FabSwingers.com forum: No response to profile

By *end1 OP Man
over a year ago

southend on sea

Ok so I know its another post about profile but I really would appreciate some help especially from the ladies. What else can I do I think my profile is ok but get no response to dms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, the photos could be more imaginative. A lot of women will be put off by the dick pics - something more suggestive, not quite so in your face.

The second sentence about just being another guy doesn't do you any favours.

Maybe a bit more about yourself, what your likes are, what you're hoping for instead.

Good luck, OP

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

The pics are a bit off. Not terrible but just not the best they could be. Oddly the dick pics are ok for dick pics, but the others need work. As for text, try and break it in to paragraph’s and hit the grammar rules.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I hate to be ‘that person’ who criticises grammar and punctuation because I know there are reasons why some people find it difficult to get right but surely, at the very least, you know that a sentence starts with a capital letter?! Your profile is a projection of you and your personality so if you can’t even be bothered to capitalise the first letter of the sentences in your bio then that doesn’t give people reading it a very good impression of you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I am curious why your last verification was 11 years ago. Maybe this could be addressed in your profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate to be ‘that person’ who criticises grammar and punctuation because I know there are reasons why some people find it difficult to get right but surely, at the very least, you know that a sentence starts with a capital letter?! Your profile is a projection of you and your personality so if you can’t even be bothered to capitalise the first letter of the sentences in your bio then that doesn’t give people reading it a very good impression of you. "

There is no excuse when you can get apps like Grammarly for free and it helps with writing stules too. taught me alot.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

No point in these posts to be honest. You will get so many differing opinions. You will never be able to please the majority of people you message.

Some many never please any.

You are the person who knows you best. If you can't describe who you are and what you are looking for. No one else can.

Sorry if that sounds harsh but I don't see the point of mashing together advice from strangers. Thus making your profile generic anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree with others and concentrate on your bio. At least break it up so it's not a wall of text as a lot of people will just skip that.

Concentrate on selling who you are, not what you think people want. There's 1000's of people on here with different kinks, attractions, boundaries etc and you are outnumbered by thousands of guys.

Chances are slim at best for most of us so just be you and you may get lucky.

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