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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How on earth does everyone find partners that are interested in the same thing lol. Me and my ex was swinging but it was just by chance conversations we realised we like the same things. Unfortunately she moved away so now I’m sat thinking if I’ll ever find someone that shares this kind of lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking exactly the same.

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By *leepyEyedJayMan
over a year ago

Toronto

You could.. DM... Each other...

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Maybe having other similar interests besides the swinging

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I met my partner at a swingers party so we knew from the start we shared the same interest

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By *achelorpadMan
over a year ago

Yeovil

Wish I could find a partner that liked swinging...I'd like to find a partner now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely looking for a woman who would like a relationship and go to clubs ect, I'm not really interested in participating myself I'm more of a cuckold, would love to see her with other men

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

It is definitely possible, OP. Try clubs, organised socials or private parties?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

going on naked attraction got to be a winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging isn't the reason to find a partner. Its something partners might try if they both want to down the line.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I met my partner Jack on here 7.5 years agao & I really wasn't looking for more than fun.So it does happen op,good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But if you’ve already had a relationship involving it then you’ll know what you seek in your next relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr and I getting together was very random and unexpected in the sense that neither of us was looking for anything at the time. Then, as we got to know each other the subject of swinging/ethical non-monogamy came up. And then we realised we were both looking for the same thing but had not had the opportunity to explore with other partners before.

So just go about your life, enjoy meeting new people, and when you least expect it you'll meet your 'person'...Good luck!

Mrs

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Maybe having other similar interests besides the swinging "

Trying that but getting meets are impossible

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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

In my experience 99.9% of men like the idea of swinging but wouldn't be in a relationship with and I quote "those type of girls"

Single men who want a relationship within swinging are rarer than unicorn teeth

IMHO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience 99.9% of men like the idea of swinging but wouldn't be in a relationship with and I quote "those type of girls"

Single men who want a relationship within swinging are rarer than unicorn teeth

IMHO "

I'd much rather a swinging relationship then a vanilla relationship, I absolutely love going to the clubs and think I'd struggle giving that and all the friendships up that I've built within the lifestyle

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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"In my experience 99.9% of men like the idea of swinging but wouldn't be in a relationship with and I quote "those type of girls"

Single men who want a relationship within swinging are rarer than unicorn teeth

IMHO

I'd much rather a swinging relationship then a vanilla relationship, I absolutely love going to the clubs and think I'd struggle giving that and all the friendships up that I've built within the lifestyle "

I agree with you, and the honesty between swinging partners about wants/needs/limits is much healthier. Unfortunately that level of maturity and non stereotype is difficult for some people to cope with in a relationship, possibly me included I'm yet to find out lol

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"In my experience 99.9% of men like the idea of swinging but wouldn't be in a relationship with and I quote "those type of girls"

Single men who want a relationship within swinging are rarer than unicorn teeth

IMHO "

Definitely true and the irony is they’re all the ones on here trying to sneakily have their cake and eat it too at the possible expense of the self confidence and faith in humanity of the person they supposedly love most. Couldn’t write it

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"In my experience 99.9% of men like the idea of swinging but wouldn't be in a relationship with and I quote "those type of girls"

Single men who want a relationship within swinging are rarer than unicorn teeth

IMHO "
Way to brush us all with the same stroke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience 99.9% of men like the idea of swinging but wouldn't be in a relationship with and I quote "those type of girls"

Single men who want a relationship within swinging are rarer than unicorn teeth

IMHO "

Some men here are very clear that they are happy to sleep with other mens' wives but wouldn't share their own. Some but I think the same goes for women - they want a mono relationship. I've certainly found that most guys I've talked to her or any other site aren't that keen on non-monogamy. In theory sometimes they are but the reality is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's just swinging you want in common then it's easy, Tinder and an honest profile, even if that means women you know reading you enjoy swinging as we all know people on that site.

The harder bit is finding somebody you also fancy the pants off, have jobs, lifestyles, personalitys and life skills that compliment each other. We got lucky, good luck OP.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

Would love a swinging relationship, but I think men are intimidated by me

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By *re1986Man
over a year ago

Suffolk

Yeah my ex was so cool with everything that it makes me question if il find someone like that here, but in general it seems very difficult to find a relationship these days! Tbh I'd sacrifice this lifestyle for someone. So yeah lol I dunno

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By *andy57TV/TS
over a year ago

york

In all honesty I sat down and did the old fashioned communication ie talking to each other

It the same as explaining that I like to dress also and wow for many years I had a super relationship even shopping together.

But we found it easier to start of at a club that way you are pretty much guaranteed to bothe receive attention

Over the year we made some great freinds also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here as singles years ago and were FWB. Then we ended up dating, then married, now kids and back on here as a couple to explore some more

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Maybe having other similar interests besides the swinging

Trying that but getting meets are impossible "

Wow

But I understand there needs to be an attraction and most of the good looking guys are spoken for then obviously the distance between long distance relationship don't always work unless both seriously commited

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Never had any issues finding women with the same/similar kinks.

Be open from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How on earth does everyone find partners that are interested in the same thing lol. Me and my ex was swinging but it was just by chance conversations we realised we like the same things. Unfortunately she moved away so now I’m sat thinking if I’ll ever find someone that shares this kind of lifestyle "

I did. I met her on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could.. DM... Each other... "

Ooooh budding romance?!

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By *arry LickitMan
over a year ago

Wales

I like the thought of being in a relationship with a woman who swings but I'm not much interested in swinging myself. Love to find someone who I can wine and dine and take to meet people and encourage her to live out her fantasies and desires. I didn't think I would ever say things like this because before I discovered swinging I had no interest whatsoever to share my woman, but I just think it's amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging isn't the reason to find a partner. Its something partners might try if they both want to down the line."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging isn't the reason to find a partner. Its something partners might try if they both want to down the line.

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Totally agree. Not interested in swinging with a fwb or fb. Would need a solid relationship where swinging was an added bonus not the primary focus. Don't want to feel someone is with me just to access swinging lifestyle.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"How on earth does everyone find partners that are interested in the same thing lol. Me and my ex was swinging but it was just by chance conversations we realised we like the same things. Unfortunately she moved away so now I’m sat thinking if I’ll ever find someone that shares this kind of lifestyle "

Let me join this club. Would love to find someone who understand this lifestyle and want things beyond.

From this site and clubs I met few couples in relationships I’d like to be so I know for fact it’s possible. I won’t compromise nowadays

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

I met my last partner on here!

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