinda inc*lly there | |||
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"Stop entitling others who wouldn't get a second look in real life, entitle yourself by having some worth to get worth you need to find worth in others and you will not get that here. " It's great when men post stuff in the forums that shows women what they really think about us. Resentment drips. | |||
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"As harsh as it sounds, there are -thousands- of profiles just like yours on this site. Should you be getting attention? Why? …. If you have the answer, pop it in your bio and see if it works.
This sums the site up, you've got a middle age curvy women talking down to a decent looking chap in his twenties
Some men REALLY resent that fab switches the real world dynamics and gives women all the power. We can see how you really feel about the women of fab too matey. Not attractive!
If you think men have any power in the real world when it comes to mate selection then that's hilarious. Clearly this site simply echoes the real world. 85% of women competing for the top few % of the men and are perfectly hapoy to ignore the rest.
When I refer to power dynamics IRL I'm not only talking about choice of sexual partners! Also you're sounding kinda inc*lly there "My profile shows the level of interest I have in this site, Plus I do not care what you think of me as you do not or ever will know me. | |||
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"If you think men have any power in the real world when it comes to mate selection then that's hilarious. Clearly this site simply echoes the real world. 85% of women competing for the top few % of the men and are perfectly hapoy to ignore the rest." But shouldn't women 'ignore' (to use your word) men they don't like? You can't seriously be suggesting that these women are obliged to pay attention to a guy they're not interested in? Other things to consider - when it comes to 'mate selection' next time you're out on the town, take a look at the amount of effort each gender puts into it. Sometimes, Alice and I go out for a drink or meal and see couples out on a date. It's shocking how often then woman has clearly taken hours to look good and they guy, well, hasn't. Also, what you call 'power' in mate selection' may simply be standards. | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " I get the impression it’s tough for single guys and I think it’s getting harder as more men join the site. When I’m not online now I hide my profile or I come back to over a hundred messages in 12 hours. Almost all being from single men | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this " because you have lied on your profile .you say you are straight .what straight man in his right mind would meet or want to meet a tvs .basically a man with a cock wearing women's knickers | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this because you have lied on your profile .you say you are straight .what straight man in his right mind would meet or want to meet a tvs .basically a man with a cock wearing women's knickers " I’ve been on and off her for a few years and met a few people over that time. I’ve met more than a few straight men through fab that I would have never thought would meet a CD/TV but after a few years or months they have. I think because there’s so many females and it’s hard to get a meet they start looking at CD/TV and meet them. I have discussed this with a few friends and it’s been discussed at clubs a few times. Someone said it’s like Cannibalism, in a survival situation you will eat your own. | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this because you have lied on your profile .you say you are straight .what straight man in his right mind would meet or want to meet a tvs .basically a man with a cock wearing women's knickers I’ve been on and off her for a few years and met a few people over that time. I’ve met more than a few straight men through fab that I would have never thought would meet a CD/TV but after a few years or months they have. I think because there’s so many females and it’s hard to get a meet they start looking at CD/TV and meet them. I have discussed this with a few friends and it’s been discussed at clubs a few times. Someone said it’s like Cannibalism, in a survival situation you will eat your own." What a truly awful thing to say. So what people are saying is that they will change their sexuality just to get a fuck. Wow Or they see CD/TV (as you’ve put it) as being a second best option to a female. Wow And sex is seen as cannibalism and in survival you’ll eat your own. Honestly no words. That people think that sex is so important. | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this because you have lied on your profile .you say you are straight .what straight man in his right mind would meet or want to meet a tvs .basically a man with a cock wearing women's knickers I’ve been on and off her for a few years and met a few people over that time. I’ve met more than a few straight men through fab that I would have never thought would meet a CD/TV but after a few years or months they have. I think because there’s so many females and it’s hard to get a meet they start looking at CD/TV and meet them. I have discussed this with a few friends and it’s been discussed at clubs a few times. Someone said it’s like Cannibalism, in a survival situation you will eat your own." I can relate to that!! I often get messages from men with profiles that say “straight” asking me to meet. It makes me wonder how many men actually have met people other than what it shows on the verification summary. | |||
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"I don’t seem to be getting any attention why is this because you have lied on your profile .you say you are straight .what straight man in his right mind would meet or want to meet a tvs .basically a man with a cock wearing women's knickers I’ve been on and off her for a few years and met a few people over that time. I’ve met more than a few straight men through fab that I would have never thought would meet a CD/TV but after a few years or months they have. I think because there’s so many females and it’s hard to get a meet they start looking at CD/TV and meet them. I have discussed this with a few friends and it’s been discussed at clubs a few times. Someone said it’s like Cannibalism, in a survival situation you will eat your own." This would be the same men who will try to meet any woman, regardless of whether they actually find them attractive. If you’re going to be reductionist like this, do it properly. | |||
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"What a truly awful thing to say. So what people are saying is that they will change their sexuality just to get a fuck. Wow Or they see CD/TV (as you’ve put it) as being a second best option to a female. Wow" I don't know why TVs were randomly brought into this lol but what I will say is that I don't think the men in question see it as they're "changing their sexuality", more of a case of "every holes a goal". This will sound harsh but basing it off what I've been told, some men say that after months of getting rejected by "300lb women in their 40s with a huge list of demands", they start to think well this tranny over there looks in great shape & dead game for a bit of dick, and it then becomes a more attractive proposition to them... Certainly some of the men who message me do very much see CD/TVs as being a 3rd rate option, and it's obvious by the lack of effort they put into their communication. It does make me wonder exactly how much effort they were putting into meeting women in the first place, however. | |||
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"What a truly awful thing to say. So what people are saying is that they will change their sexuality just to get a fuck. Wow Or they see CD/TV (as you’ve put it) as being a second best option to a female. Wow I don't know why TVs were randomly brought into this lol but what I will say is that I don't think the men in question see it as they're "changing their sexuality", more of a case of "every holes a goal". This will sound harsh but basing it off what I've been told, some men say that after months of getting rejected by "300lb women in their 40s with a huge list of demands", they start to think well this tranny over there looks in great shape & dead game for a bit of dick, and it then becomes a more attractive proposition to them... Certainly some of the men who message me do very much see CD/TVs as being a 3rd rate option, and it's obvious by the lack of effort they put into their communication. It does make me wonder exactly how much effort they were putting into meeting women in the first place, however. " Morning - that's a really interesting viewpoint and I've found it interesting to read this perspective. I've spoken to a few friends about the messages I've received, genuinely curious if they approach works (I block as I don't want to engage with it). I do find some profiles lack much information/effort. Similar to getting winks from profiles with no pictures at all or friends only. Can't engage with it as I don't know what I would be replying to. | |||
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"What a truly awful thing to say. So what people are saying is that they will change their sexuality just to get a fuck. Wow Or they see CD/TV (as you’ve put it) as being a second best option to a female. Wow I don't know why TVs were randomly brought into this lol but what I will say is that I don't think the men in question see it as they're "changing their sexuality", more of a case of "every holes a goal". This will sound harsh but basing it off what I've been told, some men say that after months of getting rejected by "300lb women in their 40s with a huge list of demands", they start to think well this tranny over there looks in great shape & dead game for a bit of dick, and it then becomes a more attractive proposition to them... Certainly some of the men who message me do very much see CD/TVs as being a 3rd rate option, and it's obvious by the lack of effort they put into their communication. It does make me wonder exactly how much effort they were putting into meeting women in the first place, however. " I can only speak for me but if it ever became that “any hole is a goal” then I’d much rather visit a sex worker. We seem to get that people have feelings, and messing with those feelings is not nice, by sleeping with anyone and giving the “patter” you may well do to get them in to bed seems wrong to me. Just be honest. Whether a one off or more. Be honest with intent. And if you do have the any hole is a goal mentality let them know Just my thoughts | |||
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"Morning - that's a really interesting viewpoint and I've found it interesting to read this perspective. I've spoken to a few friends about the messages I've received, genuinely curious if they approach works (I block as I don't want to engage with it). I do find some profiles lack much information/effort. Similar to getting winks from profiles with no pictures at all or friends only. Can't engage with it as I don't know what I would be replying to. " For me personally no, their approach doesn't work on me. I'll only meet men at clubs. It clearly says in my profile I only meet at clubs but still I'll get a dick pic or a random disembodied head with "Wuu2" or "come mine" at like 1am from some of these guys. They don't even do me the courtesy of reading profile. I can't speak for how well that works with other CD/TVs but I think they must be getting some success somewhere if they keep doing it.. | |||
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"I can only speak for me but if it ever became that “any hole is a goal” then I’d much rather visit a sex worker. " I get that. I'm only going off what a few men have directly said to me. Obviously not all men would choose a TV over a woman. I felt the guys who said they thought some CD/TVs looked hotter than the women they were being rejected by were being honest with me, though. Only just now I saw the comment that brought TVs into the topic. Well if OP has that as one of his preferences then I guess it's going to put some women off. Someone should tell that lady that this is fabswingers & between the trannies, cucks & pegging enthusiasts practically no straight men exist on this platform loool*
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"Morning - that's a really interesting viewpoint and I've found it interesting to read this perspective. I've spoken to a few friends about the messages I've received, genuinely curious if they approach works (I block as I don't want to engage with it). I do find some profiles lack much information/effort. Similar to getting winks from profiles with no pictures at all or friends only. Can't engage with it as I don't know what I would be replying to. For me personally no, their approach doesn't work on me. I'll only meet men at clubs. It clearly says in my profile I only meet at clubs but still I'll get a dick pic or a random disembodied head with "Wuu2" or "come mine" at like 1am from some of these guys. They don't even do me the courtesy of reading profile. I can't speak for how well that works with other CD/TVs but I think they must be getting some success somewhere if they keep doing it.." There are a lot of chancers than don't respect clear boundaries. I agree with you - it must work with some profiles though or they would change their approach (assuming! Maybe they don't, hence these numerous threads on the same topic). | |||
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