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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Mrs L here. Does anyone have any advice on how we would go about finding a cuckcake. We don’t know where to begin really. We are aware that our dynamic is quite rare but a starting point would be appreciated.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I was a cuckcake a few years ago. Was fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was a cuckcake a few years ago. Was fun! "

How did that come about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not wishing to sound unhelpful at all but genuinely the first thing I would do is to search the forum for “cuckqueen” , there’s been a few threads already where cuckcakes have identified themselves.

Other than that it might be pretty hard as it not a category on here to search for but tops like putting these terms into your username somehow can help others find you.

I’m not sure what kind of dynamic you had in mind but just from a cuckcake’s perspective, I would just like to point out that for me at least, there’s a very big difference between the chap from a couple meeting a cuckcake on their own and all three getting together at same time.

The fun for me is that the lady of the couple is involved and has the power by giving away her man and decided what happens rather than there being any kind of humiliation of her.

Not sure if others feel the same ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not wishing to sound unhelpful at all but genuinely the first thing I would do is to search the forum for “cuckqueen” , there’s been a few threads already where cuckcakes have identified themselves.

Other than that it might be pretty hard as it not a category on here to search for but tops like putting these terms into your username somehow can help others find you.

I’m not sure what kind of dynamic you had in mind but just from a cuckcake’s perspective, I would just like to point out that for me at least, there’s a very big difference between the chap from a couple meeting a cuckcake on their own and all three getting together at same time.

The fun for me is that the lady of the couple is involved and has the power by giving away her man and decided what happens rather than there being any kind of humiliation of her.

Not sure if others feel the same ? "

Thank you, I did search the forums but most of the posts were quite old. This is me looking for advice mainly. No I’m not looking for humiliation, and he wouldn’t be going alone. I want to be there with him, join in if I wanted to. But mainly I want to see him and another woman have fun however they wanted to.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"I was a cuckcake a few years ago. Was fun!

How did that come about? "

Kinda just happened. Met in a club. I wasn’t looking for it. But it was good whilst it lasted.

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Wow, a term that is new to me

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

I have cuckquean tendancies but have found it almost impossible to find any ladies/couples they appear to be very rare indeed.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby


"Not wishing to sound unhelpful at all but genuinely the first thing I would do is to search the forum for “cuckqueen” , there’s been a few threads already where cuckcakes have identified themselves.

I have been looking for this too it's proving very difficult.x

Other than that it might be pretty hard as it not a category on here to search for but tops like putting these terms into your username somehow can help others find you.

I’m not sure what kind of dynamic you had in mind but just from a cuckcake’s perspective, I would just like to point out that for me at least, there’s a very big difference between the chap from a couple meeting a cuckcake on their own and all three getting together at same time.

The fun for me is that the lady of the couple is involved and has the power by giving away her man and decided what happens rather than there being any kind of humiliation of her.

Not sure if others feel the same ?

Thank you, I did search the forums but most of the posts were quite old. This is me looking for advice mainly. No I’m not looking for humiliation, and he wouldn’t be going alone. I want to be there with him, join in if I wanted to. But mainly I want to see him and another woman have fun however they wanted to."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind if we ask what is a cuckcake?

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
over a year ago

Hyde


"Mind if we ask what is a cuckcake?"

cuckcake is a female identified participant in a cuckquean scene who has sex with the dominant. The female equivalent of a bull.

I never knew until just now either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you, learn something everyday lol.

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
over a year ago

Hyde


"Thank you, learn something everyday lol. "

It's a pleasure. And you certainly do. We still do for sure anyway haha

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By *R.MandMRS.TCouple
over a year ago

lurgan

We're in the same boat as youse it's realy hard to find a solo female for me to watch with Mr

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It does seem hard find I did a forum post about this a couple of years back the main response was not being able to see enough of the male half in photos of the couples looking for this which I totally agree with.

Also that it was felt like a pressure to perform.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to chat about this! This is our thing

Unfortunately though, fab isn’t the right channel for this. Too niche

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

Yes I have cuckcake tendencies too, probably because I always feel sexually sub to Mr S anyway

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