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By *otcouple4u6969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

derby

My husband and I are visiting a club for the first time at end of June. My husband doesn't swap but likes to watch me and support me.

It's our first time at a club and I'm a bit apprehensive as to what to expect, any advice for newbies?

Cheers B

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

We're not club connoisseurs, and we've never attended Liberty Elite, which is where your profile suggests you're going. However, we have visited other clubs. We can say each club had a different feel to the place, pretty much like any venue where people congregate socially.

We were very apprehensive before our first club visit, so we sat in the car park for about ten minutes, building up the courage. We did't need to worry.

When we entered, we were asked whether we've been before. We said 'No', so the staff arranged a tour for us. In hindsight, we would have preferred to not have a tour because the discovery of each area or room would have been far more exciting - you may be different to us in that respect though.

The club we visited was well known for predatory single guys. We didn't know this beforehand, but in all honesty, we didn't have any problems. Once we told the guys we weren't interested they left us alone.

So, if we can visit a club under these circumstances, and still enjoy ourselves, you can guess what sort of night you'll have.

Every club has a 'No means no' policy, and they will swiftly deal with anyone who doesn't abide by the rules.

So, relax, enjoy your night, and book a babysitter for a return visit - because it's very likely you'll visit either the same club or another in future.

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By *otcouple4u6969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

derby


"We're not club connoisseurs, and we've never attended Liberty Elite, which is where your profile suggests you're going. However, we have visited other clubs. We can say each club had a different feel to the place, pretty much like any venue where people congregate socially.

We were very apprehensive before our first club visit, so we sat in the car park for about ten minutes, building up the courage. We did't need to worry.

When we entered, we were asked whether we've been before. We said 'No', so the staff arranged a tour for us. In hindsight, we would have preferred to not have a tour because the discovery of each area or room would have been far more exciting - you may be different to us in that respect though.

The club we visited was well known for predatory single guys. We didn't know this beforehand, but in all honesty, we didn't have any problems. Once we told the guys we weren't interested they left us alone.

So, if we can visit a club under these circumstances, and still enjoy ourselves, you can guess what sort of night you'll have.

Every club has a 'No means no' policy, and they will swiftly deal with anyone who doesn't abide by the rules.

So, relax, enjoy your night, and book a babysitter for a return visit - because it's very likely you'll visit either the same club or another in future. "

Brilliant, thankyou for you detailed reply, that in itself has settled the nerves slightly

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

No problem. Have a great night!

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