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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So had a meet last weekend, woman enjoyed it. Refused to verify me as she didn't want others to enjoy me too... Is that playing the fab game?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not compulsory to give a verification but to give that as a reason is a bit weird

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its not compulsory to give a verification but to give that as a reason is a bit weird"

I understand it's not compulsory but it's just not part of the fab etiquette lol

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"So had a meet last weekend, woman enjoyed it. Refused to verify me as she didn't want others to enjoy me too... Is that playing the fab game? "

Everyone I’ve met has said exactly the same thing, that’s why I’m not verified despite having loads of meets….unbelievable isn’t it….

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

What she really means is... She doesn't want people to know she has met you... She doesn't want people to know she has met someone that isn't them... She doesn't want people to know how many people she has met... She doesn't want any crap from other people interested in you... Or her... And many other reasons... Or she is a massive loon and doesn't want others to meet you, if true, I would steer clear of meeting her again and meet a non clingy nut job... Verifications don't get you laid on here, attraction does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What she really means is... She doesn't want people to know she has met you... She doesn't want people to know she has met someone that isn't them... She doesn't want people to know how many people she has met... She doesn't want any crap from other people interested in you... Or her... And many other reasons... Or she is a massive loon and doesn't want others to meet you, if true, I would steer clear of meeting her again and meet a non clingy nut job... Verifications don't get you laid on here, attraction does "

^ this

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"What she really means is... She doesn't want people to know she has met you... She doesn't want people to know she has met someone that isn't them... She doesn't want people to know how many people she has met... She doesn't want any crap from other people interested in you... Or her... And many other reasons... Or she is a massive loon and doesn't want others to meet you, if true, I would steer clear of meeting her again and meet a non clingy nut job... Verifications don't get you laid on here, attraction does "

Yep all of the above and other reasons too. Some people love swapping veris and some do everything to avoid them. One lady I knew used to block everybody right after meeting as she didn't want veris from anyone. The other possibility is that she didn't enjoy meeting and didn't know what to say.

It's true it is attraction that matters more than veris but some help massively as a single man and you have some already so wouldn't worry.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What she really means is... She doesn't want people to know she has met you... She doesn't want people to know she has met someone that isn't them... She doesn't want people to know how many people she has met... She doesn't want any crap from other people interested in you... Or her... And many other reasons... Or she is a massive loon and doesn't want others to meet you, if true, I would steer clear of meeting her again and meet a non clingy nut job... Verifications don't get you laid on here, attraction does

^ this"

Or....she's actually three raccoons in a raincoat.

OP, people don't have to verify everyone they meet. Maybe she just thought as you already had a green tick it didn't matter. It's not a competition to see who gets the most after all. You met, you had sex and a good time apparently....is that not enough?

There could be any number of reasons she didn't leave one. You'll never know why so what does wondering achieve?

A

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Well you've already got veries so i don't see what difference her adding a verie would make.

To be honest the people i didn't used to verify were those who I felt had misrepresented themselves in some way to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi could someone verify me im new to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi could someone verify me im new to this "

You could get the site to photo verify you for a start?

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By *ditya_JDMan
over a year ago

Sheffield , Oxford

I have had this. Met someone who doesn't want to show verifications to avoid confirming that she is meeting here. She told me that it is due to her personal life, and she doesn't want to leave a proof that she has met someone. Although this doesn't make any sense to me but may be this is common here.

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I won't verify everyone I meet, there's no 'etiquette' to say you're expected to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep me too! this is more common than you think !

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

We’ve met a few people off here, mostly in clubs that haven’t verified us.

We use to take it to heart as a bit of a personal slur but in all honesty it’s up to them and you can make people do want they don’t want to do.

We always verify people where we can even if they don’t verify back.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"So had a meet last weekend, woman enjoyed it. Refused to verify me as she didn't want others to enjoy me too... Is that playing the fab game? "

Lol Tony had that once, a 25 year old girl who didn't want others knowing who she'd met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What she really means is... She doesn't want people to know she has met you... She doesn't want people to know she has met someone that isn't them... She doesn't want people to know how many people she has met... She doesn't want any crap from other people interested in you... Or her... And many other reasons... Or she is a massive loon and doesn't want others to meet you, if true, I would steer clear of meeting her again and meet a non clingy nut job... Verifications don't get you laid on here, attraction does

^ this

Or....she's actually three raccoons in a raincoat.

OP, people don't have to verify everyone they meet. Maybe she just thought as you already had a green tick it didn't matter. It's not a competition to see who gets the most after all. You met, you had sex and a good time apparently....is that not enough?

There could be any number of reasons she didn't leave one. You'll never know why so what does wondering achieve?

A"

Raccoons have me laughing my head off

M.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So?

Verifications aren't compulsory.

I've met a number of people who are still on fab that I've asked if they'd be so kind as to give me a verification and they have, for reasons of their own, chosen not to do so.

And that's perfectly fine

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