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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Trying to find how woman like to be talked to on here as I'm struggling to find a meet and unsure why is there something wrong with my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you don't smoke on the job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as you'd talk to a woman in real life. With respect, through your mouth and not your penis. But ultimately that still doesn't guarantee a reply, it's a numbers game so don't get too disheartened OP.

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By *y_CinnamonWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

The mention of 420 would put me straight off.

And you smoke.

Pics aren't very creative, bio needs some work.

Always read a profile, be polite, and say why you think you'd be so good match when sending a msg

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I understand that I never go for the forward approach id prefer to find out more about the woman but doesn't seem to work at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That is understandable really I do get you and any tips on how to make my profile more attractive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No don't smoke on the job to be honest I've stopped smoking it all together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t seem to drag a decent conversation out of any

Or gain any interest

Must be me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The mention of 420 would put me straight off.

And you smoke.

Pics aren't very creative, bio needs some work.

Always read a profile, be polite, and say why you think you'd be so good match when sending a msg "

Yep,, filthy smelly shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The 420 seems to be an issue can any one else say how to improve the profile that I have ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a casual observation, you say you know how the site works, yet need advice. Your lack of success may be in part through assuming what the site is about?

Lover your expectations, treat people with respect. Also stop trying to get a meet. Sounds counterintuitive but the harder you try, the harder it is. A meet will happen when you aren't deperately trying to get one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I understand I'm not looking for just meets trying to find connections with like minded individuals not to sleep round the site

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Maybe smile in your pics op and look a bit more approachable.

Also what are you offering meets? You need to give people a reason to want to meet you.

Your age will rule you put with some ladies and couples ,so look for those seeking younger or your age .

I don't know what your messages are like so can't comment on what you send out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Messages I send basically is trying to find out more about what interests the woman I read the full profile before messaging and try to tailor them to individuals but Thank you for the advice of is all appreciated all of you even the criticism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone you message will check out your profile before even considering opening what you've sent them. If they're unimpressed or simply don't fancy you, they'll either leave it unread or delete it.

I find your profile contradicts itself.

You claim to know how the site works but have only been here for 5 weeks - which is nothing in fab terms - and here you are asking for advice.

Then you say you're only interested in women - but will meet couples.

Which is it?

Do you actually KNOW what you're looking for.

I would suspect that anyone looking at your profile would get the impression that you don't really know what you're looking, perhaps soewhat confused or even trying to appeal to everyone.

If I were you, I'd delete your bio and start again from scratch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear, seems perhaps the young lad may have taken some of these comments a little too much to heart, when all we were doing was trying to help.

I wasn't suggesting he delete his account - just rethink his profile text.

Shame.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Wow that was quick, post for advice and unlos within a hour.

Mrs

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