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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I msg woman but dont get many replies im a normal genuine lad n not very forward. What should i start off sayin as all im doing is sayin hello how r they just the general chat. Any help please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because you have nothing on your profile to tempt anyone to reply? Best check out the introductions forum as there has been loads of advice including why people don't respond to messages; both these subjects are done all the time

Good luck and welcome to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I msg woman but dont get many replies im a normal genuine lad n not very forward. What should i start off sayin as all im doing is sayin hello how r they just the general chat. Any help please"

Hi there, and yes I agree, you could spruce up your profile a little...some pics (not of your cock) would be nice...and an interesting introduction...By the way..I always respond to all polite messages even to say no thank you...

Welcome...and good luck, we're a friendly bunch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I msg woman but dont get many replies im a normal genuine lad n not very forward. What should i start off sayin as all im doing is sayin hello how r they just the general chat. Any help please

Hi there, and yes I agree, you could spruce up your profile a little...some pics (not of your cock) would be nice...and an interesting introduction...By the way..I always respond to all polite messages even to say no thank you...

Welcome...and good luck, we're a friendly bunch!"

I couldn't have put it better myself...good luck..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same problem as the female half of a couple. I dont get a reply at all or I get women who dont seem really interested in us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also try making conversation about what attracted you to their profile, any interests you seem to share, and why you think you are what they are looking for.

Ask questions & show a genuine interest in the person.

Good luck with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you send a picture with your messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Females get dozens of messages and tend to reply to the more inspiring and interesting one. Hi how are you messages are bland and unlikely to give any reason to reply.

Add to that a profile that has nothing of any substance and no pictures and it's not hard to see why you are struggling, you need to sell yourself and you really aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Females get dozens of messages and tend to reply to the more inspiring and interesting one. Hi how are you messages are bland and unlikely to give any reason to reply.

Add to that a profile that has nothing of any substance and no pictures and it's not hard to see why you are struggling, you need to sell yourself and you really aren't."
straight to the point, take notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Females get dozens of messages and tend to reply to the more inspiring and interesting one. Hi how are you messages are bland and unlikely to give any reason to reply.

Add to that a profile that has nothing of any substance and no pictures and it's not hard to see why you are struggling, you need to sell yourself and you really aren't."

Completely agree. Plus take into account you're only looking for single women so that narrows down the field. ooking for discreet fun and not being able to accomodate might lead some.to suspect.rightly or wrongly that you'r e cheating. Like someone said above-there's some great advice on previous forum threads. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asks for advice then completely ignores it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

you could start by saying youve won the lottery but leave out that it was only a fiver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

walk up to a woman in a bar with a paper bag on your head and a dustbin liner for your clothes and say hi, want to have a drink?

see how many reply (or dont)

thats is exactly what your profile is doing for you.

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By *reybearMan
over a year ago

medway


"walk up to a woman in a bar with a paper bag on your head and a dustbin liner for your clothes and say hi, want to have a drink?

see how many reply (or dont)

thats is exactly what your profile is doing for you."

Shhh! That's my system!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

1) pick lady worthy of your message

2) send nice message introducing yourself

3) 1 minute later send her second message asking why she has not replied

4) 3 minutes later send her third message repeating second message

5) 2 minutes later send her fourth message stating she is an ugly skank and you never wanted to meet her anyway and she should have been glad to get mail

6) 3 days later send same lady nice msg introducing yourself

Repeat stages 3-5

She wont be able to resist and will jump your bones... good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1) pick lady worthy of your message

2) send nice message introducing yourself

3) 1 minute later send her second message asking why she has not replied

4) 3 minutes later send her third message repeating second message

5) 2 minutes later send her fourth message stating she is an ugly skank and you never wanted to meet her anyway and she should have been glad to get mail

6) 3 days later send same lady nice msg introducing yourself

Repeat stages 3-5

She wont be able to resist and will jump your bones... good luck "

Have you been reading my inbox?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

caught

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By *exykirstyWoman
over a year ago

North of Manchester

This may seem a bit harsh, but when people take a picture of themselves it is hard, but look at the picture first before posting.

If you got sent a message and the picture attached was not smiling or does not seem as if interested would you want to reply?

A smile goes a long way in a picture.

Nice messages will always get a no thanks if your not suitable.

But Hi how are you, will get deleted and not replied to.

Think about how you would talk to someone in a bar, it's not much different than that on here.

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By *ittlebitWoman
over a year ago

Plymouth

Try to stand out from the many messages single females may get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always find attaching at least 12 Cock pictures from various different angels and starting a message with

"Hey nice tits.. Fancy a fuck!"

Seems to work well....

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Females get dozens of messages and tend to reply to the more inspiring and interesting one. Hi how are you messages are bland and unlikely to give any reason to reply.

Add to that a profile that has nothing of any substance and no pictures and it's not hard to see why you are struggling, you need to sell yourself and you really

aren't."

Do this couple EVER give a positive response ????

Every post ive ever read off them is negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I msg woman but dont get many replies im a normal genuine lad n not very forward. What should i start off sayin as all im doing is sayin hello how r they just the general chat. Any help please"

Is it just us or does this make more sense reading it in a caveman voice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any messages I get just saying hello or how are you get binned straight away. If someone is interested in me, and sells themself... I am more likely to be into them. I like a few lines of profile that is well spelt and has good grammar, not necessarily a nomination for the Booker prize but just not text speak.

A photo is good, don't show me how much bigger your cock is than the sky remote, or send a face pic where the flash of the camera makes you look like something from Dr Who.

Make me want to know more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Females get dozens of messages and tend to reply to the more inspiring and interesting one. Hi how are you messages are bland and unlikely to give any reason to reply.

Add to that a profile that has nothing of any substance and no pictures and it's not hard to see why you are struggling, you need to sell yourself and you really

aren't.

Do this couple EVER give a positive response ????

Every post ive ever read off them is negative. "

And which part of what I said do you disagree with?

But I think that you confuse direct with negative.

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Direct, abrubt, honest, call it what you want I just find all your posts very negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that killed the thread...

Hope you got some good pointers dude!!

Hang in there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make them an offer they can't refuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make them an offer they can't refuse"

Cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make them an offer they can't refuse

Cake?"

Failing that bukkake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make them an offer they can't refuse

Cake?

Failing that bukkake"

Not a bad idea, how's this?

"Hi there, nice tits.. Not really interested in fucking you, but I can offer you lots of guys sperm all over your face and body... With cake afterwards of course.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make them an offer they can't refuse

Cake?

Failing that bukkake

Not a bad idea, how's this?

"Hi there, nice tits.. Not really interested in fucking you, but I can offer you lots of guys sperm all over your face and body... With cake afterwards of course..""

Nah cake first bukkake icing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make them an offer they can't refuse

Cake?

Failing that bukkake

Not a bad idea, how's this?

"Hi there, nice tits.. Not really interested in fucking you, but I can offer you lots of guys sperm all over your face and body... With cake afterwards of course.."

Nah cake first bukkake icing"

You mean a good Frosting!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make them an offer they can't refuse

Cake?

Failing that bukkake

Not a bad idea, how's this?

"Hi there, nice tits.. Not really interested in fucking you, but I can offer you lots of guys sperm all over your face and body... With cake afterwards of course.."

Nah cake first bukkake icing

You mean a good Frosting!!!"

Oooh see I'm quite partial to a French Fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make them an offer they can't refuse

Cake?

Failing that bukkake

Not a bad idea, how's this?

"Hi there, nice tits.. Not really interested in fucking you, but I can offer you lots of guys sperm all over your face and body... With cake afterwards of course.."

Nah cake first bukkake icing

You mean a good Frosting!!!

Oooh see I'm quite partial to a French Fancy. "

Nice to hear Miss Angel... So can tempt you?

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Direct, abrubt, honest, call it what you want I just find all your posts very negative. "

That was meant for crystal tips and alistair !!! Not the op by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I msg woman but dont get many replies im a normal genuine lad n not very forward. What should i start off sayin as all im doing is sayin hello how r they just the general chat. Any help please

Is it just us or does this make more sense reading it in a caveman voice?

Briliant!

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