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How kinky, is kinky?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess some would say kinky is having the light on, where others would say it’s a lot more out there. Keen to understand what people flavour their kink is? How kinky are you?

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border


"I guess some would say kinky is having the light on, where others would say it’s a lot more out there. Keen to understand what people flavour their kink is? How kinky are you? "

Unsure where kinky starts, but an old comedian from years gone by, defined the difference between kinky and perverted...

Kinky is using a feather - perverted is using the whole chicken.

Hope this helps

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

No answer to what is exciting sex and what is kink. You find someone that thinks oral sex is kinky putting stocking on is kinky. Next person might think anal and spanking is everyday sex

As long as all enjoy and want it nothing is too kinky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't think I'm kinky.

Many other people think I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess some would say kinky is having the light on, where others would say it’s a lot more out there. Keen to understand what people flavour their kink is? How kinky are you?

Unsure where kinky starts, but an old comedian from years gone by, defined the difference between kinky and perverted...

Kinky is using a feather - perverted is using the whole chicken.

Hope this helps "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's all subjective, as others say. Things vary by culture too. We've got a modern western perspective and it's very much a flavour of our modern world here. Ancient cultures managed to enjoy their hedonistic lifestyles too and many today would be viewed by them as unimaginative and straight-laced, even if their own perspective was they are kinky.

I like to think that I'm flexible and need the right partners to develop some interests, rather than finding Joe Blogs at a local pub and expecting him to suggest wild fantasies to be explored. I'm fairly vanilla most days

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Kinks are very subjective in there nature. For example, some peoples kinks i would view as vanilla and then some of mine others wouldnt dream of doing stuff that i like.

I think its hard to view where the limit is as we are all into very different styles/tastes of what we enjoy.

A lot of my kinks I wouldn’t dream of even suggesting to people i was going to meet because they require a lot of trust and understanding from the person i was entering a dynamic with based on the risks associated with them.

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

Confusedddddd

You kinda start with your own answer.

And why compare 'how' kinky we are. It's not a competition and actually that's a quite unhealthy mindset which can push people to 'push boundaries' for feeling a failure or not kinky enough.

You do you and let others do the same

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Well we are not kinky at all...

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I suspect we're kinkier than most. BDSM, impact play, tab00 fantasies, bl00d play, wax, cbt, watersp0rts, etc.

But then some people om specialist f3tish websites almost terrify us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was meant in a more light hearted way. Of course I know everyone has their own limits, and I would never suggest someone does something they are not totally happy with just because they think they should.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Please keep responses to the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How kinky are you? "

My BFF says I am extremely kinky and Mr says I am mildly vanilla with a few sprinkles. I guess I am both.

- Miss

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By *5wiltsbimMan
over a year ago

Chippenham


"I suspect we're kinkier than most. BDSM, impact play, tab00 fantasies, bl00d play, wax, cbt, watersp0rts, etc.

But then some people om specialist f3tish websites almost terrify us! "

We on same level on kinky.

Particularly cbt, wax and watersports

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By *icker20.Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Im think my kinkiness changing sometimes...

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

More than some, less than others.

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

Been in the kink/fetish lifestyle for over 40 years and in that time it has become obvious with the advent and impact of social media that tolerance for so called kink has increased massively. For example, back in the 80s, the Viola rubber videos were considered pretty wild but now you can get them all free on Xhamster! In the 90s fetish became quite trendy with various pop stars wearing rubber and Torture Garden putting out compilation dance CDs. It’s like drugs, people are always seeking a greater thrill and the goalposts are in constant motion as a result. What is worrying now is how various sinister groups are seeking to hijack the trans movement to promote their own deviancies. We do worry that too many boundaries are now being crossed though, and this is coming from people who have done a lot of kink!

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"I guess some would say kinky is having the light on, where others would say it’s a lot more out there. Keen to understand what people flavour their kink is? How kinky are you? "

OMFG!! There are people who leave the light on! Perverts!!!

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By *i_guy37Man
over a year ago

Oxford

I'm into full-on head to toe sploshing and would definitely view this as a kink. It's an unusual interest that most people aren't into.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

sometimes but only when I'm feeling really naughty, I take my socks off.

Mr Hayes.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

our toy cupboard contents might lead some to say we are NOT vanilla...

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By *elcome68Man
over a year ago

manchester

we can all agree to being kinky but truth be told. i'm sure i cud be even more kinky in the rite company x

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"I suspect we're kinkier than most. BDSM, impact play, tab00 fantasies, bl00d play, wax, cbt, watersp0rts, etc.

But then some people om specialist f3tish websites almost terrify us! "

And what you talk about is 'normal' for me... I fear I may fall into terrifying

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We're kinky enough that our vanilla friends would have heart palpitations at the prospect, yet grounded enough to only share our deviances with like-minded souls.

Although give us a willing person to corrupt and we're all in!

C

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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Erm... I guess we're kinky by definition, however our play does not feel kinky to me. Mr may have a different opinion. Our play includes sploshing, bondage, breath play, impact, pegging, little bit of cbt, sensory overload where possible.

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over a year ago

Reigate

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I heard it said, it's only kinky the first time

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

Very kinky here and love it !

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