FabSwingers.com forum: Training guide for fembois to trans

By *inkyguyUK OP Man
over a year ago

worcester

I am looking to put together a guide for those that are either gender fluids, trans or want to cross dressed. A guide teaching tips from how to dress, make up, going out, safety tips through to serving men and women in the role. I would love some help from those that have done this themselves willing to pass on the information to others. Anyone who is interested in helping please message me

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

This begs the question of why on earth you want to do this when you have no experience or advice to offer?

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By *inkyguyUK OP Man
over a year ago

worcester

"This begs the question of why on earth you want to do this when you have no experience or advice to offer?

Well it's just an idea a friend wants to help with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Gwen.

I have a lot of TV friends and they will look for and take advice from each other.

They have the benefit of experience.

I can see that you obviously find them attractive but how can you possibly guide and give advice unless you have walked in their shoes? (Literally)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with Gwen.

I have a lot of TV friends and they will look for and take advice from each other.

They have the benefit of experience.

I can see that you obviously find them attractive but how can you possibly guide and give advice unless you have walked in their shoes? (Literally)"

100%!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truthfully? This feels like you just trying another way to bring trans women onto your radar.

There is a wealth of information and support out there for anyone transitioning from peers, allies and the community in general. People with real experience and insight.

Like, what even is a training guide? Training to do what? And why would specifically someone who's transitioning be looking to serve men or women? What would qualify you to give any this sort of advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have thought about doing something like this. I have written books before and like to think I'm well turned out.

The main challenge is commercial appeal. A project like this takes an enormous amount of work, and the producers deserve to be adequately compensated for their time, effort, and experience.

However, I suspect that such a project would have limited appeal if sold on, say, Amazon.

I would argue your best bet is a YouTube channel. A lot of work goes in, it's free for the consumer, and producers are compensated with ad revenue if the project has mass appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For clarification, I'm not referring to the "serving men and women" thing.

I'm talking about a guide for trans people on how to do makeup, skincare, and put together an outfit.

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By *om114Man
over a year ago

Belfast

What on earth

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"This begs the question of why on earth you want to do this when you have no experience or advice to offer?

agreed

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I am looking to put together a guide for those that are either gender fluids, trans or want to cross dressed. A guide teaching tips from how to dress, make up, going out, safety tips through to serving men and women in the role. I would love some help from those that have done this themselves willing to pass on the information to others. Anyone who is interested in helping please message me "

There are loads of organisations that do this... Either lobbying groups like GIRES and Mermaids or paid "dressing services" in most cities and big towns.

There are also a lot of LGBTQ+ support groups in most cities where a lot of the youngsters are identifying as non-binary / gender fluid and dressing how they like.

Words like "fembois" is kinda old fashion sounding to me...

You could be stuck in the 1990's or noughtys when trans support was a new thing.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

There’s plenty of ‘guides’ online, from YouTube channels to organisations that would support most sections of the community.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

In terms of make up ect theres already hundred thousand hours of videos giving that advice on youtube, TikTok and across multiple platforms. For me what would be different with your content to make me watch rather than professional makeup artist/drag queens/ other established platforms. By no means personal, but what would set you apart from the rest?

For serving people there is no right way and a guide probably would be worth doing as every D/S or kink dynamics are very different and unique to those people. So what works with my doms wont be the same as someone elses. Everyone has different forms of how they “serve”. It might work if you did more of a safety thing for example safe words, different parts of the body that shouldn’t be played with for example around the liver unless you know what your doing. But then again how do you build trust with your audience that you know what you’re doing.

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