FabSwingers.com forum: Remembering usernames of friends

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm a regular visitor to a swingers club called Abfab/Kestrel (It's the only club I'm visiting so far) and I meet other regulars who I have made friends with.

One of them recommended I come to a social this Friday and gave me their username as well as someone to contact through FabSwingers to sign me up for the event.

My problem is I always had a problem with remembering other people's usernames, no matter how many times I remind my self mentally or say it to myself, by the time I get home or to my phone I've forgotten it. So now I don't know who to contact and I've tried looking it up on the site, but the social event doesn't seem to be available on the events page.

Like all swingers clubs I've read about Abfab/Kestrel have a no mobile phones policy, so I've been considering taking a notepad with me to write down the usernames, then shred the notes later.

Do you guys think this is a good idea or I should try something else?

By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Permanent marker.

Write it on your knob.

It should last long enough for you to remember later.

*as long as you don't rub it off.

**the ink, obvs......

By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

You could always ask bar staff to write it down for you

Or take the person to the locker where your phone is and find them.

By *iss R. BelleWoman
over a year ago

Farnborough

Go to the London forum and the social is posted there. Post on the forum thread or message Ali to get on the list.

By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"You could always ask bar staff to write it down for you

Or take the person to the locker where your phone is and find them. "

We got chased both times we went to our locker to check the time at Gems