FabSwingers.com forum: What photos to post?

By *atnay OP Couple
over a year ago

STEVENAGE

Hi all. Nat from Jatnay here.

We're struggling on what type of pictures we want to set as public.

We had a few of us with clothes on. Face shots, as figured it best to be upfront with our looks.

However, after loosing count of the number of single men messaging us (several within quarter of a mile of where we live), despite stating in our bio not to. We have now set them to friends only and only couples can message us for now. We are happy to share pics in messages with ppl we are talking to though.

The thought of being recocnised in the street where we live is a real concern for us.

We're not comfortable with posting vadge and cock shots either. Doesnt appeal to us that much. Would rather just pictures that say something about who we are as a couple.

Question is, hide our faces or not?

Please share your thoughts and advice. But be kind, we're still very new to the scene.

Also welcome thoughts on our profile in genral.

Please help...

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By *ichaelsmyMan
over a year ago

douglas

i always prefer the ones with something left to the imagination as public photos.

any others can be for friends or sent as private messages

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Google couples boudoir pics. You can come up with something that shows your personality and connection without your faces.

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By *atnay OP Couple
over a year ago

STEVENAGE

"Google couples boudoir pics. You can come up with something that shows your personality and connection without your faces. "

Love this idea, thank you. I'll do that.

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By *atnay OP Couple
over a year ago

STEVENAGE

"i always prefer the ones with something left to the imagination as public photos.

any others can be for friends or sent as private messages"

I agree with you.

I like the pictures we have. They are just snaps of us. In the ciema waiting for film to start, a selfie just as I was about to go out and a close up face shot. Like the idea of photos where we are in full frame too.

But do we hide our faces?

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By *atnay OP Couple
over a year ago

STEVENAGE

Decided to put pics to public for now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics are great

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Front and back of all your debit and credit cards.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

You can stop single men from messaging by using the filters. As for pictures, look at sources of pictures like instagram and twitter or tge hit pics sections. When you find the ones you like, note down the pose and try and emulate.

Remember people who take good pics normally take a ratio of 10:1 to get a good one. We also use a timer app. It takes 50 pics at intervals then you can adjust your pose and pick the good ones.

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By *atnay OP Couple
over a year ago

STEVENAGE

"You can stop single men from messaging by using the filters. As for pictures, look at sources of pictures like instagram and twitter or tge hit pics sections. When you find the ones you like, note down the pose and try and emulate.

Remember people who take good pics normally take a ratio of 10:1 to get a good one. We also use a timer app. It takes 50 pics at intervals then you can adjust your pose and pick the good ones."

Setting filters done. Thats better now.

Will look into using a timer and taking 50 pics at a time.

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By *atnay OP Couple
over a year ago

STEVENAGE

"Front and back of all your debit and credit cards."

Did you realy mean the debit or credit cards?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Just body shots that show both of your body type is fine.

Can be clothed if preferred and heads cropped off.

I'm half a couple and my main thing is that when i look at a couple profile ,theres pics of both people available.

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

We like to avoid anything too graphic while giving an idea of what we both look like in body shots.

Prefer to see pics of both of a couple, especially if they’re looking for couples to interact with.

We don’t make face pics public but have become a bit more relaxed about sending them in messages nowadays, if we’re making a plan to meet up.

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

I (Sean) have recently started to simplify my thoughts on who we are looking to attract. Swingers or Shaggers?

I'll probably cause comments from those who will deliberately misunderstand what is written here, but I/we see swingers as people who you are happy to spend time with, PLUS you enjoy having sexual encounters with them too. Therefore, I look for pictures which show a little of the personality. We also try to only upload pictures which do the same.

In contrast, it seems most others on the site concentrate more on asset size, to get more bang for their buck. In my head, I refer to these as Shaggers. This isn't derogatory, it's just a simplification.

If you ask yourself whether you want to attract Swingers or Shaggers, you can then upload pictures accordingly.

We don't share face, vag or dick pics, nor do we ask for them. This is because they aren't reflective of the personality.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"i always prefer the ones with something left to the imagination as public photos.

any others can be for friends or sent as private messages"

So glassey not classy doesn't do it for you

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