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By *resh8585 OP   Man
over a year ago

Poulton

Hi,

Thanks for your advice in advance.

Looking to make the profile more appealing. Any tips or advice from a couples/ladies perspective would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I suggest not having a penis as a profile pic

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By *resh8585 OP   Man
over a year ago

Poulton

Thanks for the constructive feedback.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Thanks for the constructive feedback. "

This attitude won’t do you any favours either. The comments above were good advice.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

More pics and not of the cock.

Mrs

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"More pics and not of the cock.

Mrs "

Certainly not with the wife’s dress hung up in the background…

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"More pics and not of the cock.

Mrs

Certainly not with the wife’s dress hung up in the background… "

can't cope

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Thanks for the constructive feedback.

This attitude won’t do you any favours either. The comments above were good advice."

Not sure how it could have been worded any differently to be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

Thanks for your advice in advance.

Looking to make the profile more appealing. Any tips or advice from a couples/ladies perspective would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks "


"Hi,

Thanks for your advice in advance.

Looking to make the profile more appealing. Any tips or advice from a couples/ladies perspective would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks "

I'd suggest setting the dick pic to friends only or private, and just send it if requested. Include some tasteful clothed and underwear shots. Maybe something formal too.

Consider setting age filters, speaking for myself, I find 18-99 ranges off putting. Would you really sleep with an 18 or 99 year old? It reads as 'anything will do'.

Expand your bio a bit. Something a bit more interesting that shows more about you as a person. What are you looking for etc. You need to remember you're competing with many other single males and you need to differentiate yourself from the sea of generic or blank and boring profiles.

Take a look at some of the successful single male profiles and see what they're doing to make themselves stand out.

Wishing you the best of luck.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Thanks for the constructive feedback.

This attitude won’t do you any favours either. The comments above were good advice.

Not sure how it could have been worded any differently to be honest!"

Probably leave out the eye roll emoji.

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By *resh8585 OP   Man
over a year ago

Poulton

The comment was for a previous post which has now been deleted that said don't post the ugliest picture ever. Not the couples comment on the dick pic. I appreciate all the constructive comments.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP we do not know you so can't tell you what to put on your profile.

Your profile is your shop window. As it stands all I know is your gender and that you want to meet women.

You need a selection of photos and information about what you want and what you can offer.

Remember to manage your expectations. Men far outnumber women so can afford to be choosy.

Most importantly effort in = better results. So, if you really want to meet, maybe get to a social or a club where it's much easier to show what a great bloke you are.

Nita

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Thanks for the constructive feedback.

This attitude won’t do you any favours either. The comments above were good advice.

Not sure how it could have been worded any differently to be honest!

Probably leave out the eye roll emoji."

I meant the suggestion he was replying to about the dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want to share your face, which is understandable, a headless photo of what you would wear to a meet?

Or If you have a keen interest in something, then a photo of you doing that?

Whether that is you on the top of a mountain or at the pub with your favourite drink.

I would advise against more than one cock photo.

And also think about the background.

A photo taken in a public toilet gives the wrong impression to most.

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

I would maybe detail why you can't accommodate....

That detail and the fact you've added the phrase 'discreet' makes me think you're married and I would've swerved when single (well... still would now lol)

Bio Need lots of work im afraid and rework those pics back up!

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By *resh8585 OP   Man
over a year ago

Poulton

Is this better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this better?"

A gave up reading it sorry

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

I know I always check for photos before I bother reading a profile (if I do bother) so probably a good idea to actually upload some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still no photos..

Many users automatically delete messages from silhouettes.

Even a clothed torso pic, or your shoes, anything is better than nothing.

And too much meaningless text for me I'm afraid.

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde


"Is this better?"

So.... you're never going to please all but this is YOUR profile to reflect whom YOU are and whom you wish to attract.

1- you still need to add pics. Doesn't have to be face or cock..... body shots work.

2- I actually really like your bio. I can tell you're educated and articulate and I would definitely be interested. It is a little long- I would delete 2 paragraphs near the bottom.... I forgot which so will check and post again lol

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

Right....

The ones starting....

'Don't wait any longer' and below it

'Get ready ....'

I think those two are just fluff that repeat other stuff

But yeah.... personally I like the bio.

Good luck again

K

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Is this better?"

No pics and tbh gave up reading. The thing is you’re never going to please everyone bud. What may be too convoluted for us, might be just right for someone else.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Text is good but with no photos at all, I think you'll struggle.

You do describe yourself well, but this could be a complete lie. In my opinion photos are essential.

Nita

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By *resh8585 OP   Man
over a year ago

Poulton

Thanks. Photos are coming. Just not had the chance to take new ones.

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