FabSwingers.com forum: Safe butt plugs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’d like to get a jewelled bp they look rather cute. I am worried about it disappearing up my bum though. Which ones are cute but safe?

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I have a jewelled one and did nearly lose it once fortunately i was quick and caught it but it really put me off.

I will only trust a t-bar based plug now shame you don't get many of those with jewels on.

I'd rather be safe than cute though.

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By *llblueMan
over a year ago

Irvine

Yes a T bar one is safest. Ann Summers do good ones.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I have a jewelled plug, but never really use it …. I’m terrified of losing it!!

I have a few lovely plugs and toys with t-bars, and have much more fun … and confidence in playing with … and wearing for a while!

R xx

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By *xploring2getherCouple
over a year ago

Desborough

S likes her jewelled one

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yeah, we had an unfortunate incident with a jewelled one - stay well away!!

I now use an nJoy - anatomically shaped, weighty and it has a metal loop handle on the end, so good for various scenarios. They're not cheap but worth every penny

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I reckon one with a metal loop. With a good strong bit of cord tied to it!

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

I only buy T-bar ones for partners now after hearing a few stories of the jewel ones disappearing inside...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never heard about horror stories with the jewelled ones… might have to think and change fast to a t bar, not liking much the sound of losing it inside!

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By *ornwallkink2017Couple
over a year ago

Cornwall

Thank god… we thought it was only us that had one pop inside! A few very anxious moments but all good…. Looks great but not for used when fucking!

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

"Yeah, we had an unfortunate incident with a jewelled one - stay well away!!

I now use an nJoy - anatomically shaped, weighty and it has a metal loop handle on the end, so good for various scenarios. They're not cheap but worth every penny

Mmmmmm …. I have an Njoy … a lovely toy! … one that would be hard to lose!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

T bar everytime!!!!, these jewel ones look pretty but are not safe

They're not flared enough hence so many people losing them up themselves! X

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Check Etsy online the t bars one's are excellent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d like to get a jewelled bp they look rather cute. I am worried about it disappearing up my bum though. Which ones are cute but safe? "

Used one on during sex once, she nearly lost it! Was quite a worry for a few minutes until I managed to get it out!

That would be an embarrassing trip to A&E!

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By *hrissycox66TV/TS
over a year ago

watford

Trick for jewelled but plugs is to cut a circle of latex bigger then jewelled end small hole in middle of latex just big enough to Stretch so butt plug can pass through it and hey presto wear your but plug safely knowing you won’t loose it

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By *ulie RobertsTV/TS
over a year ago

Southampton

"I’d like to get a jewelled bp they look rather cute. I am worried about it disappearing up my bum though. Which ones are cute but safe? "

I threw mine out as it was too small and I nearly lost it they seem to suck themselves up your bum just got it out in time!!

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By *inkyguyUKMan
over a year ago

worcester

Don't worry I am sure the A and e have seen worse up people's bums including a number of day time TV presenters and other strange objects

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never heard about horror stories with the jewelled ones… might have to think and change fast to a t bar, not liking much the sound of losing it inside! "

We will have to invest in one with a tale then

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By *ooleyMan
over a year ago

preston

So many people reporting they've lost the jewelled ones... scary!

and a shame, it was my fave.

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By *imandher123456Couple
over a year ago

gosport

We have 3 different sizes of jeweled ones , certainly the smaller two do seem to exhibit the tendancy to disappear ,not had that issue on the large one yet .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never heard about horror stories with the jewelled ones… might have to think and change fast to a t bar, not liking much the sound of losing it inside!

We will have to invest in one with a tale then

Mr"

Am I unlocking a new kink for you, dear husband?

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By *cooby5555Man
over a year ago

galway

But surely you would be able to push it out naturally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But surely you would be able to push it out naturally "

It seemed to be working its way further up so didn't want to wait any longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d like to get a jewelled bp they look rather cute. I am worried about it disappearing up my bum though. Which ones are cute but safe?

Used one on during sex once, she nearly lost it! Was quite a worry for a few minutes until I managed to get it out!

That would be an embarrassing trip to A&E!"

Wouldn't be the first time for A&E

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"We have 3 different sizes of jeweled ones , certainly the smaller two do seem to exhibit the tendancy to disappear ,not had that issue on the large one yet ....."

Beat me to it. I don't think it is the jewel aspect per se but the size and lots of people buy the cheaper and smaller jewelled ones. If buy one of the larger ones much safer. The same issue of course with many non-jewelled ones with the flare part at the end being too small. So yes needs either circular with large flare (generally larger, more expensive ones), or some kind of t-bar shape, or steel with a hook/ring or one of my faves, the tail type. We've got both of the latter and love them

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

What do you mean by saying “you lost it” or “almost lost it” ?

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By *ryitonce6978Man
over a year ago

Barrow

Just bought this one...

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/butt-plugs/jewelled-butt-plugs/p/lovehoney-power-jewel-beaded-aluminium-jewelled-butt-plug-5-inch/a46761g83951.html

Not just the rounded jewel one.

Any horror stories of these type?

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Just bought this one...

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/butt-plugs/jewelled-butt-plugs/p/lovehoney-power-jewel-beaded-aluminium-jewelled-butt-plug-5-inch/a46761g83951.html

Not just the rounded jewel one.

Any horror stories of these type?"

That looks to have a wider base the the others but I'd still be careful as the flare of the base isn't a lot wider than the stem of the plug itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a jewelled one in now.

After all these posts I'm now terrified and about to take it ou.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

You can get jewelled ones with wider flatter 'heads'.

Check for measurements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use something similar to the jeweled ones except mine has glass domes with naughty words.

Never had a problem disappearing.

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By *ryitonce6978Man
over a year ago

Barrow

Thanks for your advice...

Maybe I'll try it indoors for short periods and see how I get on.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I've got a set of silicone ones which I've not had problems with (so far). They're a lovely sparkly blue/purple with a rose gold end. Hueman comets

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Lost a silicone jewel one once, the jewel part just popped out of the silicone and away it went.

We stick to anchor/T shaped ones, still have a small metal jewel type with a handcuff loop to try out too

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nobody has ever lost a butternut squash up their chuff.

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By *utDoSomeMoreCouple
over a year ago

Southport

Ashley has small, medium and large jewelled butt plugs and has had no issues with them slipping in too far x

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I have a jewelled butt plug from Ann summers and love honey- always been fine, the jewelled end is much thicker and sticks out so can’t imagine how you’d lose it x

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

"I have a jewelled plug, but never really use it …. I’m terrified of losing it!!

I have a few lovely plugs and toys with t-bars, and have much more fun … and confidence in playing with … and wearing for a while!

R xx"

Stunning Rachael stunning

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Not lost my jeweled one yet, did lose an egg once

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

"Don't worry I am sure the A and e have seen worse up people's bums including a number of day time TV presenters and other strange objects "

I've never had a daytime tv presenter up my bum. First time for everything I suppose.

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By *nSearchOf12Couple
over a year ago

London

We can confirm from experience that jewelled plugs tend to have a base that is too small and, especially of worn during sex, can get pushed in too easily.

The issue seems to be that a circular base large enough to be safe is also uncomfortable between the cheeks.

Our go to plugs are now the nJoy for heavy steel plugs and Egg Plugs by Square Peg Toys for silicone. Both are comfortable for longer periods of play, come in a range of sizes and the Square Peg also in a range of firmnesses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Losing a plug up my ass is my worst fear! I’d only use one if I tied string to it

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By *ill69888Couple
over a year ago

cheltenham

Etsy sell metal butt plugs with a t bar and a jewel in the t bar.

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By *usty40Man
over a year ago

godstone

Used to use my jewelled ones all the time but nervous now

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

Mr here my butt plug I use has a vock ring and chain attached can keep it in most the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the jewelled stainless steel butt plugs. Set of 3.

I've only ever played with the middle and the biggest one. Smallest one looks too dodgy and could slip inside. Other two are safe.

I wouldn't let anyone else get their hands on them though while inside me. More control that way...

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

I have a vibrating one with remote control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an unfortunate incident with a jewelled butt plug...thankfully it was retrieved. But they aren't very safe

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

"Yeah, we had an unfortunate incident with a jewelled one - stay well away!!

I now use an nJoy - anatomically shaped, weighty and it has a metal loop handle on the end, so good for various scenarios. They're not cheap but worth every penny

Mmmm I have an N-Joy too …. a lovely toy, great fun xx

Love your pics … stunning figure xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had exactly that happen today with a small jeweled one. I did get it out, but I panicked thinking of there faces in A and E. I won't be using it again. Gem x

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"I had exactly that happen today with a small jeweled one. I did get it out, but I panicked thinking of there faces in A and E. I won't be using it again. Gem x"

Made for a good pic though! Maybe you could send it to us

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

Think I'll stick to using an actual plug after reading this thread though it may prove difficult to have a bath at the same time.

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