FabSwingers.com forum: Your Loss

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After saying 'no thanks' to someone and their response is 'Your loss', how many nights sleep do you lose worrying about just how big a loss it might be?

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Lol none at all. We had a couple recently who tried to see our face pics before sending theirs (as usual). We managed to get them to send theirs first but they were not for us and we politely told them so. STILL they demanded to see ours as it would be rude of us not too !?!?, so we had to block them. They then created another profile to attack us again so blocked that one too !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lol none at all. We had a couple recently who tried to see our face pics before sending theirs (as usual). We managed to get them to send theirs first but they were not for us and we politely told them so. STILL they demanded to see ours as it would be rude of us not too !?!?, so we had to block them. They then created another profile to attack us again so blocked that one too !!

Oh my, that's quite worrying that they've gone to that trouble to get to you. Sounds like you dodged a bullet there.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It's best not to reply rather send "no thanks", less chance of a follow up message which could even be abusive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's best not to reply rather send "no thanks", less chance of a follow up message which could even be abusive. "

We do delete most of the messages we get. The ones that make a bit of an effort and send a face pic we try and reply to. Most are quite polite.

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Absolutely none, I don't even give them a further moment's thought.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Oh, all of them.

That I missed out on one of the endless sea of unwanted noodles has kept me awake at night for years. Every additional one just makes every night harder, for sure.

The shame of it all.

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By *lfacatMan
over a year ago

Kendal

"Oh, all of them.

That I missed out on one of the endless sea of unwanted noodles has kept me awake at night for years. Every additional one just makes every night harder, for sure.

The shame of it all."

I’m sensing a touch of sarcasm in your reply…

;-)

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"After saying 'no thanks' to someone and their response is 'Your loss', how many nights sleep do you lose worrying about just how big a loss it might be? "

No longer that 0.001 of a second lol

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Not many. You win some, you lose some. We prefer to concentrate on enjoying the things we actually do rather than the things we didn't (that chances are were rubbish anyways).

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Oh, all of them.

That I missed out on one of the endless sea of unwanted noodles has kept me awake at night for years. Every additional one just makes every night harder, for sure.

The shame of it all.

I’m sensing a touch of sarcasm in your reply…

;-)"

Shit.

What gave the game away?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Used to be 1001 nights. Nowadays I just quickly send back an apologetic message and admit how ungrateful I was.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh, all of them.

That I missed out on one of the endless sea of unwanted noodles has kept me awake at night for years. Every additional one just makes every night harder, for sure.

The shame of it all.

I’m sensing a touch of sarcasm in your reply…

;-)"

I've got a feeling that this entire thread is drenched in sarcasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve developed insomnia ever since that woeful day of missed dry vagina. Sometimes i weep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even a nanosecond.

If you don’t fancy them then it’s certainly not a loss!

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

Ah let me think about for a second, absolutely none at all

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

"After saying 'no thanks' to someone and their response is 'Your loss', how many nights sleep do you lose worrying about just how big a loss it might be? "

Weeks! Months!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After saying 'no thanks' to someone and their response is 'Your loss', how many nights sleep do you lose worrying about just how big a loss it might be? "

I'm an insomniac so I wouldn't lose any!!

On the plus side!

Only five sleeps till Christmas!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh, all of them.

That I missed out on one of the endless sea of unwanted noodles has kept me awake at night for years. Every additional one just makes every night harder, for sure.

The shame of it all."

For me it’s the first one who replied with such a message. Still haunts me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its never my loss as i have sex with anyone who asks

Just kidding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After saying 'no thanks' to someone and their response is 'Your loss', how many nights sleep do you lose worrying about just how big a loss it might be? "

If someone has that opinion they weren't worth having to lose to start with. We do find it mildly amusing when profiles that have totally ignored messages from our individual profiles yet post status about not being able to find anyone real

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

It's one of the sayings that makes no sense whatsoever, how can not having something that you never wanted be your loss if you never wanted it? It infuriates me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's best not to reply rather send "no thanks", less chance of a follow up message which could even be abusive. "

I've always replied to a rejection message by thanking them for letting me know and wishing them good luck.

Being nice to others makes us feel happy, being angry makes us feel bad. Why make yourself feel bad?

...and once, a very nice couple who'd rejected me remembered my politeness and messaged me the following week

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Only had it once.

All it did was affirm it really wasn’t our loss, and we slept easier for it

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Had it a few times, just confirms I made the right decision.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"After saying 'no thanks' to someone and their response is 'Your loss', how many nights sleep do you lose worrying about just how big a loss it might be? "
none because you can’t miss out on something you never had in the first place .

We all have our preferences !

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"After saying 'no thanks' to someone and their response is 'Your loss', how many nights sleep do you lose worrying about just how big a loss it might be? "

Lol! I'm an insomniac so......

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I never got a “your loss”

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've had couples message out of the blue to tell me I'm too old and too straight to be successful here and they kindly provide me with a list of instructions that I must carry out before they will consider adding me to their to-do list.

When I decline their tempting offer I've been told it's my loss and they often throw in a little "do you not know who we are and who we have fucked?" as a way of making me feel even worse for rejecting them.

All combined I must have lost at least 30 seconds of sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Someone said your loss to me in 1981 and I still wake up with cold sweats some 40+ years later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely none.

If anything, a comment like that just goes to prove that I've made the right decision and probably dodged a bullet as it demonstrates a massive sense of entitlement, arrogance and self-importance

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"After saying 'no thanks' to someone and their response is 'Your loss', how many nights sleep do you lose worrying about just how big a loss it might be? "

Zero.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

What were you like 16? I was an embryo. Lol!

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By *oupleJCCouple
over a year ago

The Big Smoke, London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely none.

If anything, a comment like that just goes to prove that I've made the right decision and probably dodged a bullet as it demonstrates a massive sense of entitlement, arrogance and self-importance"

This

Zero sleep lost

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Yes I was 16 at the time.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I don't ever see it as my loss if I've chosen to not have something that I didn't want anyway

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