FabSwingers.com forum: finding a fwb

By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

hi all struggling to find meets with single females ok with getting meets with couples but would ideally like to find a fwb anyone think possible x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Just don't go out looking for it. Let it just Happen

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Buy a Kinder Egg .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 meets, the last of which was 3 months ago and you call that struggling?

Most single guys on here would give their left nut to be having as hard a time as you are

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

yes struggling

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

You appear to do well with women at chams so have you considered asking if they would like to couple up?

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

haven’t found many single women at chams mainly couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try getting a fwb in cumbria ... sheesh !

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"haven’t found many single women at chams mainly couples "

Eight since August last year...thats quite a few.

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

some of them have literally been socials

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"some of them have literally been socials "

Not sure what sort of advice you are looking for. You are miles ahead of most men in that you are meeting lots of single ladies for socials, at clubs etc. Don't think there is a magic formula anyone can give as to how to convert those into play or FWB relationships.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"try getting a fwb in cumbria ... sheesh ! "

I’ve met several single ladies from the Carlisle area through Fab over the years, just be patient

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

i’m not from carlisle

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"i’m not from carlisle "

Would you walk 300 miles ?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"i’m not from carlisle

Would you walk 300 miles ?"

You crack me up…..

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

"i’m not from carlisle

Would you walk 300 miles ?"

lol no but i’d drive it

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"25 meets, the last of which was 3 months ago and you call that struggling?

Most single guys on here would give their left nut to be having as hard a time as you are

^^^^^

THIS

I havnt managed to have any meets, none what so ever and the OP is complaining with 25 meets.

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

not complaining

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

" Would you walk 300 miles ?"

Or maybe 500 miles, and 500 more..... da da da da, da da da da

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

lol ?? ha ha

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

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By *urious_CB22Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

It isn't easy.

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By *exy Black JenWoman
over a year ago

London/Eastbourne weekends

I think as a single man its easier to meet with couples. Single ladies tend to have a different criteria...

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

"I think as a single man its easier to meet with couples. Single ladies tend to have a different criteria..."

fair enough x.

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By *rystaldenisonWoman
over a year ago

salisbury

I would swap your main pic to the one in the pink top its the better one x just my thoughts xx

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By *am_LincolnMan
over a year ago

Prestatyn

Well obviously Fab isn't working out for you if it's going that badly. Guess you have no choice but to leave.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Work on the friendship bit first, then worry about the benefits.

Socials, munches and events. Chat to people, build a rapport, invite people for coffee,/drink. Talk about interests outside of swinging etc.

Can't really suggest anything else.

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

didn’t say it was going badly

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"didn’t say it was going badly "

Looking at your meet verifications I'd say it's going amazing for you. Some of us havnt had a single meet.

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

"didn’t say it was going badly

Looking at your meet verifications I'd say it's going amazing for you. Some of us havnt had a single meet. "

yeah it’s going pretty great but would like to find a fwb/club buddy

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By *astAnglia2019Man
over a year ago

Dereham

"Just don't go out looking for it. Let it just Happen "
so very true least expect it and it will happen

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

"Just don't go out looking for it. Let it just Happen so very true least expect it and it will happen "

fair enough

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

The friends part takes time to build in my opinion so I do think you will find that especially in the clubs.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"25 meets, the last of which was 3 months ago and you call that struggling?

Most single guys on here would give their left nut to be having as hard a time as you are

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

"didn’t say it was going badly

Looking at your meet verifications I'd say it's going amazing for you. Some of us havnt had a single meet.

yeah it’s going pretty great but would like to find a fwb/club buddy

will do

Keep attending the club social when held people attending at different times always someone new"

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"didn’t say it was going badly

Looking at your meet verifications I'd say it's going amazing for you. Some of us havnt had a single meet.

yeah it’s going pretty great but would like to find a fwb/club buddy

will do

Keep attending the club social when held people attending at different times always someone new"

Thanks for catching it as screen jumped

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

lol no problem

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Just don't go out looking for it. Let it just Happen "

Agreed! Things tend to happen when you don't try to push them. Moghtvtake some time, but some things - and some people - are SO worth the wait!

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

yeah get what your saying

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I think more people would like fwb but a lot been burnt by people meeting once never to be heard from again.

Way i used to do it was several just social meets first ,then when it came to sex going a bit further each time over a few meets.

if they really interested in fwb they will do it ,If they looking for a quick all in one go and disappear they will get bored and look elseware for a one off meet.

If all they wanted to chat about was sex and not really interested in getting to know me as a person or what interests ,hobbies etc i had away from sex i took it as i sign they was not really wanting fwb.

my last one we went on holiday together ,evening's out ,overnights together and got while we was only meeting each other and no one else. realised we was actually in a full on relationship without looking for that,careful what you wish for emotions can sneak up on you before you realise it.

now engaged to get married.

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By *agicmarc OP Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

thanks

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

The Holy Grail of Fab

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