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"I have just literally been dropped off home to change and he just drove off and left me "Aww I'm sorry to hear that ,are you sure he's not gonna come back later ?. | |||
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"He definitely drove off, he lives a fair way from me. Just feel so humiliated. " Again I'm sorry he's done that ,he could have been upfront with you of he wasn't feeling it . I appreciate we can't all be for everyone ,but it's a shitty way to go about things. If I was you I'd block him & try to forget him. There are plenty of others who you will appeal to . | |||
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"He definitely drove off, he lives a fair way from me. Just feel so humiliated. Again I'm sorry he's done that ,he could have been upfront with you of he wasn't feeling it . I appreciate we can't all be for everyone ,but it's a shitty way to go about things. If I was you I'd block him & try to forget him. There are plenty of others who you will appeal to ." This^^^^^^^  | |||
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"Has anyone ever had some one do a runner on them ? " Nope | |||
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"Has anyone ever had some one do a runner on them ? " Yes. I had a lady meet me for a social, only to say she needed the toilet about ten minutes after turning up. After about 20-25 minutes, it eventually dawned on me that she wasn't having nervous number two as she'd blocked me across all form of communication when I tried to see if she was okay, even asking a female staff member to check the toilet for me. To this day, I've no idea how she left without me noticing as we were seated near the only available entrance/exit. To say I felt embarrassed was an understatement  | |||
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"Has anyone ever had some one do a runner on them ? Yes. I had a lady meet me for a social, only to say she needed the toilet about ten minutes after turning up. After about 20-25 minutes, it eventually dawned on me that she wasn't having nervous number two as she'd blocked me across all form of communication when I tried to see if she was okay, even asking a female staff member to check the toilet for me. To this day, I've no idea how she left without me noticing as we were seated near the only available entrance/exit. To say I felt embarrassed was an understatement "I don’t understand how people can be so horrible. I could never do that someone. | |||
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" Really sorry this has happened to you ladies but honestly, it is nothing you have done wrong x " Good thing we are confident ladies | |||
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" Really sorry this has happened to you ladies but honestly, it is nothing you have done wrong x Good thing we are confident ladies " Absolutely. It says more about the people that behave this way than us as women or men x | |||
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"I have just literally been dropped off home to change and he just drove off and left me "That's horrible!! If it's any consolation it's probably a metaphor for what he's like in bed.. but seriously what a C*** Fair enough if either of you feel no connection but don't just drive off ffs! Hope you are ok | |||
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"Has anyone ever had some one do a runner on them ? Yes. I had a lady meet me for a social, only to say she needed the toilet about ten minutes after turning up. After about 20-25 minutes, it eventually dawned on me that she wasn't having nervous number two as she'd blocked me across all form of communication when I tried to see if she was okay, even asking a female staff member to check the toilet for me. To this day, I've no idea how she left without me noticing as we were seated near the only available entrance/exit. To say I felt embarrassed was an understatement
I don’t understand how people can be so horrible. I could never do that someone."To be honest, I don't understand either. Don't get me wrong, I know I'm no oil painting, but that's the quickest anyone has run off from me. Thankfully, most people usually politely say ‘thanks but no thanks’ and we go our separate ways. But on that occasion, it was an unexpected hit to my self-esteem that's stayed with me ever since, although it was a long time ago. Nonetheless, it only takes one bad experience to put doubt amongst future meets, social or otherwise. | |||
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"Has anyone ever had some one do a runner on them ? Yes. I had a lady meet me for a social, only to say she needed the toilet about ten minutes after turning up. After about 20-25 minutes, it eventually dawned on me that she wasn't having nervous number two as she'd blocked me across all form of communication when I tried to see if she was okay, even asking a female staff member to check the toilet for me. To this day, I've no idea how she left without me noticing as we were seated near the only available entrance/exit. To say I felt embarrassed was an understatement
I don’t understand how people can be so horrible. I could never do that someone.
To be honest, I don't understand either. Don't get me wrong, I know I'm no oil painting, but that's the quickest anyone has run off from me. Thankfully, most people usually politely say ‘thanks but no thanks’ and we go our separate ways. But on that occasion, it was an unexpected hit to my self-esteem that's stayed with me ever since, although it was a long time ago. Nonetheless, it only takes one bad experience to put doubt amongst future meets, social or otherwise."That’s the thing and it ruins it for the genuine ones. We can’t all be everyone’s cup of tea but no excuse to treat anyone that way. | |||
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"I have just literally been dropped off home to change and he just drove off and left me
That's horrible!!
If it's any consolation it's probably a metaphor for what he's like in bed.. but seriously what a C***
Fair enough if either of you feel no connection but don't just drive off ffs!
Hope you are ok"Thank you. I will be ok and bounce back and remember not all people on here I like that 
Ps. Checked out your profile if only you were closer | |||
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"Has anyone ever had some one do a runner on them ? Yes. I had a lady meet me for a social, only to say she needed the toilet about ten minutes after turning up. After about 20-25 minutes, it eventually dawned on me that she wasn't having nervous number two as she'd blocked me across all form of communication when I tried to see if she was okay, even asking a female staff member to check the toilet for me. To this day, I've no idea how she left without me noticing as we were seated near the only available entrance/exit. To say I felt embarrassed was an understatement
I don’t understand how people can be so horrible. I could never do that someone.
To be honest, I don't understand either. Don't get me wrong, I know I'm no oil painting, but that's the quickest anyone has run off from me. Thankfully, most people usually politely say ‘thanks but no thanks’ and we go our separate ways. But on that occasion, it was an unexpected hit to my self-esteem that's stayed with me ever since, although it was a long time ago. Nonetheless, it only takes one bad experience to put doubt amongst future meets, social or otherwise.
That’s the thing and it ruins it for the genuine ones. We can’t all be everyone’s cup of tea but no excuse to treat anyone that way.
"Totally agree. I hope you're okay though, especially after what happened to you recently. Us folks need to stick together | |||
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"Has anyone ever had some one do a runner on them ? " I heard Phillip Sckolfield did a runner. | |||
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"Has anyone ever had some one do a runner on them ? I heard Phillip Sckolfield did a runner." Ba dum tss!  | |||
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"I have just literally been dropped off home to change and he just drove off and left me
That's horrible!!
If it's any consolation it's probably a metaphor for what he's like in bed.. but seriously what a C***
Fair enough if either of you feel no connection but don't just drive off ffs!
Hope you are ok
Thank you. I will be ok and bounce back and remember not all people on here I like that
Ps. Checked out your profile if only you were closer "Awww ty. I wish Keep smiling. Imagine if you had found out he was such a dick AFTER it had gone further. Lucky escape | |||
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"Has anyone ever had some one do a runner on them ? " Yes... met before so decided to meet again. Round 1 great he decided to go outside for a cigarette wore only his trousers left his pants soxs on the floor ....he never came back ...very odd waited ages but to no avail! Washed his undies .being the nice person but nothing ghosted! The only thing I thought of was he wanted the teacher/pupil senerio and I did have a big cane | |||
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"Has anyone ever had some one do a runner on them ? I heard Phillip Sckolfield did a runner. Ba dum tss! "why ttttttttttttttthank QQQQQQQQQQQQQ | |||
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"Has anyone ever had some one do a runner on them ? " Had a young lad threw up once as he was soooo nervous lol | |||
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"It is soul destroying. I am sorry it’s happened to a lot of people. " Don't beat yourself up, you have done nothing wrong x | |||
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"Has anyone ever had some one do a runner on them ? " Yes, was due to meet a couple for a group "event" We'd been chatting for weeks building up to this 20 mins before I was due to leave the house. A message - "you are not wanted" and I was blocked before I could even read it, let alone respond... The chat at one point was even talking about how they were struggling to get guys to meet them. Now I know why... | |||
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"Has anyone ever had some one do a runner on them ? Yes, was due to meet a couple for a group "event" We'd been chatting for weeks building up to this 20 mins before I was due to leave the house. A message - "you are not wanted" and I was blocked before I could even read it, let alone respond... The chat at one point was even talking about how they were struggling to get guys to meet them. Now I know why..." Ouch what is wrong with people  | |||
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"Yes unfortunately more than once. Met for a social at a trendy bar in Bristol. Got on what I thought really well then she did the old going to the bathroom trick and buggered off. Another was a sex meet (we've met previously) started getting down to it when she said she wanted to get her new toy out her car to show me, got in her car, sped off and had my number blocked within 5mins" It’s mind boggling what people will do. If someone isn’t into it they should just be respectful it’s really not that difficult and to be mid sex meet and do a runner | |||
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"Yes unfortunately more than once. Met for a social at a trendy bar in Bristol. Got on what I thought really well then she did the old going to the bathroom trick and buggered off. Another was a sex meet (we've met previously) started getting down to it when she said she wanted to get her new toy out her car to show me, got in her car, sped off and had my number blocked within 5mins It’s mind boggling what people will do. If someone isn’t into it they should just be respectful it’s really not that difficult and to be mid sex meet and do a runner " Yes indeed, sorry that it's happened to you too | |||
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"Has anyone ever had some one do a runner on them ? " yes.. agreed to meet a guy... he turned up.. we said hi..he got us both a drink. Then said he was just nipping to the toilet. Never heard from him again lol | |||
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This certainly didn't help gf's already nervousness about meeting someone fronm fab..glad to say since made up for it in form of a quite regular fb/fwb now | |||
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"I have just literally been dropped off home to change and he just drove off and left me "His username didn't begin with letter 'C' by any chance did it ? | |||
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"Sorry to hear this happened to you op. I was meant to be meeting a guy for a social on Saturday the messages and chat have been good and he seemed genuine. I some lame excuse on Saturday. He’s since ignored my message to ask what happened. Makes you start to think there’s something wrong with you " Very much his loss! Unfortunately you get ppl on here who love the idea of playing but when it comes to it they bottle it. I had a meet a few years ago. Had a great social and arranged a hotel the following week. Even had a message stating she was on way and then never showed. Unfortunately it happens | |||
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"Sorry to hear this happened to you op. I was meant to be meeting a guy for a social on Saturday the messages and chat have been good and he seemed genuine. I some lame excuse on Saturday. He’s since ignored my message to ask what happened. Makes you start to think there’s something wrong with you Very much his loss! Unfortunately you get ppl on here who love the idea of playing but when it comes to it they bottle it. I had a meet a few years ago. Had a great social and arranged a hotel the following week. Even had a message stating she was on way and then never showed. Unfortunately it happens " If only they had the decency to say sorry I changed my mind but even that seems too difficult. | |||
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"Sorry to hear this happened to you op. I was meant to be meeting a guy for a social on Saturday the messages and chat have been good and he seemed genuine. I some lame excuse on Saturday. He’s since ignored my message to ask what happened. Makes you start to think there’s something wrong with you Very much his loss! Unfortunately you get ppl on here who love the idea of playing but when it comes to it they bottle it. I had a meet a few years ago. Had a great social and arranged a hotel the following week. Even had a message stating she was on way and then never showed. Unfortunately it happens If only they had the decency to say sorry I changed my mind but even that seems too difficult. " I can only agree. You do feel a berk checking out of a hotel room you only arrived at 3 hours previously | |||
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"I have just literally been dropped off home to change and he just drove off and left me "That is terrible. Dropped off and he drove off - how b rude is that. I've had a meet and the guy was all for future meets then no contact at all from him | |||
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"I have just literally been dropped off home to change and he just drove off and left me
That is terrible. Dropped off and he drove off - how b rude is that. I've had a meet and the guy was all for future meets then no contact at all from him"It’s horrible how people behave but I guess we have to dust ourselves off and think it says more about them than us x | |||
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 , couples falling out during the meet due to insane jealousy and so on. Too many to remember them all  | |||
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 . She was a big girl and I didnt want anyone I knew to see me with her, yes im a cunt but hey ho. | |||
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"He definitely drove off, he lives a fair way from me. Just feel so humiliated. " Definitely don’t feel humiliated. Be grateful for a lucky escape. You only see the one side now. Luckily you avoided the even worse side of shit sex with an absolute wanker. So that’s a win for you girl. X | |||
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"He definitely drove off, he lives a fair way from me. Just feel so humiliated. Definitely don’t feel humiliated. Be grateful for a lucky escape. You only see the one side now. Luckily you avoided the even worse side of shit sex with an absolute wanker. So that’s a win for you girl. X" Yeah there is that lol x | |||
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"I have just literally been dropped off home to change and he just drove off and left me "That's super disrespectful as others have said it could have been worse. Don't let it knock your confidence I'm sure there's plenty that would be more than interested  | |||
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"He definitely drove off, he lives a fair way from me. Just feel so humiliated. " Tey not to feel like that, these people are not worth it, what a horrible thing to do and you deserve better. | |||
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"I once went to a females house she opened the door and she looked nothing like her pictures not even slightly... she was huge and not very atractive but the worse thing is her daughter was stood behind her aged around 3, the women asked me if im coming upstairs i polietly said im really sorry but this situation isnt for me and left she was shouting in the street that i was a time waster, what kind of knob has a compleate stranger round for sex with the kids in the house......never mind the fake pics." That's horrible, but someone banged her sadly for her to have kids. had you not talked to know how she actually looked and why show up to fuck someone you actually didn't know...lots to be said on both parts... but aye.. | |||
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"Never had anyone do a runner on me but I have done a runner! Many years ago I got set up on a blind date and I nipped out to use the toilet in a restaurant and made a sharp exit out of the staff entrance . She was a big girl and I didnt want anyone I knew to see me with her, yes im a cunt but hey ho."Why not just tell her instead of humiliating her like that though? | |||
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"I have had a few people mess me about from chatting and getting on great guns then just stop also had a couple ask me to come over and when I got to address I could hear music and phones were ringing but didn’t answer the door so proper ghosted then, and I’ve also had a woman what I thought was genuine ask me over and was well up for it then I got to the address given and messaged saying I was here and repky was walk in and I’m sat on sofa waiting naked for you so I proceeded to walk in and was given someone else’s address then just got laughing emojis and blocked but I showed this to the occupant of the house who laughed it off with me and offered me a coffee but I felt stupid and left after she was so shocked I had just walked into her house was a nightmare . The moral is we are all human beings and no one deserves to be treated disrespectfully. Always treat others how u expect to be treated that way you get out of life what you want and have some good fun along that journey. Don’t let other people who don’t know how to respect others get you down as there karma will get them eventually so let’s all just have fun when and where we can in life and not let the twats ruin it for us xxx happy fabbing guys xx If anyone in midlands does fancy a real meet anytime message me I’m a right decent genuine guy and will be honoured to meet you" Omg thats awful, thats not even just getting cold feet, you could have been arrested ffs. Who does that shit to someone, just as well the owner saw the funny side...but I can imagine you sawnothing funny about it.. | |||
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When I was very young, a guy left me in the countryside, as he went to his car for something like condoms and drove off. Not man enough to take care of someone and responsibility for his behaviour. | |||
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"He definitely drove off, he lives a fair way from me. Just feel so humiliated. " He probably had a guilt attack about cheating on his wife | |||
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"Yeah I've had a few that have stood me up n not chatted before the meet etc it's soul n confidence distroying " Only if you let it affect you. So don't. | |||
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"Never had anyone do a runner on me but I have done a runner! Many years ago I got set up on a blind date and I nipped out to use the toilet in a restaurant and made a sharp exit out of the staff entrance . She was a big girl and I didnt want anyone I knew to see me with her, yes im a cunt but hey ho."that's a shitty thing to do. | |||
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"OP I'm sorry that happened to you. I once had a guy get a bj, told me he needed to get his condoms from the car (wouldn't accept mine) and drove off. Later asked for nudes. It's awful when they just disappear. " Well he's just an idiot!
I once was stood outside a pub waiting on a date who then drove straight past!.
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"yes arranged a meet mid way through sex i’d realised left my phone in car nipped to get it went back to hers she was (balling her eyes out) seemed genuine saying her mothers friend had had a heart attack and she’s got to go thought ok fair enough blocked within 5 mins of leaving " Mid-way through sex you went to get your phone from your car. Really?  | |||
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"yes arranged a meet mid way through sex i’d realised left my phone in car nipped to get it went back to hers she was (balling her eyes out) seemed genuine saying her mothers friend had had a heart attack and she’s got to go thought ok fair enough blocked within 5 mins of leaving Mid-way through sex you went to get your phone from your car. Really? "If he stopped 'midway through sex' with me I'd have blocked him too. What an odd thing to do | |||
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