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"I wish there was a place for post op women and men on here x maybe if your are ok with being open can you add yourself to this chat so it's easier to find. Both ftm and mtf if your not shy about it. I find both very erotic " This isnt a dig... Post op people will be identifying as the gender they present as. To have jumped through the hoops they will necessarily have had to in order to be whete they are, they would most likely wksh to be treated as `a man` or `a woman`. It would be a shame to have gone through all that to then be fetishised in terms of having once had a different physique. As I said, not a dig, more an observation. | |||
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"I wish there was a place for post op women and men on here x maybe if your are ok with being open can you add yourself to this chat so it's easier to find. Both ftm and mtf if your not shy about it. I find both very erotic This isnt a dig... Post op people will be identifying as the gender they present as. To have jumped through the hoops they will necessarily have had to in order to be whete they are, they would most likely wksh to be treated as `a man` or `a woman`. It would be a shame to have gone through all that to then be fetishised in terms of having once had a different physique. As I said, not a dig, more an observation. " Yes some do and some dont and also some do not like being fetishized so I am trying to be careful not to hurt anyone's feelings | |||
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"I wish there was a place for post op women and men on here x maybe if your are ok with being open can you add yourself to this chat so it's easier to find. Both ftm and mtf if your not shy about it. I find both very erotic This isnt a dig... Post op people will be identifying as the gender they present as. To have jumped through the hoops they will necessarily have had to in order to be whete they are, they would most likely wksh to be treated as `a man` or `a woman`. It would be a shame to have gone through all that to then be fetishised in terms of having once had a different physique. As I said, not a dig, more an observation. Yes some do and some dont and also some do not like being fetishized so I am trying to be careful not to hurt anyone's feelings " Understood. Not sure you'll get many takers in this thread though. | |||
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"I find both very erotic " You want them to identify on here to accommodate you fetishising them. Not cool dude. | |||
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"I find both very erotic You want them to identify on here to accommodate you fetishising them. Not cool dude." Well some people like to be admired | |||
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"I find both very erotic You want them to identify on here to accommodate you fetishising them. Not cool dude. Well some people like to be admired " Darling please understand. To have gone through the process of transitioning and all that that entails it is surely only compassionate to allow that person to identify as the gender they present as. Indeed I would go further to say they are not presenting as anything but actually are that gender. As such anyone in that position will probably not wish to identify themselves as a trans anything they will just be a man or a woman and wish to be seen and treated as such. I fully understand that you don't want to offend anyone and I believe you. But your post is suggests that you are sexually attracted to a woman who is a woman but in some people's eyes would have been seen as a man. This is misgendering (even if unintentional) and that ain't cool. | |||
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"I find both very erotic You want them to identify on here to accommodate you fetishising them. Not cool dude. Well some people like to be admired Darling please understand. To have gone through the process of transitioning and all that that entails it is surely only compassionate to allow that person to identify as the gender they present as. Indeed I would go further to say they are not presenting as anything but actually are that gender. As such anyone in that position will probably not wish to identify themselves as a trans anything they will just be a man or a woman and wish to be seen and treated as such. I fully understand that you don't want to offend anyone and I believe you. But your post is suggests that you are sexually attracted to a woman who is a woman but in some people's eyes would have been seen as a man. This is misgendering (even if unintentional) and that ain't cool." Look I get it | |||
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"I find both very erotic You want them to identify on here to accommodate you fetishising them. Not cool dude. Well some people like to be admired Darling please understand. To have gone through the process of transitioning and all that that entails it is surely only compassionate to allow that person to identify as the gender they present as. Indeed I would go further to say they are not presenting as anything but actually are that gender. As such anyone in that position will probably not wish to identify themselves as a trans anything they will just be a man or a woman and wish to be seen and treated as such. I fully understand that you don't want to offend anyone and I believe you. But your post is suggests that you are sexually attracted to a woman who is a woman but in some people's eyes would have been seen as a man. This is misgendering (even if unintentional) and that ain't cool. Look I get it"  | |||
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"I find both very erotic You want them to identify on here to accommodate you fetishising them. Not cool dude. Well some people like to be admired Darling please understand. To have gone through the process of transitioning and all that that entails it is surely only compassionate to allow that person to identify as the gender they present as. Indeed I would go further to say they are not presenting as anything but actually are that gender. As such anyone in that position will probably not wish to identify themselves as a trans anything they will just be a man or a woman and wish to be seen and treated as such. I fully understand that you don't want to offend anyone and I believe you. But your post is suggests that you are sexually attracted to a woman who is a woman but in some people's eyes would have been seen as a man. This is misgendering (even if unintentional) and that ain't cool. Look I get it "I see from your earlier post entitled ‘Trannies’ and Trans girls … I’m not quite sure you do get it! R | |||
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"I find both very erotic You want them to identify on here to accommodate you fetishising them. Not cool dude. Well some people like to be admired Darling please understand. To have gone through the process of transitioning and all that that entails it is surely only compassionate to allow that person to identify as the gender they present as. Indeed I would go further to say they are not presenting as anything but actually are that gender. As such anyone in that position will probably not wish to identify themselves as a trans anything they will just be a man or a woman and wish to be seen and treated as such. I fully understand that you don't want to offend anyone and I believe you. But your post is suggests that you are sexually attracted to a woman who is a woman but in some people's eyes would have been seen as a man. This is misgendering (even if unintentional) and that ain't cool. Look I get it
I see from your earlier post entitled ‘Trannies’ and Trans girls … I’m not quite sure you do get it!
R "Maybe he is just trying to understand the concept rather than creating a fetish? I do appreciate there is loads of difficult hoops people who know they were born the wrong gender have to go through to be able to live life to their fullest potential, but a lot of people have no clue, probably most of general population think you just wake up one day and decide you don't want to be the sex assigned to you at birth. It's not like you can freely discuss those issues with your "mates" down the pub, a lot of the times you can't discuss it with anyone. Why can't things be a bit more open on the forums here without people asking getting accused of "fetishizing" etc? I get that even the need to start the transitioning process is very personal and a sensitive topic, but as a cis woman, I don't want to feel I can't ask. I love the work Jake and Hannah Graf are doing to spread awareness and I get that not everyone wants to be that open about their journey, but it would be great not to have our heads bitten off just because we, cis people, dare to ask. | |||
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"It's funny there was a post from a newly operated on woman on here posting up concerned she would no longer be attractive to men and people swam to her support. Now a man shows that he finds both cis women and mtf attractive and now I am some kind of fiend. I swear to god the well has gone bat shit crazy" No one said anything of the sort. In fact the first sentence of my post was very clear that I wasnt having a dig. Was just trying to advise. | |||
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"It's funny there was a post from a newly operated on woman on here posting up concerned she would no longer be attractive to men and people swam to her support. Now a man shows that he finds both cis women and mtf attractive and now I am some kind of fiend. I swear to god the well has gone bat shit crazy" I think it's all in the wording...cis women are women...mtf are women...just think of them as women and you'll be fine. | |||
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