FabSwingers.com forum: Who should buy the condoms?

By *exyfungirl78 OP Woman
over a year ago

Colchester

If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both should have them.

No excuse for either then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gentleman should always have condoms for a meet.

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton

They should definitely talk about this before the meet but the guy should get them.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Everyone should have their own

There’s times I’ve forgotten them and thankfully he has had them.

If he didn’t, I would have left the meet.

If a guy didn’t have them, I’d presume they are happy to play bare with everyone and avoid.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Everyone should have their own

There’s times I’ve forgotten them and thankfully he has had them.

If he didn’t, I would have left the meet.

If a guy didn’t have them, I’d presume they are happy to play bare with everyone and avoid. "

To add, if a woman attended a meet without them I’d presume the same and avoid.I just don’t meet women ha

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

Everyone is responsible for their own health if you don’t want to play without a condom then you should always have them available if meeting

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

I would say both should have them, as you are both responsible, mature adults.

If a guy showed up with no condoms and stated he preferred bareback they we would say, nice to meet you, have fun, bye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started playing rather unexpectedly with a bunch of guys recently and no one had a condom including us.

End of fun sadly.

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By *ark4amsterdamMan
over a year ago

heathrow/amsterdam/harwich

I always take even if just meet for a meal as has happened ended up more than just lunch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be discussed, any one of them could have a problem, an allergy say, to a particular type.

Generally though, I think all should be prepared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both responsible to have them. Why look for sex if you don't have protection?

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Always have them in my handbag

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

"I would say both should have them, as you are both responsible, mature adults.

If a guy showed up with no condoms and stated he preferred bareback they we would say, nice to meet you, have fun, bye.

Basically ... this!!!

But we only really play in clubs and TH provide them but Cupids don't. But I (mrs) carry a bag for just in case..... don't wanna be caught short!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make sure I have them

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Guys should always bring their own specially if they are intending to have fun , we have had to put some guys in there place at the club

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

If the lady says she doesn't play bare, it would be strange for her to not have any available on a play date, but I carry them always, for my own comfort and size, as much as the sti issues

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

Both people are responsible however only the male knows what is the best fit etc. So if he hasn't got any he has to just accept what I offer or no sex.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring my own (as I have a latex allergy), but I would expect a guy to also be carrying them. As others have said, if they turn up to a club or meet without them I assume they do bare with everyone and that is an instant turn off for me!

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Everyone. Everyone should have their own supply of condoms.

Condoms everywhere!

YOU are responsible for YOUR sexual health and YOUR body (Women AND Men).

Want to prevent yourself from catching something nasty? - bring condoms!

Don't want to be a Parent? - bring condoms!

I will always have my own stash as I know for sure they are in date and haven't been tampered with.

If you need a certain size, style or material, that's up to you to supply what you need. x

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"I always bring my own (as I have a latex allergy), but I would expect a guy to also be carrying them. As others have said, if they turn up to a club or meet without them I assume they do bare with everyone and that is an instant turn off for me!"

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I always take my own but would be disappointed if the man didn’t have any and it would likely give me the ick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man should always buy his own.. different sizes etc.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Both should bring them. It's up to everyone to be responsible for their sexual health. In saying that I met a few men who didn't have any with them. One even tried to say because he had a vasectomy he didn't need them.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Man, all the time! Can’t imagine any situation leading to sex where it would be acceptable for man to ask lady for a rubber

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Guys should have their own, based on the fact they know what size/fit is right for them.

That said, we generally have a back up stash in case of emergencies, but I would be massively put off if a fella arrived for a meet without any as would make me worry they are a bit fast and loose with their health.

Also, exception is if the woman/couple have specific needs (allergies, want to be super careful with their control etc) so would be happy to wear theirs if they requested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

To prevent stealthing, I always bring my own condoms. I refuse to use his. If he is unsure about using mine, we buy new ones together. I never leave my sexual health in someone else's hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone. Everyone should have their own supply of condoms.

Condoms everywhere!

YOU are responsible for YOUR sexual health and YOUR body (Women AND Men).

Want to prevent yourself from catching something nasty? - bring condoms!

Don't want to be a Parent? - bring condoms!

I will always have my own stash as I know for sure they are in date and haven't been tampered with.

If you need a certain size, style or material, that's up to you to supply what you need. x"

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I carry condoms most of the time.

Personally think men and woman should carry them if they intend to play with others

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

It's not a matter of who, more like everyone.

Your sexual health is your own responsibility nobody else's.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

"I carry condoms most of the time.

Personally think men and woman should carry them if they intend to play with others"

Spot on.

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By *exyfungirl78 OP Woman
over a year ago

Colchester

Thanks for all your replies.

I didn’t have any on me as I was work and he kept saying he never buys them and I should. Needless to say lots of red flags there and he’s now blocked. Definitely dodged a bullet on that one

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By *oyRoy06Man
over a year ago

leighton buzzard

Have always kept at least one on me since i first became sexually active.

That being said ... it takes at least 2 consentong adults to have fun, so surely responsibility is equal to plau safe and ensure protection is available

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

If you have a dick and are at risk of entering into a situation where you might need them. Then you should be carrying.

I also tend to carry them for situations where I might meet someone with a dick who's gonna be a little lax.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Should be discussed before hand incase either party has latex allergies but we always make sure we have a new unopened box

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

the man after all he knows what he likes but the truth is very very few turn up with them ... i keep some in most of the time but if for some reason they get here and ive got none then the meet wont go ahead the guy has the cock the guy should buy the wrappers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's best the gent having them as he don't want have a wasted meet

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Since they are made in different sizes, the chap should supply his own.

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By *hamsBBWBashCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Chams

I always have them with me but don't say unless the guy hasn't and I still really want to play, but sometimes if they haven't I won't say I have as I've changed my mind about them by that point and don't want to play anymore

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I think both, if either don't want bareback then you should take responsibility and cover that aspect, I assume it would be discussed beforehand mind to who's got them but I'd always have some just incase.

Mrs

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

"If you have a dick and are at risk of entering into a situation where you might need them. Then you should be carrying.

I also tend to carry them for situations where I might meet someone with a dick who's gonna be a little lax.

I'd go as far as to say if you have a sexual organ or an orifice you might use as a sexual organ then you should be carrying.

This bullshit that it's only the man's responsibility is so 20th century thinking.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I always provide my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always take plenty ourselves and to be fair its not really a matter of if the man or woman should, everyone should.

We'd say a bigger issue is making sure the bloke changes condoms if moving from one woman to another.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"If you have a dick and are at risk of entering into a situation where you might need them. Then you should be carrying.

I also tend to carry them for situations where I might meet someone with a dick who's gonna be a little lax.

I'd go as far as to say if you have a sexual organ or an orifice you might use as a sexual organ then you should be carrying.

This bullshit that it's only the man's responsibility is so 20th century thinking. "

Fair play. Yes, I carry for my dick and for my orifices so hey.

So we all should.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Condoms are not one size fits all it took awhile for my husband to find a brand he was comfortable with.It’s everyone’s responsibility to carry them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man should be responsible for getting condoms

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Ultimately, I think to be gentlemanly, the man should, but both parties should take responsibility and simply someone will always forget

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

Everyone one should have them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always use my own though. Likely the bloke's condom has been in his wallet since he was a teen.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

Both parties should carry a supply

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Both should have them. Wouldn't trust anyone who doesn't

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think everyone needs to take responsibility for their own health.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I would always use my own though. Likely the bloke's condom has been in his wallet since he was a teen."

You can use yours if you want but I am wearing the ones I brought for the same reasons. Plus yours wouldn’t fit.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"I would always use my own though. Likely the bloke's condom has been in his wallet since he was a teen.

You can use yours if you want but I am wearing the ones I brought for the same reasons. Plus yours wouldn’t fit."

I only use my own unless a sealed box

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

I always take my own to a meet so that they are definitely available, rather than expecting the person I’m meeting to provide them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

For us expectations would be set before getting naked. However, we wouldn't dream of turning up to meet anyone without them

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would always use my own though. Likely the bloke's condom has been in his wallet since he was a teen.

You can use yours if you want but I am wearing the ones I brought for the same reasons. Plus yours wouldn’t fit."

We wouldn't be meeting so no need.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

I just bought some..

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I would always use my own though. Likely the bloke's condom has been in his wallet since he was a teen.

You can use yours if you want but I am wearing the ones I brought for the same reasons. Plus yours wouldn’t fit.

We wouldn't be meeting so no need.

That’s ok as I wasn’t asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

Why buy them? Just grab as many condoms, dams, and femidoms as you need from the local sex health clinic or your GP every time you get your STI test. If you need more then go back and ask for some. We haven't bought condoms like ever!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's sensible to have your own, if you want to use them. And share the cost, if money is tight and without them.

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By *lcoupleneCouple
over a year ago

morpeth

Everyone should be protecting themselves. Everyone should have their own if planning on playing with others. However, I wouldn’t assume the size I carry should fit all. Does help me narrow down what I’m not interested in though

Like Cinderella… if the shoe doesn’t fit

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By *lcoupleneCouple
over a year ago

morpeth

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them?

We do free postal STI checks and don’t have a hun clinic nearby. I’m sure a lot of regions are easier to access freebies but it’s a nightmare here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do free postal STI checks and don’t have a hun clinic nearby. I’m sure a lot of regions are easier to access freebies but it’s a nightmare here! "

Gum clinic or your GP. But if the NHS in your area does postal STI testing will likely have postal delivery for protection options too.

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By *imher8587Couple
over a year ago

Kingswinford

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

I'd suggest the single male, but us as a couple, we always carry them anyway, & insist on using ours, so we know we've looked after them & they're not old or damaged

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

Everyone playing nice and mature on here when in fact most will throw the condoms to the side at the first sign of cock and puss.

I love this game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there fabsters. New tother forums so please be gentle with me. (jokes, obvs)

Personally, controversially, I enjoy bareback, as did my partner of 6 years when we had a couples profile together way back. But, responsibly, we would always have condoms to hand should either of us in the party decide for whatever reason that on that particular occasion we would use condoms. There could be a multitude of reasons for this. But to answer the OP's original question, everyone should be packing protection regardless. Events will essentially govern the way the meet goes as the night unfolds but as a basic starting point everyone involved should have them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would always use my own though. Likely the bloke's condom has been in his wallet since he was a teen.

You can use yours if you want but I am wearing the ones I brought for the same reasons. Plus yours wouldn’t fit.

We wouldn't be meeting so no need.

That’s ok as I wasn’t asking

Sorry my comment sounded really bitchy and it wasn't meant that way at all. I meant you are out of my league x

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I would always use my own though. Likely the bloke's condom has been in his wallet since he was a teen.

You can use yours if you want but I am wearing the ones I brought for the same reasons. Plus yours wouldn’t fit.

We wouldn't be meeting so no need.

That’s ok as I wasn’t asking

Sorry my comment sounded really bitchy and it wasn't meant that way at all. I meant you are out of my league x"

I don’t believe in leagues - I think swinging is a participation sport and everyone adds to the game. I do still think everyone needs to bring their own boots though

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By *ess King tvTV/TS
over a year ago

KING'S LYNN

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

Depends on .. If the 'lady' states, and is adamant that she doesn't play bare, then SHE should always carry. IF the guy, on the other hand, wants only raw, why would he carry?

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I always carry non-latex* because of allergies. One of the sexiest things on the planet is a man who has figured out he can fuck everyone with a non-latex condom, has figured out which particular one works for him and carries that as standard.

* apart from that time I forgot.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I always carry non-latex* because of allergies. One of the sexiest things on the planet is a man who has figured out he can fuck everyone with a non-latex condom, has figured out which particular one works for him and carries that as standard.

* apart from that time I forgot. "

I have always used Skyns which are latex free and were the largest I could find. Recently I was told about a make with an even larger size that are much more comfortable which I also now carry but they have latex. That means I can choose what to wear depending on what allergies she has.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

The guy should have his own as he knows which brand/size/ shape whatever fits him most comfortably.

However I always have my own too, latex free.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It’s very poor behaviour from a guy.

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By *acktopervMan
over a year ago

Stourport-On-Severn

Probably like most people, i much prefer BB. But i will say i have never ever gone on any meet without condoms, and have actually used them more times than than not by some margin.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I believe the onus is on the man, as he knows which size and fit is best for him.

I buy them, but if they don't fit then they don't get pussy.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them?

Depends on .. If the 'lady' states, and is adamant that she doesn't play bare, then SHE should always carry. IF the guy, on the other hand, wants only raw, why would he carry?"

I'd expect any man to tell me if he only plays bare, then I can tell him no thanks.

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

It's polite for him to have condoms but we always make sure we have them

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Both should have them.

No excuse for either then"

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even up for debate. I won’t even turn up for a social without condoms. Absolutely no excuse. Any guy who turns up without them is a RED flag. Even if the lady has them. The fact the man can arrive without is alarm bells. Safe sex please x

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I always have some, when meeting, usually latex free but it does sit funny if the guy doesn't bring any at all... It's just bad form for either to have none at all

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I bought some as I'm fussy which ones go in me...still haven't used them yet. Hope they don't go out of date

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

I think both should have condoms personally. It's probably the man's priority but in the moment it's too easy to just say sod it and go bareback

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By *acksmith22Man
over a year ago

cannock

Both should carry them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring my own condoms because I know which one's are the most comfortable.

Although I have no problems if a meet brings latex free ones because of a allergy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also if any one wants my recommendations go for the one vanish hyper thin with one little drop of lube on the inside and thank me later haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man everytime

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

As the person with the cock knows best what fits and feels good, surely they’re best placed to provide? If they don’t, I’m more than happy to say no thanks.

And frankly, I think I do my share being on birth control….

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I always provide condoms - I want specific ones that are extra safe and I know haven’t expired

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By *ouAndKisses.Woman
over a year ago

Crewe

I always carry some just in case but most clubs have them in private rooms or can ask at the desk.

Always safe to be prepared either person.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I have a belt like batman and always carry condoms, lube, freshmints, and deodorant

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I always carry my own

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Always bring my own to a club meet, have a spare box in bag in case the ones in play bag go walking lol

I have a certain brand and fit I prefer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

I always carry my own

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

Both.

Think its a grown up way to go about things.

If I met a guy who said "didn't bring any condoms as I think you should buy them" I'd laugh, give him a couple of quid and tell him to nip off and buy some sweeties.

Would match his maturity.

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I buy the condoms for the Bulls to use when fucking my wife

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By *olarMan
over a year ago

woking

If anyone wants to play safe they have condoms to ensure safe play happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men as it is men's product Women buy there personal stuff

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By *elix85Man
over a year ago

Kings Lynn

The man. End of.

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By *bwstarzWoman
over a year ago

south cheshire

Both should carry condoms, I have my little bag with a variety of brands and sizes so no excuse but does surprise if the guy doesn’t have any - like you come a swinging party with no condoms what exactly were you thinking was gonna happen, just watch?

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

No cover, no entry. He would be asked to leave. You are offering pussy and then need to buy the condoms. No way.

Mrs

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Onus is on both to be careful and prepared. I usually use my own condoms as know they feel good

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies

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By *gededidunMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

Both actually. Anyone that wants safe sex should have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both!

Mrs

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By *andB130Couple
over a year ago

northampton

Both should always have them.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Both definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never rely on the other party to have them, I want safe sex so I make sure I can get it that way.

I do wonder why men cast about safe sex but don't bring any

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By *icker733Man
over a year ago

Swindon

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

The Question was “ who should buy” so i think Man if he is ‘Gentleman’

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

Sorry but that is a very "un-smart" way of approaching the situation. You have to take care of yourself and can't just expect everyone around you to do that for you.

You bring condoms, and expect him to have some. If he doesn't, you still have yours.

You are both responsible, and "both" does NOT exclude you.

This discussion comes up so often, it's ridiculous.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies"

Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I always buy my own. Vanishingly unlikely anyone else will have the right size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies

Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)"

Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think

Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies

Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)

Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think

Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms "

First time I ever heard that. Normally the answer is "I don't care. neither taste great". Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies

Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)

Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think

Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms

First time I ever heard that. Normally the answer is "I don't care. neither taste great". Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway."

Maybe 99% of the women you've met lol

Lots of women suck dick with condoms on hence why there's such a market for flavoured ones

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies

Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)

Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think

Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms

First time I ever heard that. Normally the answer is "I don't care. neither taste great". Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway.

Maybe 99% of the women you've met lol

Lots of women suck dick with condoms on hence why there's such a market for flavoured ones "

Not saying that I never met any who did (I indeed did), but just saying that I only heard indifference about the "taste" of the rubber, as it never is good anyway apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies

Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)

Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think

Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms

First time I ever heard that. Normally the answer is "I don't care. neither taste great". Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway.

Maybe 99% of the women you've met lol

Lots of women suck dick with condoms on hence why there's such a market for flavoured ones

Not saying that I never met any who did (I indeed did), but just saying that I only heard indifference about the "taste" of the rubber, as it never is good anyway apparently."

You literally said "Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway."

Lol

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies

Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)

Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think

Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms

First time I ever heard that. Normally the answer is "I don't care. neither taste great". Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway.

Maybe 99% of the women you've met lol

Lots of women suck dick with condoms on hence why there's such a market for flavoured ones

Not saying that I never met any who did (I indeed did), but just saying that I only heard indifference about the "taste" of the rubber, as it never is good anyway apparently.

You literally said "Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway."

Lol"

Yes, indeed. Now I am not here to argue, but what exactly does that contradict?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies

Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)

Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think

Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms

First time I ever heard that. Normally the answer is "I don't care. neither taste great". Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway.

Maybe 99% of the women you've met lol

Lots of women suck dick with condoms on hence why there's such a market for flavoured ones

Not saying that I never met any who did (I indeed did), but just saying that I only heard indifference about the "taste" of the rubber, as it never is good anyway apparently.

You literally said "Also 99% of women suck dick without rubber anyway."

Lol

Yes, indeed. Now I am not here to argue, but what exactly does that contradict?"

I misread your last comment

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Seem to have caused some issues here. All saying is all are different. We should all respect that and be prepared for what people like or not

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By *ertslady1984Woman
over a year ago

Herts

In this day and age both.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies

Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)

Some women don't give oral without a condom so this is quite thoughtful I think

Yeah they don't taste great but they taste better than normal condoms "

Yes exactly my point. Should consider others just like how you would wish to be considered. Thank you and if I may xxx

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By *orseman12Man
over a year ago

BIRMINGHAM.BOURNVILLE &SELLYOAK

Men should carry condoms to partys and clubs if look on fab lot couples and single females play u safe sex then you should ask your self is worth meeting them if they playing bb that means they don't care about buying condoms same as couples and single females you get condoms free from sti clinic and buy of ebay 24 condoms for £3.50 is that how much you value your health I been blocked many times by couples and females because they what bb sex I always look at there pictures on profile and read there verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both should have condoms, more so than women.

I always have a selection of different sizes and makes.

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By *ighly SexedMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Both should have them to be honest. I’d never even think about turning up to a meet without the brand I know that I find comfortable.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

"Men should carry condoms to partys and clubs if look on fab lot couples and single females play u safe sex then you should ask your self is worth meeting them if they playing bb that means they don't care about buying condoms same as couples and single females you get condoms free from sti clinic and buy of ebay 24 condoms for £3.50 is that how much you value your health I been blocked many times by couples and females because they what bb sex I always look at there pictures on profile and read there verifications "

women get condoms for free?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

In a club it shocks me the amount of men that don’t have them….

It’s like a guy asked me for one so he could play with a lady in the dungeon. Was like the club sells them get your own

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

women get condoms for free?"

My local sexual health clinic gives out free condoms (in various sizes too), and lube. I always pick some up when I’m having a check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask if she says no bareback then just ask if she wants me bring my own

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By *eteranSwingersCouple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol, Spain

Everyone should own them and carry them

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

women get condoms for free?

My local sexual health clinic gives out free condoms (in various sizes too), and lube. I always pick some up when I’m having a check

I get my tests done elsewhere, but I went once and I think you're right, they give out condoms. I got a full pack of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny enough even though I believe men should be responsible for carrying condoms on them, there's a woman I'm looking to meet who's insisting on bringing her own

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

women get condoms for free?

My local sexual health clinic gives out free condoms (in various sizes too), and lube. I always pick some up when I’m having a check

While this is true, my local clinic is pretty limited in the sizes they have available. I had to get them to put a note in my file to stop nagging me to take condoms that don't fit.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Anyone who expects to fuck or to be fucked should bring them. Another benefit of bringing your own is that you can trust them.

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By *ima7893Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I literally would not turn up to a meet without them. I’d be mortified if I didn’t have any.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

"I carry condoms most of the time.

Personally think men and woman should carry them if they intend to play with others"

Exactly this

It really isn’t that complex folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly, I would never turn up without them , I always replace and have a pack hidden in the car.

Always play safe .

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

Men, so they get the right size. I have supplied them but get moaned at the size. I think it's an excuse cos they want bareback

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

* apart from that time I forgot. "

I didn't know they were washable

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Usually the thin ones. Thicker sometimes. Others fruit flavour for some ladies

Never have I ever heard a girl say "oohhh this tastes soo good. Thanks for bringing the strawberry rubber!" (just buy normal ones)"

You don't know what you're talking about... Best bj I've given is with fruity condoms... Could not get enough of it. BJ with ordinary condoms is rank.

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

"Both should have them.

No excuse for either then"

Absolutely both or all should be equipped

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
over a year ago

M20

Only he knows what fits and stays on.

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Only he knows what fits and stays on."

I don't understand why this is so hard

to understand. I reckon those men spouting equal responsibility have never used a woman's purchase. Are they really barebackers?

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By *ubandsubCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

We find the guys who dont have them when we ask tend to be guys who are hiding it from their partners. We always have spares, but we expect guys to bring thier own.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them?

Men, so they get the right size. I have supplied them but get moaned at the size. I think it's an excuse cos they want bareback

Yep totally agree on both counts. I really need size/type that I am comfortable with and can't imagine meeting somebody without taking some.

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

We take our own everywhere due to preferred brand/type.

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By *hong80321967Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

I would be happy to supply condoms

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

we always have them, just in case x

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Both should

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By *lways horny wirralMan
over a year ago

Birkenhead

I would buy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy I always take condoms no matter what

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

If its a meet that is likely to end with sex both should bring them.

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By *arkrobMan
over a year ago

Morecambe

one of you go to the GUM clinic they give them to you FOC with a good few weeks supply

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

If neither of you has them, get some oral done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone should be responsible for their sexual health however that looks for them and what has been agreed.

I always have condoms.

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

There are a lot of people saying both, but imo it should be the guy, he knows what size he needs, and women aren't mind readers and shouldn't have to carry a vast array of sizes for that "just in case" time.

(Mr)

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "

I always take them, my own safety is at risk too.

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By *orynMan
over a year ago

betws y coed

No excuses should carry them anyway that way No chance of disappointing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In that case I say her but I do think he should carry some too. My hubby always takes some anyway as do I

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

there was a interesting convo at work today from some of the younger ladies they were saying that alot of younger guys are putting pins through the condom packets so that they break because that way they can have it bare ...now thats scary... so these ladies have taken to buying the condoms and wont have fun unless its their condoms that are used

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"there was a interesting convo at work today from some of the younger ladies they were saying that alot of younger guys are putting pins through the condom packets so that they break because that way they can have it bare ...now thats scary... so these ladies have taken to buying the condoms and wont have fun unless its their condoms that are used

Can’t see why, it’s not bare sex? Just some of the cum will leak out. It will still just feel like sex with a condom.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

It it a woman's responsibility to bring the lube?

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby

We would always discuss this before a meet. No condom, no sex and he’s going to wear them so he needs to bring the ones that suit him.

Likewise we would provide lube as some is stingy lol

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Pricks!

This is evil, sounds like something catholic missionaries would encourage.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

Can’t see why, it’s not bare sex? Just some of the cum will leak out. It will still just feel like sex with a condom."

a condom with several tiny hole in will fall apart quite quickly so they will infact be having bare sex ....

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Can’t see why, it’s not bare sex? Just some of the cum will leak out. It will still just feel like sex with a condom."

Wtf?

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By *eterandJaneadventuresCouple
over a year ago

Sutton

If your going to give a lady, make sure it’s wrapped up Gents ( buy the condoms)

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

"If a lady says she doesn’t play bare and asks a guy if he has any condoms and they say no who should be buying them? "
the guy should always buy the condoms,,, its his cock so he should get the condoms that he know will fit it,,,

common sense,,

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

The man cos he knows which type he likes.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Can’t see why, it’s not bare sex? Just some of the cum will leak out. It will still just feel like sex with a condom."

Dude, admit that was a joke, you just lost the whole room

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

Can’t see why, it’s not bare sex? Just some of the cum will leak out. It will still just feel like sex with a condom.

Dude, admit that was a joke, you just lost the whole room "

I didn’t quite get the concept. I didn’t realise they fall apart if you do this. Now I understand.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Never give anyone the responsibility for your sexual health .

You should always have them and so should they if they value their sexual health too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they both claim "safe sex only" then they should both arrive with condoms.

Its not a gentleman's duty, its the 21st century and everyone involved needs to protect themselves and others.

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By *hestyCharlotteWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I think that everybody who is attending clubs or meeting on a one to one basis should carry condoms. I make sure that I have a good supply of condoms with me everytime as you just never know. Im very direct and insist that a condom must be worn but am invariably often asked if they can do it without to which they get Told no in no uncertain terms. It’s actually very worrying as just the other day I observed a couple who where inviting several single men to fuck the female and telling them that it was up to them if they wanted to wear a condom or not and men where doing it without . I Can’t believe that anybody active on this scene would be so irresponsible !

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