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By *amesnj007 OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

OK fellow swingers.

Im feeling fab.

I usually do. lol

I'm sharing the fab feeling to everyone who reads this post.

Pass on the the fab vibration around!

It's free.

OK so my questions are about getting verified!

Question 1

How long (no not your sick size)

Did it take you to get your 1st verification

Question 2

How did you get your 1st verification

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

About 4 weeks.You need to do socials or try a club.

Amigos & the attic are not too far from you.

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

1.same day of a club event

2.i went to a club event

Easiest way to get verifications

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I originally came here on recommendation from a girl I'd met at the clubs, she dropped me a veri that day.

Subsequent accounts as I've come and gone over the years one of the other people I've met over the time has verified me within a few days.

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

My first account here took about 3 month,Though a gay man who could accom anytime getting a meet with another guy fairly easy on here,It was finding one who was verified and prepared to veri after a meet that was the hard part.

A single guy looking for a woman will prob not be that easy.And maybe be better getting to meet people at clubs,events,socials.

This time around i have not arranged to meet anyone on fabswingers.If any interest was shown they have had to take chat to Fabguys when i was meeting where i am verified and acted as a filter comparing the two profiles.

The profile i have there now took less than 12 hours as i already had a regular guy i was still seeing from my old profile.

Note to anyone reading this that is also on fabguys, my user name on swingers is different on fabguys so if anyone is using this user name there it is NOT me.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

6 months because we were both extremely busy too actually meet but chatted on here daily until the time came and was well worth the wait entire evening,night and early morning

Documented after meeting when both home safely

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Our first foray into swinging together was at a club and we received a verification the morning after.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

A couple of weeks, organised socials, clubs and cams are easy places to get verified.

Just to note a verification doesn't guarantee meets.

Mrs

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21

A few weeks. Was a cpl we played with in a club.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

As a single guy? A week. A coffee social.

As a couple? We'd already met plenty as singles so same day.

A

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

Think it was within 2 weeks, I met a couple after a quick phone call and they verified me straight after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most single guys find it takes up to a year to get their first meet.

Some fair better, others not so much.

Don't get so hung up on getting your veri as it will become the be all and end all for you and you'll start mentioning it more and more and people will think that's the only reason you're interested in meeting them.

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

My FWB was on here, so I got my first veri within minutes.

Without a head start it’s not that easy (especially for men). I have to admit I’m reluctant to meet unverified men, it’s a big of a catch 22 for you isn’t it!

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By *amesnj007 OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Guys n gals

Thanks to all of you for your Input.

I'm very grateful.

The main reason im here is!!!

Im pushing myself to expand explore my likes dislikes

Love and curiosity towards meeting people making friends and ultimately sex

I'm not in rush to get myself verified.

I'm always respectful when messaging.

To be honest so has the replies ive had fron fellow fabers

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I still haven’t been verified but I have met people from here, they’ve all been men with ‘straight’ profiles though so they don’t really want anyone knowing that we met.

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I had a 2 minute chat on cam with a local couple after about two months of bring a member on here.

Getting a verification from an actual meet is impossible. One year in, and not got anywhere near an actual meet with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs and social events are a great way to get good veris cam can be good too but if you only have cam veris some people can look down on that a bit.

Mr

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