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By *edi123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

aberystwyth

Where do you go to find others?

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We found out last serious girlfriend at Dave's work (managed a clothes shop at the time)

The one before we met in a gay bar.

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Do you mean polygamy? Or polyamory?

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

My partner and I were straight for 15 years before we wanted to start going to fetish clubs. So, we made an agreement. Then Covid hit.

Then I got seriously hit on by a woman at work, and technically this was within the terms.

It's... working just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do you go to find others?"

Go to a bigamist party

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By *edi123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

aberystwyth

Is it not the same?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Is it not the same?"

Polygamy is that harem building one man with multiple women who are faithful only to him.

Polyamory is a bit less shitty as a concept

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

It’s always a good idea to query anyone’s understanding of terms (see also ‘soft swap’!) but, yeah, completely different.

Above poster is dead right - polygamy is one man with more than one female partner (usually married), where the woman aren’t allowed multiple partners. Polyamory is probably what you’re after - multiple loving relationships with the full knowledge of everyone involved.

However - if you’re after FWBs or FBs with little deep emotional commitment, I would steer clear of describing yourselves as polyamorous, as it really muddies the water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Polygamy is that harem building one man with multiple women who are faithful only to him.

Polyamory is a bit less shitty as a concept "

Fantastic definition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polygamy is very much based on a religious thing to maintain a patriarchal thing. It is all about the man sowing his seed with multiple sister-wives. The wives know each other but all live separately and the Man shares his time between them and the individual families. Commonly found in Islamic, Hindu, and Mormon faiths and traditions.

ENM covers so very much more. There are an almost unlimited variation in how the relationship dynamic can evolve into. Take a look at morethantwo.com it is a really well written resource.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who was it who said "Bigamy is having one husband too many. Marriage is the same."

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

This series on Netflix, you me & her, is all about polyamory, I loved it!

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By *edi123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

aberystwyth


"It’s always a good idea to query anyone’s understanding of terms (see also ‘soft swap’!) but, yeah, completely different.

Above poster is dead right - polygamy is one man with more than one female partner (usually married), where the woman aren’t allowed multiple partners. Polyamory is probably what you’re after - multiple loving relationships with the full knowledge of everyone involved.

However - if you’re after FWBs or FBs with little deep emotional commitment, I would steer clear of describing yourselves as polyamorous, as it really muddies the water. "

Thank you for clearing that up.

You are correct, POLYAMORY is what we are looking for.

Is there a site where you can meet others?

Many thanks x

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"It’s always a good idea to query anyone’s understanding of terms (see also ‘soft swap’!) but, yeah, completely different.

Above poster is dead right - polygamy is one man with more than one female partner (usually married), where the woman aren’t allowed multiple partners. Polyamory is probably what you’re after - multiple loving relationships with the full knowledge of everyone involved.

However - if you’re after FWBs or FBs with little deep emotional commitment, I would steer clear of describing yourselves as polyamorous, as it really muddies the water.

Thank you for clearing that up.

You are correct, POLYAMORY is what we are looking for.

Is there a site where you can meet others?

Many thanks x"

Best ones in my experience are Feeld and OK Cupid. Both have their pros and cons, but they seem to be the best of a bad bunch.

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By *isstucWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I really wish there were better forums for poly people to meet Glasgow has a munch this weekend and Edinburgh has a well attended munch . As some one who's new to the poly scene I wish there was just more - any pointers are welcome

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By *ulldipadovaMan
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I want to try a poly relationship experience In Dorset area

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Middle aisle Aldi covers lots of options.

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